Happy Mother’s Day

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This is Mother’s Day Weekend, one of the busiest times of the year for us. It’s a time to celebrate not just your own mother, but all of the moms, grandmothers, and surrogate moms who have inspired us and make us stronger every day. We would not be who, or where, we are today without them.

As part of our Moms Matter Even More this Year campaign, we invited you to share stories of a mother that you’re thankful for in your own lives. The stories we received left us speechless. Take Rachel’s mom, Deborah. Deborah is an operating room nurse who broke her foot at work a week before the pandemic hit. Deborah rehabbed and was able to convince her orthopedic doctor to remove her cast, and instead put her in a walking boot, so she could get back to work on the front lines to battle this crisis. In the words of her daughter, Deborah has “a true servant’s heart and is one special nurse” – we couldn’t agree more.

We also heard of the selflessness of Natalie’s mom, Jennifer. When Natalie became a single parent of three and joined the Army active duty, Jennifer dropped everything and lived with Natalie and her three boys at her first duty station. When Natalie was deployed to Germany, Jennifer stayed back home and was an amazing grandmother.

Then there’s Bridget, Tyreke and Tyler’s mom. Bridget is a mental health counselor who continued taking calls from patients and referrals alike at no fee. According to her boys, Bridget also prays with the people unsure and fearful of the future in the face of the coronavirus, while still taking care of her family and working towards her Master’s degree – an inspiration for us all.

With schools closed and so much work being done remotely, mothers are being asked to do more than ever this year. We rely on them to hold our families together, to continue celebrating special moments even amidst this challenging time.

Today we are also celebrating, and thinking about, the remarkable mothers in our own family. We witnessed our grandmother manage and grow a local business in a male-dominated-field. We watched our own mother fight tirelessly on behalf of her special-needs son (our brother, Kevin). Our wives, Marylou and Kathy, have shaped our families, and have been true partners in business. Our sister, Julie, has worked with our Creative Workshops and our company’s signature philanthropic partner, Smile Farms. Chris’ daughter, Jenna, who joined the company last year, decided to celebrate Mother’s Day by having her first child on May 6 (Congratulations!). We have been amazed to watch her navigate the challenges of bringing a child into the world during these difficult times. Our company, and our family, would not be what it is today if not for the tenacity, kindness, and hard work of these and other “McCann Mothers.”

Even if you can’t be together in person, make sure you find a way to make this weekend special for the mothers in your life. Tell them how much you miss and appreciate them, maybe even share a story or two of how much they’ve helped you along the way. We’ll be sure to do the same.

Happy Mother’s Day,

Jim and Chris

Moms Matter Even More This Year

Our series “Celebrating Motherhood” shares inspiring stories, helpful advice, and insightful recommendations to help you choose the perfect gifts to help you express your love for moms of all types.

You may have heard of our long-running program, “Mothers Who Matter Most”. This year, the campaign has evolved into “Moms Matter Even More This Year”. Why? Because this Mother’s Day will be different. Whether working remotely, serving on the front lines against the virus, or taking care of their grandchildren at home, moms are being called upon to do more than ever right now. You may not be able to be with the important mothers in your life and celebrate in person, but that doesn’t change the enormous role mothers play in the lives of our families and communities.

“Mothers Who Matter Most” began some thirty years ago when we received a heartwarming request. A peculiar envelope, printed in block letters, was sent to our Bayside, Queens, NY office with $16 and a note from a young man who wrote that while he’d certainly made mistakes in his life, his mother had always stood by him. With Mother’s Day approaching, he wanted to know if we could do something special for her. We, of course, sent her a beautiful gift and he was forever grateful. The letter moved all of us and inspired us to ask customers to share with us stories of the incredible mothers in their lives.

Jim & Chris with Mom

At one point, we were contacted by a producer from Leeza, an earlier version of today’s Ellen. This woman told us how touched she was by the stories. We ended up collaborating on a campaign where one of five finalists was featured each day the week leading to Mother’s Day, and several celebrity judges, including Jim, picked the winner. Every year, we look forward to reading through your entries and hearing about these wonderful women and the lives they touch.

Over the years, you have shared with us the ways that Mom inspires you, loves you and makes the world a better place. Two stories, in particular, stick out. Candace wrote to us that now that she was an adult, she could see and appreciate all the sacrifices her Mom made to care for her father, who had a debilitating illness, and keep their family functioning. It is an example of how moms are often unsung heroes and deserve more than just a day of gratitude and celebration.
Another customer remembered being 8 years old and having her mother tell her that she was the kindest person she knew. This compliment stuck with our customer, Emily, throughout her life and shaped her into the person she is today. This reminded us of our mom and how she always stressed the importance of kindness. We love these letters, ones that remind us how mothers impact us in ways both big and small.

This year, as always, we will celebrate all moms and all they do. We are particularly grateful for the moms who are working on the front lines of this health crisis to ensure our families stay safe, in addition to their own.

Who are the mothers in your life who matter most to you? It might be your colleague, a neighbor or a friend doing an outstanding job during these challenging times or, of course, your mom, who continues to amaze you. We’d love to hear about the women in your life doing the world’s most important job. Please share your stories with us.

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Gratitude for Administrative Professionals Week

A Note From Our Founder, Jim McCann

The week ahead is an important one – Administrative Professionals Week. Believe me, it’s one we feel very strongly about here, and I want to tell you why.

To me, this week is an opportunity to celebrate the people in our professional lives who make things happen. As many of us transition to working remotely, some of these folks may be more out of sight than usual. But they should never be far from our minds. If anything, I suspect many of them are working harder than ever – setting up remote offices; coordinating schedules at a distance; keeping facilities clean and up and running for when normal hours resume.

How to show admin professionals gratitude

I could never accomplish half of what I do – nor do it with a smile on my face – without the amazing work of my assistant, Patty. We’ve worked together for nearly 28 years. Patty, Jo, Lisa, Susan, Kim, Barbara, Tammy, Letty, Marilyn, Andrea and the other amazing administrative professionals at 1-800-Flowers.com are the people who just “make things happen” and we are all incredibly grateful.

Show How Much You Care

Whether you have an administrative professional reporting to you directly or not, we all have people at our offices or workplaces who make the business run smoothly. Make sure you go out of your way to thank them this week and let them know what their work means to you.

I’d suggest we all learn from our 1-800-Flowers.com CMO, Amit Shah. During our all-team offsite meeting last summer in Long Island, NY Amit took half his time on stage to thank those individuals by name who make things happen at 1-800-Flowers.com. Hank and Edward in building services, Brian in the mailroom and Jeanne in reception. It was wonderfully moving and an example for us all.

The administrative professionals in your life may not be there when you walk in these days, nor walking the halls during your workday. So, make sure you go out of your way to thank them. Send a text. Make a phone call. Write an old-fashioned note. Make sure they know how indispensable they are – in these crazy times, more than ever.

Traditions Old & New

A Note From Our Founder, Jim McCann

Many of us around the country are concluding our Easter celebrations or are in the midst of Passover. These will have been unique celebrations, with far fewer faces around the table. But we hope you kept traditions alive and have connected with your family and loved ones who couldn’t be there in person. Maybe you extended a few “virtual hugs,” like I did with my grandchildren.

Last week, I suggested we use this Holy Week to renew our faith, our relationships, and our commitment to our values. It’s important that we keep close to these sentiments as we face more weeks of social distancing and disrupted communications.

Traditions old and new

I have been inspired by the kinds of activities people have been able to continue online, and the new digital rituals that have emerged. At our house, my wife, Marylou, always paints Easter eggs with our grandchildren. Obviously, that was not an option for this year. But we did manage to paint alongside our grandchildren on video chat. My friend, the author and entrepreneur Dave Kerpen, convened a digital Seder and kindly extended me an invitation.

We have a choice, to submit to the disappoint or to be agile and adapt our traditions to preserve our memories and those of our families. How have you been able to keep your traditions alive?

What comes next

Over the holidays, we’ve reflected on the truly important people in our lives. Let’s use these next weeks to deepen those connections. If you find yourself under the same roof as older generations, take the time to ask for stories from their pasts. I’m sure you will be moved, surprised, and delighted by the stories you hear. Don’t be afraid to express your feelings and uncertainties on those phone or Facetime calls. Speaking from the heart may inspire your friend or relative to do the same. Stay focused on those traditions and people that matter, and you’ll emerge from this time with deeper, more meaningful relationships than before.

Be prepared for a new normal, even when the worst of the crisis passes. During a Techonomy digital roundtable last week, Sir Martin Sorrell of S4 Capital said he expected a few things. He will be a lot more reluctant to jump back on a plane. He thinks the work from home/office mix will change and that the rush to digitization will move to warp speed. I expect we will all adjust, slowly, in our own ways. But let’s make sure to use that transition to prioritize. Keep focused on what’s important before jumping back into old routines.

Concluding this Holy Week, one of renewal, think about how we spend our time: work, family, friends and community. It’s a tougher question than we may have thought a month ago.

From Chris, CEO

Our vision as a company is to help people express, connect and celebrate. During this unprecedented time, it has been my privilege to lead such a caring and passionate team who have stepped up again and again to meet the challenges presented by the health care crisis. Their hard work and commitment to helping people connect with each other during this time continues to make me proud. Through it all, health and safety continue to be our first priority. Like so many of you, many of our associates have family members working in health care, on the front lines of this crisis. We have highlighted and honored those individuals, as well as others, in our Local Heroes campaign.

More than twenty years ago, my brother Jim and I identified our “Seeds of Success.” These remain our guiding principles during this crisis – particularly the importance of being outcome-focused and remaining positive. I see these qualities exemplified daily across our company which helps remind me that we will all get through this together.

Stay safe and stay connected.

Jim & Chris


Jim McCann
Founder


Chris McCann
President & CEO
1-800-FLOWERS.COM, Inc.

A Time to Reflect

A Note From Our Founder, Jim McCann

We are facing an unprecedented challenge. Our professional and personal lives have been upended. The way we work, study, socialize, worship and more will be different for some time yet. Unlike crises past, this is one that affects every one of our families.

A Time to Reflect

If there is any silver lining to this crisis, it is that we are being pushed into a heightened state of consciousness. I consider this kind of situation a “forcing function”. The term dates to the 19th century, but it’s most often used today, in user experience design, to describe a feature that prevents someone from taking action without giving it their explicit attention.

A time to reflect by Jim McCann

For me, a forcing function prevents us from living our lives on autopilot. By disrupting our normal rhythms, the virus is forcing us all to take a closer look at our lives. Some things that seemed important in our busy daily lives may no longer seem as critical. And now we may see more clearly the people and experiences that deeply matter.

These Holidays Will be Different

We are coming up on two major holidays, Passover and Easter, which will give us all even more opportunity to reflect on the truly important. Most of us will be celebrating differently this year, but it is our responsibility – for our families, the memories of our children and our communities – to make them as meaningful as possible. Look around the table. Encourage everyone to tell a story about a friend or relative who couldn’t attend. Maybe capture those stories on your phone and send them to your loved ones. Or surprise them with a FaceTime call. I am planning to do some combination of the above.

Easter celebrates new beginnings. Passover recalls the suffering of our ancestors and the great fortune of those who survived to keep the faith alive. Let’s think of these times as a forcing function that ask us to renew our faith, our relationships, and our commitment to the values we hold dear.

Anticipating the holidays, I think back to what my parents and grandparents went through in the Great Depression. It taught them the difference between wants and needs. To never lose sight of what matters most. They never forgot the lessons of the past, and instilled them in me and in my brother, Chris, whose focus is devoted to our business and our customers during this difficult moment.

From Chris, CEO

In these trying times, I am so proud of the effort and care our team is exerting. Our management team is devoted to weathering this storm and has been doing a great job attending to the needs of our team members, vendors, communities, and our customers, who are relying on us to express and connect more than ever.

In our family growing up, there were certain relatives we only saw at Easter time, like my Uncle Author and Aunt Laura. I have great memories of those visits. It’s important to make celebratory moments special for our team members, families and communities. As Jim said, these holidays are going to be different but it’s within our power to craft our behaviors to make them meaningful and special. The challenge we face as a company, and a community, is how do we make them meaningful and memorable.

Easter and Passover are a wonderful time for you to reach out to those you miss, care about and hold dear whether by a text, a phone call or an email. These holidays will certainly feel less celebratory than in years past. But we all owe it to ourselves, our communities, our families, and especially our children, to keep our traditions alive – even if we do them a little differently this time.

Wishing you health and safety,

Jim & Chris


Jim McCann
Founder


Chris McCann
President & CEO
1-800-FLOWERS.COM, Inc.

Inspiration Through Words of Wisdom

Thoughts and Advice from
1-800-Flowers.com Founder Jim McCann

In these anxious times, I find it is sometimes comforting to look back to wisdom forged in crises past. Few captured our country’s amazing resilience as well as FDR. I was recently reminded of this often-overlooked passage from his fourth inaugural address in 1945. FDR shared these remarkable words with Americans looking to him for guidance. I hope his words inspire you, as they did me:

“We shall strive for perfection. We shall not achieve it immediately—but we still shall strive. We may make mistakes—but they must never be mistakes which result from faintness of heart or abandonment of moral principle.

I remember that my old schoolmaster, Dr. Peabody, said in days that seemed to us then to be secure and untroubled, ‘Things in life will not always run smoothly. Sometimes we will be rising toward the heights—then all will seem to reverse itself and start downward. The great fact to remember is that the trend of civilization itself is forever upward; that a line drawn through the middle of the peaks and the valleys of the centuries always has an upward trend.’

Our Constitution of 1787 was not a perfect instrument; it is not perfect yet. But it provided a firm base upon which all manner of men, of all races and colors and creeds, could build our solid structure of democracy.

Today, in this year of war, 1945, we have learned lessons—at a fearful cost—and we shall profit by them.

We have learned that we cannot live alone, at peace; that our own well-being is dependent on the well-being of other Nations, far away. We have learned that we must live as men and not as ostriches, nor as dogs in the manger.

We have learned to be citizens of the world, members of the human community.

We have learned the simple truth, as Emerson said, that, ‘The only way to have a friend is to be one.’

We can gain no lasting peace if we approach it with suspicion and mistrust or with fear. We can gain it only if we proceed with the understanding and the confidence and the courage which flow from conviction.

The Almighty God has blessed our land in many ways. He has given our people stout hearts and strong arms with which to strike mighty blows for freedom and truth. He has given to our country a faith which has become the hope of all peoples in an anguished world.

So we pray to Him now for the vision to see our way clearly to see the way that leads to a better life for ourselves and for all our fellow men—and to the achievement of His will to peace on earth.”

Making a Plan to Connect with Friends and Family

Thoughts and Advice from 1-800-Flowers.com Founder Jim McCann

“If there is one silver lining to this fast-unfolding crisis, it has been remaining in close contact with my immediate family. I am lucky in that my three grown children and grandchildren are all (relatively) nearby. Over the last four or five days, I’ve had many more conversations than usual with my son-in-law, my daughter, and my two sons. Even while I worry about what they’re feeling – anxiety, fear of the unknown – all this contact has made me feel better. Today, I suggested that we have a daily conference call for the four of us. We first tried it this morning. We talked about real things, no nonsense at all. It was reassuring and, I think, healthy. I heard their concerns, and we talked about problems and solutions, namely, what to do if someone gets sick.

I suggested previously that you think about the people in your life you want to connect with – or even connect with on a more regular basis – and divide them into four groups: friends, family, coworkers and neighbors. I urged you to develop a contact plan and get into the habit of checking in on a regular basis, for your benefit and theirs.

I also would encourage you to use the amazing new communication technologies available today – Zoom, FaceTime, Skype, Google Hangouts, etc. – to create regular group conversations among your family or specific groups of friends. If you have older folks in your circles who have never embraced a technology like that, do them a favor: Call them and walk them through setting it up. It will change their lives. In these anxious times, it’s more important than ever that they can see familiar faces as well.”

staying connected tips by jim mccann

Thoughts on Staying Connected from Our Founder Jim McCann

“Against the backdrop of the coronavirus outbreak, I’ve had four conversations with four different friends that were deeper, more emotional, and more honest than I can remember having had in the months that proceeded. The steps we take to keep ourselves safe – whether isolating or breaking up our normal routines – can also exacerbate our feelings of loneliness, even fear. Knowing we’re all experiencing these feelings in different ways is all the more reason to make the effort to connect. Here’s what I would suggest.

Jot down a list of people – even just three, four, or five – under the following headings: friends, family, coworkers, and neighbors. Develop a contact plan for the days and weeks ahead for those you should be reaching out to on a more regular basis. It could be an aunt who lives alone, or far away, that is taking this outbreak especially hard. It could be an older neighbor, or neighboring couple, who may be isolating as a precaution and may need help or just company. Some you may want to contact every day, some every week. These need not be long conversations – they can even be emails or tags on social media.

What I know is that this will make them feel better — and you, too. I certainly felt this with the friends I spoke to recently. They felt an empathetic release, and I did too. You’ll offer comfort to these friends, coworkers and relatives, and you may find benefit and greater intimacy that will, one day, pay dividends. At the end of this period – and rest assured, it will end – you will emerge with more, deeper, and better relationships.”

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