In the series “Valentine’s Day for All,” learn ideas on how to celebrate the holiday with those who are important to you, not just romantic relationships. Here, we offer Valentine’s Day gift suggestions to everyone you love.

Valentine’s Day wasn’t always limited to celebrating romantic love. In fact, experts say St. Valentine himself had an expansive definition of love and how it can be shared.

Increasingly, people recognize that Feb. 14 isn’t just about celebrating your significant other. It’s also an opportunity to celebrate moms, dads, grandparents, kids, stepkids, friends, and even your fourth-grade teacher who still emails you about her favorite class time memories.

But this shift raises a question: As traditional Valentine’s Day morphs into a Valentine’s Day for all, what do we give to one another to express our feelings? We spoke to experts for advice.

Start with a card

The simplest form of expression is a greeting card that conveys, in your own writing, your feelings for the recipient.

“Giving a card would be a must because what we write on the card would be particularly important,” says writer/artist Deanna Washington, author of The Language of Gifts. “It would be a day to express what we specifically appreciate about the people in our lives.”

For example, she says, we could give everyone in the office Valentine’s Day cards to call out exactly what we like about them. Messages could include:

  • “Hey, I dig how cheerful you are on Mondays. Mondays make me want to grouch, but your attitude really makes things better.”
  • “I just want you to know that I notice YOU are the one who makes coffee when the pot is empty. Thank you!”
  • “I notice you always have ideas even when no one else does.”

Don’t forget the gift

Gifts, like cards, should be personalized. She prefers to give people flowers or other gifts that represent the recipient or symbolize the relationship.

“Gifts should be more symbolic than ever on this day to represent just what that person means to you,” she says. “My friend, I’m giving you this daisy because the open face of the daisy is its true glory since your open honesty is what I can always count on from you.” Or to a beloved aunt: “I’m giving you chocolates because you bring such richness into my life.”

Gifts shouldn’t be too extravagant so that everyone feels they can get involved without too much strain on the pocketbook, says Mark Williams, Ph.D., professor of cognitive neuroscience at Macquarie University in Sydney. As long as it’s something that shows you’ve really thought about the person and given them something special to them.

“Personalized socks or boxers with a picture of their face or their dog is a possibility,” says Julie Kenney, founder and president of The Gifting Experts, a company that creates gift bags for celebrity and charity events. . “Or even personalized jewelry or cookies. You can also give them the gift of an experience that you know they’ll love.”

Consider giving the gift of time

Along those lines, says Ellen Langer, Ph.D., a psychology professor at Harvard, it doesn’t have to be technically a gift at all. “Instead of buying things to show your affection, why not just do special things for people you care about?” she says.

Williams agrees that the greatest gift we can give to someone is our time – especially just spending time with them. “I think creating a meal, like at Thanksgiving or Christmas, where we all sit and eat together would be an especially important new tradition.”

Valentine’s Day gifts for all shopping guide

Here, we offer other ideas for Valentine’s Day gifts for everyone on your list.

Straight from the Heart Flower arrangement

For Mom

Wait, is it Mother’s Day already? Give mom that flower delivery moment when she receives her favorite floral arrangement. Mother’s Day may come just once a year but you can create another opportunity to say you love her with flowers, like this Straight from the Heart arrangement, on this day of love.

Terra Ultimate Tool Outdoor Gift Set

For Dad

From teaching you how to drive to being relatively cool when you dented the car, telling dad you care with a nifty Terra Ultimate Tool Outdoor Gift Set modeled after a Japanese gardening tool may almost make up for those past fender benders. Almost.

Lotsa Love Bear

For Young Kids

Your little ones are going to be seriously excited when they receive a plush bear that can include a heart-shaped box of chocolates. Great for naps, reading, and imaginative play.

Georgetown Cupcake Valentine's Day Assortment

For Older Kids

Your tweens, teens, and college-aged kids may have graduated from chicken fingers but it will be hard for them to ever resist something sweet. Gift a dozen Georgetown Cupcake Valentine’s Day Assortment that is almost too pretty to eat. Almost.

Hoya Hearts Succulent

For Friends

Two peas in a pod, or is it two Hoya Hearts Succulents in a container embossed with a heart? Plants are currently having a trending moment as they’re easy to care for and beautiful. A gift that is an apt metaphor for your friendship.

Godiva Ballotin & Love & Romance Strawberries in Heart Box

For Someone Special

Give double the sweetness with both Godiva chocolates and chocolate-covered strawberries in a heart-shaped box. Your loved one will be overjoyed by the thoughtful gesture. Buy two and share!

Your little ones are going to be seriously excited when they receive a plush bear that can include a heart-shaped box of chocolates. Great for naps, reading, and imaginative play.

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Author

Mark Teich is a veteran magazine journalist who specializes in health, medicine, psychology and fitness. His work has appeared in dozens of magazines, including Psychology Today, Sports Illustrated, OMNI, and Harper’s Bazaar. He has a bachelor's degree in English literature from UCLA and a master's in fine arts in creative writing from Columbia University.

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