25 Love Letter Ideas for All Relationship Types

When it comes to romance, choosing the right words is important. Crafting the perfect message to express your feelings isn’t always easy, but doing so can mean the world to your partner. In a time when we’re reliant on impersonal forms of communication, such as texting and social media, a handwritten love letter is a particularly meaningful gesture because it’s deeply personal and requires special attention.

“When you write a love letter, you have to spill your heart on the pages,” says Eros Miranda, relationship expert, TikTok influencer, and host of the Eros to the Heart podcast. “The recipient must know it’s from you and that it reflects how you’re thinking. It has to show them who your true self is.”

Edward Alvarado, a retiree who has been married for 43 years, says conveying your feelings in a love letter is important to both people in the relationship. “It shows you’re paying attention to your partner and you don’t take each other for granted,” he says. “Always tell your loved one you love them.”

Whether you’re newly dating or tied the knot years ago, let us be your Cyrano de Bergerac and help inspire your romantic masterpiece.

Make the greeting personal

Start your love letter with an endearing, individualized greeting. This is important because it will set the tone for your love note. “A great first step is to include a nickname only you call them,” says Brenna Malmberg, social media and marketing manager at Punkpost, which creates original handwritten cards mailed by artists. “That lets them know these words are meant just for them. Knowing you have someone who loves, supports, and cares for you can make a huge difference in your life.”

Some examples include:

  • Dear [nickname]
  • Honey, sweetheart, babe, etc.
  • My best friend
  • My darling
  • My soulmate
  • My one and only

25 love note ideas for a romantic love letter

In the body of your love letter, pour your heart out. Write down memories, what you love about your partner, what you see in your future together, or whatever your heart desires.

Here are examples to get you started, regardless of where you are in your relationship.

What to write in a love letter if you’re newly dating

1. You make my heart smile. I can’t wait to see what our future holds.

2. You’re the peanut butter to my jelly and the stars in my sky.

3. If I had a flower for every time I missed you, I’d be walking in a garden. Being with you, even for a short amount of time, has been wonderful.

4. You inspire me to be the best version of myself. Thank you for being amazing.

5. You always find a way to make my day brighter. I already can’t imagine life without you.

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6. You’re the first person I think of when I wake up and the last person on my mind before I fall asleep. I’m the happiest man/woman in the world because I have you.

7. Whenever I think of you, I can’t help but smile. Falling in love with you is the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I’ve never been happier. I know in my heart that this feeling will last forever.

8. You’re my best friend and the most extraordinary person I’ve ever met. When I think about the fact that you’re in my life, I can’t believe how lucky I am to have found you. You’re the perfect blend of loving, thoughtful, and sweet. I’m so grateful that you chose me.

9. My heart still flutters when I see you. I only want one thing in life, and that’s to be your only love forever.

10. You inspire me to live life to the fullest, and I look forward to many new adventures together. I’ve never loved anyone like this before, and I feel so lucky to have you in my life.

11. I’m head over heels in love with you, and I can’t imagine my life without you in it.

12. I choose you, and I will continue to choose you every day until forever.

13. I knew you were the one when [insert memory].

14. When we first met, I knew my life was about to change because [insert memory].

What to write in a love letter to your wife or husband

15. After all these years, I still remember the first time I saw you. You were wearing a [insert memory of what they wore] and a smile that made my heart dance. You were confident and stunning, and I was a nervous wreck. But you made me comfortable with your natural charm and your bright eyes. On that day, I knew my life was in for a wonderful change. Thank you for being you. I love you so much.

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16. I’ll never forget the day we first met because, for me, it was love at first sight. I was absolutely smitten with you. Today, I’m so grateful to be your husband/wife. Even the little moments, like waking up in the middle of the night to find you beside me, make me incredibly happy. I love you to the moon and back, always and forever.

17. You’re the reason for my happiness, and I look forward to each new day because I get to spend it with you and the beautiful family we’ve created. You’re the love of my life, and I wouldn’t want to be on this journey with anyone else.

18. I love you the only way I know how — all the way.

19. The day I met you was the day I found out dreams do come true.

20. I love you, and that’s the beginning and end of everything.

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21. There are 7 billion smiles in the world, and yours is my favorite.

22. Your heart is as beautiful as you are.

23. My days are better when you’re a part of them.

24. Before I met you, I never knew what it was like to look at someone and smile for no reason.

25. You make me happy in a way no one else can.

Romantic gift ideas

Once you finish writing that love letter, show that person how much you care about them by sending along a gift as well. Here are three recommendations that express the sentiment “I love you more than words can say.”

Mind and Manners: The Importance of a Formal Table Setting

In our “A Time to Gather” series, we’ll teach you how to entertain like a pro. This guide on the correct way to set a formal table setting not only offers simple tips but learn why there’s always room for good manners at the table.

Etiquette is always in style

A dinner table can be styled with the latest trends like a mix of vintage tableware, textures such as burlap or velvet, table runners with metallic or kantha stitching, and an everchanging scope of floral centerpieces. A formal table setting, however, never changes or goes out of style. All dinnerware elements are correctly in place and it can leave an even stronger impression than trendy dishware. A beautifully appointed table is part of being a hospitable entertainer in that it makes your guests feel special and brings you closer to those around you.

“You can immediately set the mood and communicate the importance of a shared meal through a formal table setting,” says Julie Mulligan, 1-800-Flowers.com’s lifestyle and crafting expert. “By taking the time to set the stage with all of the elements needed to enjoy the meal — from silverware, plates, and napkins to glasses, candles, and flowers — you let your guests know that they are important and worth the effort.”

Formal table setting fundamentals

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In this photo guide to a formal table setting, note that all elements are properly placed. Flowers, centerpieces, and food can be set to the host’s preference.

Table settings have two variations. A general setting includes tableware based on what you are serving. There are no glasses, soup bowls, or salad plates if they are not part of the meal. A more formal table setting is what you’d see at a wedding or black-tie event that will have a multi-course meal.

The formal table setting may appear chaotic from its repetitive use of glasses and utensils, but all pieces support the rules of mealtime etiquette. The rule is to work your way toward the plate with your utensils, beginning with the salad fork at the start of the meal. “It is very logical. It teaches you what fork and knife to use when,” says Charlotte Ford, etiquette expert and author of 21st Century Etiquette Guide to Manners in the Modern Age.

How to set a formal table

Get ready to set! Gather your tabletop pieces and allocate almost two feet of space for each setting. The plate is in the middle, at an inch from the edge of the table. The pair of forks are to the left, knives and spoons are to the right, drinking glasses above the knife, and bread plate above the forks. Fork tines point upward, and the sharp edge of the knife faces the plate. The napkin is either set on the plate, next to the forks or beneath them.

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If the dinner calls for soup, salad, red and white wines, along with coffee and tea – the salad is on the dinner plate, the soup bowl is on the plate, with a soup spoon above the bowl pointing to the bread plate. The drinking glass, along with the red and white wine glasses, is set as a trio, and the teacup and saucer are below the glasses/next to the spoon.

Pro tip: Make an OK gesture with both hands and place it over the utensils. The left-hand makes a lowercase b, which points to the “b-for-bread plate.” The right hand creates a d, which points to the “d-for-drinking glasses.”

A complete formal table set

When setting a formal table, begin by draping the table with a tablecloth, placemats, or one or the other. A beautiful surface that aptly showcases an elegant table setting will also do. Make sure your table is cleared to accommodate all the pieces that will compose your formal table setting.

Flatware: Salad, dinner, and dessert forks. Butter and regular knives. Soup, dessert, and regular spoons.

Dinnerware: Plates, cups, bowls, saucers, platters, and serving pieces.

Glassware: Water goblet, milk, wine glasses, and sherbet glass.

Creating the mood

Personalizing the formal table setting is a way for the host to share stories and her style. You can create a welcoming atmosphere with candlelight, an enjoyable playlist, and flowers. Experiment with the setting’s design with a mix and match of colorful plates or stylish napkin rings. Place cards are a classic detail that removes any awkwardness associated with where to sit. A pedestal plate used as a centerpiece showcasing start-your-diet-tomorrow desserts looks divine. “I love the process of setting the table! Let’s face it, there is a lot of work that goes into preparing a delicious meal,” says Mulligan. “And my reward to myself is setting aside the time to create a beautiful tablescape using both cherished family pieces as well as items I’ve collected through the years. And of course, elevating it all with fresh flowers or greenery, and beautiful lighting!”

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The Origins of Cottagecore and Why It’s Popular Today

The series “Seasonal Design” covers home decor and how flowers elevate an environment. In this story, we explain the surging interest in cottagecore and its rich history.

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Brooke Giannetti feeds her animals at Patina Farm, where cottagecore is a daily part of life.

Feeling the need to dust off the granny china and Staffordshire vases? You’re not alone. The cozy appeal of rural life has powered the popularity of cottagecore, an aesthetic movement that seeks to recreate the simple pleasures of country living.

Cottagecore enthusiasts swim in streams, pick apples, and clinch them in their eyelet skirts. They are known to swing around everything from a butterfly net to a badminton racket. A cottagecore home is filled with flowers that are a compact version of the best picks from the garden, displayed in a pitcher that can perform double duty in the washbasin. And, to emphasize the importance of the outdoors, it’s about following the tenets of nature. There is a daily need for flowerslavender soaps, and a kitchen that’s in constant use from cooking and baking.

It’s easy to see why cottagecore continues to grow in popularity today, as sewing, gardening, and braiding hair stimulate the senses more than sliding our fingers across the cool surface of our digital devices. A connection to the tactile is pure cottagecore.

Mimi Bleu, the editor of the lifestyle magazine Belle Inspiration, which covers what women love with an emphasis on authentic French living, defines cottagecore as a new/old world of simple living and harmonizing with nature. “A return to traditional clothing, interiors, crafts, and DIY while still enjoying the convenience of today’s technology,” Bleu says.

What does cottagecore look like at home?

A loose extravagance defines a cottagecore home. For insight into the appearance, look at the designs of houses in the British West Indies from the early 1700s, when colonials traveled great distances with steamer trunks filled with their most valued possessions.

It was customary to set an elegant dining table and chairs outdoors beneath a canvas tent or over an Oriental carpet. Letters were written at a desk with hidden compartments and a place for an inkwell. Women tamed long tresses at their vanities with silver brushes and ornamental hair combs. A hand mirror was also present for a closer inspection of her beauty work. Daily rituals, and the furnishings needed to accomplish tasks, were unabashedly feminine.

Today, the cottagecore design has returned with a rise in comfortable spaces that invite domestic pleasure. Flowers are displayed throughout the home and in creative ways, such as entire stalks or branches. Formal dinnerware isn’t simply used on holidays but enjoyed every day.

Picture of a seating area in a bedroom, which captures such cottagecore elements as books, flowers, and elegant yet functional pieces.
Photo by Jacqueline deMontravel

What’s cottagecore fashion?

A photo of a cottagecore market bag, a popular accessory

Cottagecore fashion is designed for life in the country, clothing that fits in an environment of skimming rocks and naming toads. The aesthetic lends itself to lush visuals with nature as the most sublime backdrop. The fashions of clunky rubber boots, shawls that can do double duty as a blanket, further armored by storm-resistant Barbour coats are as photogenic as an evening at the Met gala. Parasols are multi-functional, used to protect from the sun, as a walking stick, and a fashionable accessory. From carrying lunch to important papers, picnic baskets are another accessory that can perform many functions.

Image of country picnic basket

Wardrobes are filled with hangers of flowy nightgowns and cinched coats with velvet collars that appear to be part of the decor. There’s an art to layering dresses adorned with dainty pink bows, fingerless gloves, calico, eyelet, and lace. A variety of styles seamlessly fit together from a cohesive romantic look.

Whitney Ross, the founder of Whit & Well and designer of the sustainable line of market bags, says that creating wares made of vintage grain sack is both designed in the popular cottagecore style and fits the personality of shopping at a local farmer’s market. “Why not dress the look, literally, with something handmade that supports the environment,” she says.

What’s social media’s impact

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Ironically, digital consumption on social media has helped fuel the cottagecore phenomenon – an aesthetic that seemingly eschews modernity. But feeds connect you to different people, places, and ideas about family and lifestyles.

Everyone gets a warm feeling when they steady their swipe on a cottagecore post, enough to make you want to revisit and further connect with it. It’s like visiting grandma’s house on the holidays where you will always be nurtured from the comfort of the way things once were.

“It’s amazing how one little hashtag can help boost a movement,” says Elyse Major, DIY author and editor-in-chief of the Hey Rhody publications. “I started to notice #cottagecore on some of my favorite Instagram accounts. As a longtime fan of chipped furnishings, faded textile, all things floral – I was instantly curious and went down the cottagecore rabbit hole.”

Rich details abound in a well-crafted cottagecore post. You’ll find images of baked goods, which taste better than something ripped open from a package. Flickering candles create softer, moodier lighting over a panel of LED lights. And nothing looks (or smells) better than fresh flowers. Videos are popular too, like bathing animals and biting from an apple on a tree swing.

How reading fits into the lifestyle

Picture of Emily Bronte book. Reading is a big part of the cottagecore lifestyle.
Photo by Jacqueline deMontravel

Reading books is another part of the Cottagecore ethos – and there’s no better way to learn about the phenomenon. The best guides are the romantic novels of Thomas Hardy, Laura Ingalls Wilder, Louisa May Alcott, Edith Wharton, and Jane Austen – all of whom paint the definitive vision of this classic lifestyle.

The books are thick with detailed accounts of pedestrian acts. There’s nothing basic about how Tess of the d’Urberville eats a strawberry. You can find further inspiration in the daily practices of the heroines of romantic novels, notably Laura Ingalls, Jo March, and Elizabeth Bennet. They all delivered willow baskets bursting with hand-picked provisions in their prairie dresses and lace-up boots after trekking in what seemed like miles of prairie or overgrown bracken so the less fortunate were cared for.

Cottagecore has promoted a discovery in the same self-sufficiency that our romantic heroines followed. Growing food, preparing meals, mending clothes, and playing games en plein air became a necessary anecdote to isolated living experienced during the pandemic.

Cottagecore is another soulful residual that came from isolation, which is more than a trend but a lifestyle. Says Mimi Bleu: “Cottagecore promotes a world of calm and sustainable living, from finding tranquility in a vintage picnic spread across a pretty blanket to taking time for self-care. A movement that allows you to slow down and enjoy life and all that makes it sweet. After COVID, what could be better?”


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7 Ways to Practice Mindfulness on Summer Vacation

The series “Summer Living” offers helpful tips and inspiring stories for making the most of the all-too-short season. A summer vacation should be relaxing, not make you feel anxious. Follow our experts’ suggestions to practice mindfulness so you can enjoy every moment of your time away.

Most people follow one of two strategies on summer vacation. The first has them running around trying to hit all the recommended activities before each day runs out, leaving them exhausted. The second is an attempt at total relaxation — perhaps plotzing in a beach chair and moving as few muscles as possible, except for lifting a piña colada to their mouth. This second option often ends in a stupor.

There is, however, a better alternative: a vacation where you practice mindfulness. Practitioners say it leaves you feeling alive, aware, and energized, but also calm and relaxed. And when practicing mindfulness on vacation, you never need to stow it underneath the seat in front of you or in an overhead bin.

The meaning of mindfulness

The classic definition of mindfulness is “being aware and open in the present moment, without judgment,” says Dina Kaplan, founder and CEO of The Path, an organization that teaches meditation internationally. “By ‘aware,’ we mean aware of what’s going on in our mind and in our surroundings, moment to moment.”

The point is “to channel your best self to manifest the life you desire,” adds certified health administrator and registered yoga teacher Brielle Merchant. “You check in with yourself, assess how you’re feeling in the moment, and ask yourself, ‘How would the best version of me feel in this moment?’ Then you find ways to tap into that,” she explains.

So the next time you get away, practice these seven mindfulness techniques and enjoy the most vivid, satisfying summer vacation you’ve ever experienced.

1. Come back to your breath

“Our brains are wired to swirl in thought,” Dina says. These thoughts can be negative, “like a bad movie we never ordered playing over and over.” Buddhists call this “the monkey mind.” But mindfulness helps you find an anchor to bring your attention to something real in the present moment and to pull away from negative scripted thoughts.

“The breath is an anchor that’s always there for us. When we focus on our breath, that brings us back to the present moment,” Dina adds.

Dina also recommends anchoring onto something real around you: If you’re on a street in New Orleans, for example, look up at one of the beautiful balconies. “With that, you realize the swirling is just your inner world, and there’s this outer world that is beautiful and safe.”

2. Turn your phone off

By not checking your phone for a few hours, you can really be present with whatever you’re doing throughout your summer vacation, Dina says. If you’re at a museum, allow your full focus to be on the beauty of the art. At the beach? Enjoy feeling the sand under your toes, the temperature and sensations of the water on your ankles. The entertainment is all around you, and unlike your phone, you can’t take it home with you.

Mindfulness helps us gain the freedom to focus in the present moment on things that are delightful and help us live more at ease.

Dina Kaplan

CEO & Founder

The Path

3. Forget the guidebook — be spontaneous, follow your intuition

Coming out of the pandemic, guidebooks are out of date anyway, Dina points out. “So be open to finding something that will be in the next guidebook. “Walk around with your eyes open. Rather than being stressed about getting to everything on your packed schedule, be open to detours and side trips — you may find a great new place that opened last month. To be even more in the moment, give yourself 20 minutes to an hour just to wander, following your intuition. “Keep an eye out for interesting stores, bars and restaurants, and if something looks charming, try it.”

4. Build flexibility into your schedule for relaxed playtime

“We’re humans, humans are animals, and animals are meant to be playful,” Dina says. “I was looking at bears on our vacation in Alaska, and they were just rolling on the ground playing.” Give yourself time to be playful and to do whatever you want (though rolling around with bears is not recommended…).

5. Be open to meeting new people

Mindfulness is about being open to yourself and others, so don’t be afraid to make eye contact, share a smile, and ask for directions or about interesting things to do. Strike up a conversation. “I’ve met some of my best friends in very unexpected ways on vacation,” Dina says. If you chat with the person behind you in line, you might get invited to someone’s house, or simply gain deeper insights into that city.

Channel your best self to manifest the life you desire.

Brielle Merchant

Certified health administrator and registered yoga teacher

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6. Take a walk in the woods

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You’d be surprised how much is going on in nature that we normally miss. It’s a feast for the senses. When you’re walking in the woods, pay attention to all of your senses. “Be totally present during the walk, immersing yourself in nature,” Brielle explains. “Notice what you see, what you hear, what you smell; notice how fast or slow you’re walking. It will increase your energy, boost your mood, and stimulate your creative thinking.”

7. Practice noting

Dina recommends an intense version of this mindful walk called “noting.” “Every few seconds, think ‘What sense is most present for me now?'” Walk a few steps, and note all the beautiful colors around you. Walk a few more, and hear birds singing. Walk a few more, and note how you feel connected or lonely, joyous or sad. “Realize if you’re having thoughts you don’t want to have, once you label them, they just swoop away.”

“Mindfulness,” Dina concludes, “helps us gain the freedom to focus in the present moment on things that are delightful and help us live more at ease.” Now, go get packing!


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The Many Benefits of Learning to Love Yourself

Our series “Taking Care of You” focuses on self-care practices, tips for making relaxation part of your daily routine, and advice on destressing and refreshing.

Everyone knows the saying, “You can’t love anyone until you love yourself.” But just because we’ve all heard those words doesn’t make them any easier to follow. Too often, we place the needs of others ahead of our own — whether we’re pouring ourselves into a romantic relationship or trying to be everything to our family — without considering what we really want.

Nurturing ourselves with love through healthy diets, mindful living, physical activity, and developing new habits to promote vitality all help improve our well-being.

Sam Nabil

CEO and Lead Therapist

Naya Clinics

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“We are taught from a young age not to prioritize ourselves because it’s deemed to be selfish behavior,” says Megan Harrison, a licensed relationship counselor in Tampa, Florida, and founder of the relationship site Couples Candy. “Because of this, many adults inadvertently sacrifice their own happiness for the sake of others, putting their own physical and mental well-being last.”

This tendency can wreak havoc on someone’s sense of self-worth. Not only can it cause your own health and wellness to suffer, but ironically, it can have the exact opposite effect of what was intended. Investing all your time and energy in others can lead to resentment and burnout and cause you to lose so much of yourself that you cannot authentically be there for your loved ones.

Megan defines self-love as a “true appreciation of oneself. It teaches us to hold our own health and happiness in high regard,” she says. “When we encompass self-love, we are kind, patient, and gentle toward ourselves, in the same way that we would be toward a family member or significant other.”

Loving yourself can also help you find supportive nurturing from others. “When we love ourselves enough, we are setting a standard for how we want to be treated and loved,” says Sam Nabil, CEO and lead therapist for Naya Clinics.

Undoing patterns

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Trying to change established perceptions can be hard. The first step is often reframing our way of thinking — particularly about ourselves. That can mean extending ourselves the same courtesies we would give to others.

“Self-love also means to be accepting despite one’s own weaknesses. Nobody’s perfect,” Megan says. “We all have flaws, and often we are our own worst critics. But it is a very healthy thing to accept yourself for who you truly are.”

Kate McGuinness, an executive coach and author of Confidence Lost / Confidence Found: How to Reclaim the Unstoppable You, advises that instead of focusing on failures — real or perceived — you should make a list of your accomplishments and most redeeming qualities. “Try to see yourself through the eyes of someone who loves you,” she says. “Edit your inner monologue to minimize self-criticism.”

The benefits can be positively uplifting. Joy Rains, a mindfulness expert and author of Meditation Illuminated: Simple Ways to Manage Your Busy Mind, agrees. “Intentionally cultivating feelings of self-love can actually release hormones that will lift your mood,” she says. “With the brain’s ability to create new neural pathways and new ways to be thinking, you can actually train your mind to develop self-love.”

Joy suggests a simple mediation practice designed to cultivate feelings of self-worth. “Imagine filling with love and compassion on each inhale, and releasing and becoming empty on each exhale,” she says. “If you like, you can silently say to yourself ‘Filling with love’ as you inhale and ‘Becoming empty’ as you exhale.”

As with so many things, the COVID-19 pandemic has added another degree of difficulty, shifting our sense of self. “We have all suffered loss during the pandemic,” says Kathryn Ely, a licensed counselor and behavior specialist in Birmingham, Alabama. “[Loss] may look different for each of us.”

Some people may have lost loved ones, while others missed out on important career opportunities or just the ability to celebrate milestones, such as the birth of a child or a college graduation. “Don’t belittle your loss because you think it’s less than the next person’s,” Kathryn says. “Acknowledge your feelings without critical self-judgment. Give yourself the love and compassion you would a suffering friend. This will go a long way in helping you heal.”

Daily maintenance

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Loving yourself is a great first step, but taking care of yourself is also a crucial component. “Nurturing ourselves with love through healthy diets, mindful living, physical activity, and developing new habits to promote vitality all help improve our well-being,” Sam says.

Along those lines, Karen Kavanagh, a busy mother of twins, created the blog Watered Daily with the idea of practicing self-maintenance with the same diligence one might show a beloved plant or pet.

“Taking just a few minutes out of my day has reduced stress, increased productivity, allowed me to better manage my mindset, and boosted my energy,” she says. “Instead of survival mode, think of it as self-care mode and give yourself that extra lift to get through the day.”

These pick-me-ups, Karen suggests, can be as small as not feeling guilty about taking an hour to work out or reading a book for pleasure. She also advises exploring new interests and hobbies. “The more we fill our own cup, the more will we have to give to others.”

And now that non-essential businesses are starting to re-open and social distancing measures are being lifted, many go-to methods of self-care, such as a manicure and pedicure with a friend or dinner and a show with your spouse, are back on the table. More options mean more opportunity to treat yourself — and after the year most of us have had, you’ve earned it.

“Splurge on a gift for yourself,” Kate says. “Watch a movie you love or donate to a cause you believe in.”

Or you can start even simpler. “Have you ever said, ‘I love you’ to yourself in the mirror?” Karen asks. “These three simple yet powerful words are an easy way to show ourselves some love. Try it the next time you see your reflection.”


For more tips on self-care and wellbeing, watch this episode of “Mindful Moments with Devi Brown.”


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New Year, New Challenges: Back-to-School Tips and Solutions

Staying Connected features the many ways you can keep-in-touch with loved ones during difficult times. From stories highlighting generosity to tips on staying connected, we’ll bring you expert advice, inspiration, and great ways to ensure you maintain contact with the people who mean the most to you.

2020 is shaping up to be a year unlike any other. This is especially true for parents and educators who face unprecedented challenges as children enter a new school year with COVID-19 on everyone’s minds.

Whether your child will be attending school in-person or participating in virtual classes from home, teachers want to keep everyone safe while providing a sense of continuity. Read on for more information from educators about how to ensure your family’s success during this school year’s transition.

What Back-to-School Looks Like in 2020

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When the Covid-19 shutdown began in March, many schools were proactive in their approach to preventing the spread of the SARS-CoV-2 virus. In some regions, spring break ran long and turned into summer break, while some schools transitioned to remote learning for the last few months of the school year.

Parents and educators — like the rest of us — hoped for a speedy resolution to the outbreak. But as weeks turned into months, it became clear that the impact and reopenings would take longer.

This raised many questions for what back-to-school would look like in the fall. Now, in September, most schools are back in session. In order to abide by social distancing guidelines issued by the Center for Disease Control, schools across the country have adopted the following three options.

In-Person Schooling

Approaches to in-person schooling vary greatly across states and regions, but the majority of school districts are following social distancing guidelines by separating desks, requiring frequent handwashing, maskwearing, and temperature checks.

Some schools are also adopting the “cohorting” approach, where students stay in small groups with one designated teacher, so physical proximity within the classroom is reduced to small “pods” of people. Other efforts to reduce the spread of the virus include daily desk washing, socially distanced walking zones, and eating meals in classrooms.

Returning to traditional in-person education has several advantages, namely the assurance that students will be able to receive a consistent education and not fall behind or struggle with virtual lessons and isolation from classmates. Schools also serve a greater social function in communities, providing food and resources for low-income families, and jobs for many community members.

Of course, the risk of contracting COVID-19 is greater when people gather in enclosed spaces for any length of time. Though schools will make efforts to reduce the risk of spread, there is no guarantee of safety when attending any in-person gathering.

Remote Learning

Most schools — regardless of whether they are offering in-person classes or not — are trying to provide a remote learning environment for families who want to avoid sending their children to physical classes. Many states are mandating that school districts offer both options.

While this is beneficial for families, it puts a great deal of strain on teachers, who have to accommodate the needs of all of their students while also converting their lesson plans to be compatible with remote learning.

Remote education is a great option for communities where infection rates are increased, where children might be more likely to spread or contract the virus if attending school in-person. But virtual classes come with their own set of challenges, namely for elementaryage students who struggle with distance learning, or for lower-income families who rely on lunch programs and other support services that may not be available for remote students.

Hybrid Teaching

Some districts have opted for a hybrid approach, where physical contact is reduced by using e-learning platforms part of the week and returning to in-person schooling for the rest of the week. Alternate hybrid approaches may require students to attend remote classes at the beginning of the school year, with plans to return to in-person classes later in the year.

While this approach has the benefit of being adaptable and scalable for each school district based on community needs, it also puts parents in a difficult position when attempting to work from home, potentially putting their jobs at risk if working from home is not an option.

Teacher’s Perspectives on Pandemic Schooling

It’s common knowledge that teachers are incredible people, used to making miracles happen every day on shoestring budgets, with little planning time, against insurmountable odds. But a global pandemic? That’s a new one even for the most seasoned educators.

For Sarah K., an elementary school teacher in Arkansas, the pandemic threw her entire district into chaos. After teaching remotely for the last two months of the 2019-2020 school year, summer brought a fresh wave of anxiety and indecision. “We spent the majority of the summer in the dark, trying to create alternative lesson plans that could be utilized remotely while begging for updates about our contracts,” she said. We actually had to agree to contracts that we hadn’t even seen yet, inadvertently agreeing to teach both in-person and remotely for no extra pay.

With the exorbitant fees required to break our contracts, Sarah K. said many teachers had no choice but to adapt. We want the best for our students, but working 60-hour weeks and trying to meet the needs of students and parents while also taking care of our own families has been a nightmare.”

One common theme seems to be a lack of support for teachers, who often pay for upgraded features for their students out of their own pockets. “If I want to be able to teach effectively, I need the tools to do so,” said Renee D., a veteran math teacher from Wyoming with over 16 years of teaching experience. “I’ve had to pay for upgraded versions of remote learning tools and teach myself how to use these programs in my free time, without any reimbursements.

Other teachers have had different experiences.

Stacey R., a high school science teacher from Maryland, was fortunate to participate in community town halls and union negotiations that granted her district additional resources which helped with transitioning to a hybrid teaching approach. But even with a supportive community and district leaders, teaching looks very different during the pandemic. “My classes are normally very hands-on with students using a variety of materials and lab equipment,” she said. At this time, that’s not possible. Many of my students are using cell phones to access Google Classroom and Zoom, which can be challenging.

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What Teachers Want Parents to Know

 At the end of the day, parents and teachers have the same goal: ensuring the best education and development for their children while keeping everyone safe and healthy. Here are teacher-approved strategies to ensure a successful transition for your child.

  • Teach hygiene and etiquette. Teach your children to wash their hands with soap and water for 20 seconds. Encourage mask-wearing and teach them about social distancing guidelines. This way, they can be comfortable and confident when at school or in public during the pandemic.
  • Provide age-appropriate education about the pandemic. Education about the COVID-19 pandemic should focus on sharing knowledge and good health practices, rather than fear. The CDC offers some excellent guidance on how to talk to your kids about the coronavirus pandemic.
  • Establish a remote-learning routine. Just like in-person learning, remote learning is enhanced when children have clear expectations about the order of the day and what they will be expected to do. Start with a healthy breakfast, offer snacks and breaks, and coordinate with teachers so you and your child can establish a schedule that accommodates their classes along with your work schedule.
  • Find time for socialization and play. Whether your child is learning from home or still attending in-person classes, they will notice some changes this year. Restrictions such as wearing a mask and not being able to hug their friends, or learning from home and being isolated, could take their toll on your child. Make sure you still arrange virtual play-dates or socially distanced family excursions to give them a chance to still be a kid.
  • Communication is critical. Make sure you and your child are communicating with your teacher, and update your contact information. Communication can often stop or mitigate issues. If the teacher doesn’t have the updated contact information, they cannot reach you first.

Back-to-School Gifts for Everyone

Know a teacher or a student going back to school? From flowers to sweet treats, help them transition with an A+ gift that will make their day!

Virtual Learning: Helpful Back-to-School Tips

Advice from Interns Who Experienced It & Educational Experts  

Each year, the 1-800-FLOWERS.COM, Inc. Enterprise embarks on an internship program, but due to the times we’re now living in, this summer has been a little different. In honor of BacktoSchool and International Youth Day, we asked our interns about their school year in regards to virtual learning as well as their virtual internship experience. We think their learnings can be helpful to students and teachers as they head back to the classroom, whether virtually or in person. 

In addition to speaking to our interns who have experienced virtual learning firsthand, there are also tons of educational resources to help get you comfortable, with tips ranging from making checklists and reducing distractions, to encouraging movement and giving positive feedback.  

As our Founder Jim McCann said, “Be curious. Every interaction gives you a chance to learn, to adjust your perspective, and get a new insight.During this time, its so important we work together and learn from each other and we hope you find these back-to-school tips helpful 

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Virtual Learning: Overcoming Challenges & Experiencing Success 

Like many things, virtual learning comes with its challenges. Below, our interns share what they found challenging in the virtual learning environment, along with tips on how to adapt and succeed. 

Question Asked to Interns: Please share your experience with virtual learning and how you overcame any challenges, in addition to big wins you experienced.  

 It took a little time to get used to virtual learning. There were many awkward silences and long pauses. After a few weeks, it felt normal. Class discussions picked up. Teachers were available for oneonone Zoom meetings to answer any questions. One big win from virtual learning was that it prepared me for a virtual internship. Teams and Zoom meetings felt completely normal after the spring semester which made it easy to transition into a virtual internship.Nick, Marketing Intern

When it came to learning virtually, the most important thing I had to do was adapt. Switching to the online setting, I found it best to designate a room in my house to do my work and focus on anything school or work related. – Zack, Accounting Intern

It was hard to separate school from normal life because I would attend class in my room, so I felt like I was thinking about class 24/7. I decided to start a 9-5 schedule for school and that helped a lot. We also became a lot more techsavvy by doing everything online. – Mattie, Social Media Intern 

“Learning in school virtually is definitely difficult because the resources I am used to having are no long as easy to access. However, I took this time to become better at communicating over email. I reached out to professors frequently, which allowed me to get the help I needed. It is also helpful that my classes consist of a lot of coding, which makes the burden of learning over the computer a bit less difficult.” – Laura, Analytics Intern

How to Stay Connected  

 From FaceTime to engaging in more family activitiesone thing is certain: staying connected during these times is important. Below, our interns share their favorite ways to keep in touch. 

Question Asked to Interns: How are you staying connected with friendsfamilyteachers, and fellow students during this time? 

 This strange time in the world has brought my family together for the longest time in a while. We are usually never living in the same house for an extended period of time. COVID changed that. We stay connected through family dinners and activities. My friends and I see each other in backyards from a distance. I am also able to keep in touch with them via social media and FaceTime. One thing I am grateful for is being surrounded by my family. It has been nice to spend so much time with them over the past few months, even though we sometimes get on each other’s nerves.” – Nick, Marketing Intern

Zoom is probably the main way I stay in touch with friends. Every Wednesday since we’ve been home, some school friends and I play trivia online to stay entertained. FaceTiming is also common amongst me and my friends. – Zack, Accounting Intern

Snapchat and Instagram are the biggest ways we’ve been staying connected. As well as sending TikTok videos and FaceTime. I’ve been FaceTiming and calling people way more during this time, which has been nice. – Mattie, Social Media Intern 

“I take a lot of time to communicate with my friends and family over social media. I also partake in Zoom calls with my friends in big groups. A few friends and I also took the opportunity to take some outdoor walks to hang out while social distancing.” – Laura, Analytics Intern 

We’re All in This Together: Learning from Each Other & Teaching One Another 

 Virtual learning is different for everyone. But remember that students aren’t the only ones going back to school! Don’t forget to show your teachers and parents appreciation during these challenging times. Send them a free back-to-school e-card to show them how much their support means to you.  

Question Asked to Interns: How can parents help their kids to learn during this time, knowing what you know now? 

 I think the most important advice parents can tell their kids is to be patient. Especially when it comes to WiFi issues. I had plenty of WiFi issues throughout my virtual learning and internship experience. Network issues are out of the students control and teachers understand this. It is also important for students to stay focused even though there are distractions at home. Time management is key. – Nick, Marketing Intern

The best thing for anyone to have during this time, including parents, is patience. Things are clearly not always going to go as planned, so it is important for parents to support their children during these tough times.Zack, Accounting Intern

“Parents can help their kids during this time by being a support system. It is important to be supportive while your kid is struggling during such a confusing time.” – Laura, Analytics Intern 

Thank You #LocalHero Teachers Everywhere  

We conclude this article with a huge thank you to all of the teachers who are local heroes in the communities they serve. Do you know a #LocalHero? Share your story with us on social! 

Teachers Are Our Heroes

We’ve been collecting and sharing stories of local heroes from our community over the last few months. We’ve enjoyed hearing all your stories. We are humbled by all the amazing local heroes you have shared.

With back to school around the corner we have been thinking a lot about teachers and the role they play in all of our lives.

When someone says the word hero, many think about traditional heroes. As a Company, we’re also committed to our local heroes and teachers are certainly among the group we call heroes.

Back to school this year will be different for students around the country — whether in person, online or a hybrid of the two. But one thing will be universal for their teachers: They’ll be there to make sure our kids learn. Parents everywhere realized this spring when schools closed that teachers are truly underappreciated local heroes.

Teachers were thrust into a new world of remote schooling along with everyone else this spring, and they’re learning while they teach, too.

I am not a teacher, but an awakener

Robert Frost

We recently heard the story of Lisa Meyer, who has been heroic in her efforts throughout her career as a teacher. Lisa is a first-grade teacher at the public school in Canaan, New Hampshire. She has seen a lot change since she started her career in 1984.

She says her first teaching job in Unity, New Hampshire, was a challenge, despite her bachelor’s degree in education from Keene State College. “They don’t teach the things I had to figure out how to do,” she said, including caring for kids who lacked clothes and food, like the twins who shared one pair of boots and took turns going out at recess. “I made about $10,000 a year when I started, and I put most of my money back in my classroom and spent it on my kids,” she said.

She moved to Canaan Elementary School two years later and will welcome her 36th first-grade class there this month.

One hallmark of Lisa’s first-grade teaching is an original holiday drama production. She adapts or writes an original script that her class performs. She says people underestimate first-graders. “I wanted to push these kids — to work together, do a production, speak in public, memorize lines. It teaches them to be brave, to get over fear, build self-esteem, and it makes them laugh and work hard.” At least one Broadway actor attributes her role as Mrs. Santa in Miss Meyer’s play as the start of her career. Sadly, this year’s play has already been canceled.

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Local Heroes Wear Smiles

She also acknowledges that these times are hard on parents regardless of whether their kids are in school or at home. “Working all day — add in reading to kids and helping them with homework, it’s hard.”

They say not all heroes wear capes. About 3.7 million of them, like Lisa, wear smiles as they welcome our kids into their classrooms (virtual or in person) each school day. We applaud their thoughtfulness, flexibility and dedication to their students.

We all have these heroes in our local communities. We hope you’ll learn their stories and share them with this community. SHARE YOUR STORY

How to Create the Best Promposal

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While they might be a little too young for marriage, many high school juniors and seniors are looking forward to a proposal — a promposal, that is. Asking someone to prom over dinner may be all it takes for some couples, but if you’re in high school, or have been around high schoolers lately, you know the name of the game these days is “Go big or go home!”

Whether you’re looking for suggestions on how to get your significant other to ask you to prom, or if you’re the asker looking for some clever promposal ideas, here are five ideas for how you can create the best promposal using flowers.

1. Spell it out

Using the petals from her favorite flowers, spell out “Prom?” or “Will you go to prom with me?” You can do this on the floor, the table, or a large poster that you hang up at school. Then, lead her to her destination by creating a flower trail also made of petals — just make sure you also have a bouquet of her favorite flowers waiting there!

2. Write it out

Like many girls, the first thing she’ll do when she’s presented with a flower is stick her nose in it and smell it — use this as an opportunity to take her by surprise! Instead of giving her the flower as is, write “Will you go to prom with me?” across the petals. When she goes to take a whiff, she’ll see your message and, hopefully, reply with a resounding “Yes!”

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3. Give her a corsage

No prom ensemble is complete without a corsage or boutonniere. Think about giving her a corsage early and asking her if she thinks the flowers will match her dress. Then, when she asks you what dress you’re talking about, tell her it’s her prom dress and that you’re certain it will match your suit — we’re sure she’ll get the hint!

4. Send a flower a day

There’s nothing like the suspense of waiting for a promposal. Keep her on the edge of her seat by sending her one flower a day for a week or two. You can send it to her home, classroom, or somewhere else she goes every day. Then, when you’re ready to officially “prompose,” make sure she finds you waiting with an entire bouquet filled with that same flower and pop the question.

5. Shower her with flowers

On the day you’re ready to ask her to prom, take five roses (or her favorite flower, if you prefer) and attach a card to the stem of each one. Put a “P” on the first card, an “R” on the second, and so on and so forth until all together the flowers spell out “Prom?” Then, recruit your friends to deliver one flower at a time throughout the day in any letter order. Once she has them all, she has to unscramble them to figure out your message!


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