More and more, couples who are celebrating significant anniversaries opt to not receive gifts. If you do want to still give a gift, please do so at a separate time from the anniversary party. Showing up with a gift at the party is embarrassing to the hosts and guests who did not bring a gift.
Gifts do not have to be traditional (i.e. 1st anniversary: paper or plastics; 50th: gold). Giving a beautiful pewter picture frame with a cherished picture of the couple is perfectly acceptable for the "Silver 25th." A personally-designed scrapbook documenting the couple?s 10 years together might be much more welcome than tin or aluminum! Think outside the box.
About the Emily Post Institute
The Emily Post Institute, created by Emily in 1946 and run today by third generation family members, serves as a "civility barometer" for American society and continues Emily's work. That work has grown to address the societal concerns of the 21st century including business etiquette, raising polite children and civility in America.