79 Thanksgiving Quotes and Quotes About Gratitude

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Food, festivity, and football may be at the center of Thanksgiving, but there’s more to the holiday than eating, celebrating, and watching sports. It’s also a time to share heartfelt words of appreciation with family and friends. Reading aloud Thanksgiving messages and quotes about gratitude while seated around the dinner table — or while digesting your portion of the glorious feast you’ve just consumed — is a tradition that allows you to reflect on the true meaning of this cherished holiday.

In honor of this gathering of gratitude, we’ve compiled a list of 79 quotes about thankfulness and gratitude. These are fitting for Thanksgiving speeches, handwritten greetings, text messages, or sharing with someone who could use some inspiration.

Thanksgiving quotes

  1. “Forever on Thanksgiving the heart will find the pathway home.” – Wilbur D. Nesbit
  2. “Thanksgiving is one of my favorite days of the year because it reminds us to give thanks and to count our blessings. Suddenly, so many things become so little when we realize how blessed and lucky we are.” – Joyce Giraud
  3. “On Thanksgiving Day we acknowledge our dependence.” – Williams Jennings Bryan
  4. “I am grateful for what I am and have. My thanksgiving is perpetual.” – Henry David Thoreau
  5. “Thanksgiving isn’t just a day. It’s a way we can live our lives every day.” – Katrina Mayer
  6. “Gratitude can transform common days into Thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.” – William Arthur Ward
  7. “Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling. Thanksgiving is the following of that impulse.” – Henry Van Dyke
  8. “I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
  9. “Thanksgiving is a joyous invitation to shower the world with love and gratitude.” – Amy Leigh Mercree
  10. “The thankful receiver bears a plentiful harvest.” – William Blake
  11. “We would worry less if we praised more. Thanksgiving is the enemy of discontent and dissatisfaction.” – Harry A. Ironside
  12. “Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.” – W. T. Purkiser
  13. “Thanksgiving reminds us that no matter what befalls us in life, we can take the charred remnants and we can reconstruct a life unimaginably richer than that from which the shards and pieces fell.” – Craig D. Lounsbrough
  14. “The turkey. The sweet potatoes. The stuffing. The pumpkin pie. Is there anything else we all can agree so vehemently about?” – Nora Ephron
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  1. “Good mashed potato is one of the great luxuries in life.” – Lindsey Bareham
  2. “Drink and be thankful to the host! What seems insignificant when you have it is important when you need it.” – Franz Grillparzer
  3. “What I love about Thanksgiving is that it’s purely about getting together with friends or family and enjoying food. It’s really for everybody, and it doesn’t matter where you’re from.” – Daniel Humm
  4. “Thanksgiving was never meant to be shut up in a single day.” – Robert Caspar Lintner
  5. “Give thanks not just on Thanksgiving Day but every day of your life. Appreciate and never take for granted all that you have.” – Catherine Pulsifer
  6. “Family gathers to share good noise and good food. Gratitude abounds.” – Richelle E. Goodrich
  7. “Thanksgiving Day is a good day to recommit our energies to giving thanks and just giving.” – Amy Grant
  8. “I feel a very unusual sensation — if it is not indigestion, I think it must be gratitude.” – Benjamin Disraeli
  9. “Vegetables are a must on a diet. I suggest carrot cake, zucchini bread, and pumpkin pie.” – Jim Davis
  10. “Be grateful in your own hearts. That suffices. Thanksgiving has wings, and flies to its right destination.” – Victor Hugo
  11. “I love Thanksgiving because it’s a holiday that is centered around food and family, two things that are of utmost importance to me.” – Marcus Milton
  12. “Although Thanksgiving comes but once a year, every day should be a day of thanks.” – Monique Hammond
  13. “In November, people are good to each other. They carry pies to each other’s homes and talk by crackling woodstoves, sipping mellow cider. They travel very far on a special November day just to share a meal with one another and to give thanks for their many blessings.” – Cynthia Rylant

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Quotes about gratitude

  1. “Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” – Marcel Proust
  2. “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” – Melody Beattie
  3. “Thanks are the highest form of thought, and gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.” – G.K. Chesterton
  4. “Gratitude, help us to see what is there instead of what isn’t.” – Annette Bridges
  5. “Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.” – Ernest Hemingway
  6. “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words but to live by them.” – John F. Kennedy
  7. “When asked if my cup is half full or half empty, my only response is that I am thankful I have a cup.” – Sam Lefkowitz
  8. “The more we express thanks, the more gratitude we feel. The more gratitude we feel, the more we express thanks. It’s circular, and it leads to a happier life.” – Steve Goodier
  9. “We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.” – Frederick Koenig
  10. “We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.” – Thornton Wilder
  11. “Always have an attitude of gratitude.” – Sterling K. Brown
  12. “Be thankful for what you have. Your life is someone else’s fairy tale.” – Wale Ayeni
  13. “When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself.” – Tecumseh
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  1. “A moment of gratitude makes a difference in your attitude.” – Bruce Wilkinson
  2. “Piglet noticed that even though he had a very small heart, it could hold a rather large amount of Gratitude.” – A. A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
  3. “I would rather be able to appreciate things I cannot have than to have things I am not able to appreciate.” – Elbert Hubbard
  4. “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” – Oprah Winfrey
  5. “Nothing is more honorable than a grateful heart.” – Seneca
  6. “If you are really thankful, what do you do? You share.” – W. Clement Stone
  7. “We must find time to stop and thank the people who make a difference in our lives.” – John F. Kennedy
  8. “Gratitude opens the door, the power, the wisdom, the creativity of the universe. You open the door through gratitude.” – Deepak Chopra
  9. “Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.” – William Arthur Ward
  10. “Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.” – Voltaire
  11. “The real gift of gratitude is that the more grateful you are, the more present you become.” – Robert Holden
  12. “When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around.” – Willie Nelson
  1. “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.” – Melody Beattie
  2. “Even in the trials of life, if we have eyes to see them, we can find good things everywhere we look.” – Joanna Gaines
  3. “When we focus on our gratitude, the tide of disappointment goes out and the tide of love rushes in.” – Kristin Armstrong
  4. “It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful.” – David Steindl-Rast
  5. “The heart that gives thanks is a happy one, for we cannot feel thankful and unhappy at the same time.” – Douglas Wood
  6. “Small cheer and great welcome makes a merry feast.” – William Shakespeare
  7. “Wear gratitude like a cloak, and it will feed every corner of your life.” – Rumi
  8. “The more you practice the art of thankfulness, the more you have to be thankful for.” – Norman Vince Peale
  9. “Let us remember that, as much has been given us, much will be expected from us, and that true homage comes from the heart as well as from the lips, and shows itself in deeds.” – Theodore Roosevelt
  10. “Gratitude is a quality similar to electricity: It must be produced and discharged and used up in order to exist at all.” – William Faulkner
  11. “Kindness is always fashionable, and always welcome.” – Amelia Barr
  12. “When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.” – Anthony Robbins
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  1. “Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.” – Eckhart Tolle
  2. “The struggle ends when gratitude begins.” – Neale Donald Walsh
  3. “Appreciation can change a day, even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary.” – Margaret Cousins
  4. “Thankfulness is the quickest path to joy.” – Jefferson Bethke
  5. “A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue but the parent of all the other virtues.” – Marcus Tullius Cicero
  6. “Gratitude bestows reverence…changing forever how we experience life and the world.” – John Milton
  7. “Some people are always grumbling because roses have thorns; I am thankful that thorns have roses.” – Alphonse Karr
  8. “Let me encourage you to get up every day and focus on what you do have in life. Be thankful for the blessings of the little things, even when you don’t get what you expect.” – Victoria Osteen
  9. “Gratitude is a divine emotion: It fills the heart, but not to bursting; it warms it, but not to fever.” – Charlotte Brontë
  10. “For me, every hour is grace. And I feel gratitude in my heart each time I can meet someone and look at his or her smile.” – Elie Wiesel
  11. “Thankfulness is the beginning of gratitude. Gratitude is the completion of thankfulness. Thankfulness may consist merely of words. Gratitude is shown in acts.” – Henri Frédéric Amiel
  12. “I think gratitude is a big thing. It puts you in a place where you’re humble.” – Andra Day
  13. “No duty is more urgent than giving thanks.” – James Allen
  14. “Gratitude is a powerful catalyst for happiness. It’s the spark that lights a fire of joy in your soul.” – Amy Collette
  15. “Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” – Robert Brault

Thanksgiving Greetings: What to Write in a Thanksgiving Card

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No matter how much prepping you do, Thanksgiving is a busy time of year. You have to stuff the turkey, mash the potatoes, set the table, and do what seems like 100 other things before your guests arrive. And between all the cooking and feasting, you also want to try to carve out a little time to remind your family and friends how grateful you are for them. Whether it’s your spouse, best friend, or colleague, letting your loved ones know how much you appreciate them can mean so much — and you should be able to do it without adding any more stress to your already full plate. Expressing yourself is as easy as writing a handwritten card, sending a text, or saying a few words at the dinner table.

If you aren’t sure how to put your feelings into words, don’t worry. We’ve rounded up Thanksgiving greetings and wishes for everyone you’re thankful for. Whether you share a sentimental or funny Thanksgiving message, these are sure to make this season of thanks memorable for you and your loved ones.

Thanksgiving greetings for family

  • I’m grateful to have such a smart, kind, welcoming [relation to you] like you. You’re a big part of what makes this celebration special. Happy Thanksgiving.
  • I’m thankful for all the goodness you bring to my life and every moment we get to spend together.
  • Your presence in my life is cherished. Here’s to another delicious Thanksgiving!
  • I could tell you all day how much you mean to me, but then we would both miss this incredible opportunity to eat like there’s no tomorrow!
  • Here’s wishing my lovely [relation to you] a spectacular Thanksgiving! I can’t thank you enough for the joy, laughter, and happiness you bring to my world.
  • This Thanksgiving, I hope you enjoy lots of delicious food, followed by an amazing nap!
  • I have so many cherished Thanksgiving memories with you all, and I’m grateful we get to make more today!
  • Among all the wonderful things in this world, I’m grateful to be a part of such a supportive and loving family.
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  • I want to thank you for all the times you have been there for me. You are so special and important to my life. I hope you have the best Thanksgiving!
  • Thanks for giving me so much love, kindness, and support.
  • I’m thankful for a lot of things, but I’m most thankful for you.
  • There are so many reasons to be thankful this Thanksgiving, and you’re one of them.
  • You’re my hero. All my life, you’ve taught me how to be a better person, and that’s something I’ll always be thankful for. Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving.
  • Through all life’s ups and downs, one thing has remained the same: your love and support. I couldn’t be more grateful. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • Life may have taken us in different directions, but thankfully the road home never changes. I’m so glad to share this special day with you.
  • Missing you this Thanksgiving! I’ll have an extra serving of [favorite Thanksgiving food] in your honor.
  • We wish you were here to overcook the turkey! Miss you!

Thanksgiving greetings for friends

  • I wouldn’t trade your friendship for anything in the world. Happy Thanksgiving to my best friend!
  • The greatest gift in life is friendship. I’m so thankful for yours.
  • I’m so thankful we have each other in our lives. Thinking of you on this cherished holiday.
  • Today I’m thanking my lucky stars that I have you as a friend. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • May the good things of life be yours in abundance not only on Thanksgiving but throughout the year.
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  • Happy turkey day! I wish you a lovely time with your family as the holiday fills your home with warmth and laughter. Enjoy the feast!
  • Happy Thanksgiving! Remember, a best friend is someone who lets you have the last piece of pumpkin pie.
  • Of everything I’m grateful for this Thanksgiving, your friendship is at the top of my list.
  • We are grateful for you and your family. Sending our love and warm wishes for a happy Thanksgiving!
  • May you have all the best delights today and forever. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • Hoping this Thanksgiving is full of peace, laughter, and mountains of mashed potatoes!
  • Happy Thanksgiving! May you and your family enjoy a grand feast and loving company.
  • Hope your Thanksgiving is full of family, food, and football.
  • Wishing you a comfy pair of elastic pants this Thanksgiving.
  • Good friends, good food, and good times…that’s what this day is all about. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • This Friendsgiving, let’s enjoy the laughter, food, and cheer that we’ll remember for years to come!

Thanksgiving greetings for colleagues

  • Wishing you and yours a happy Thanksgiving!
  • You’re an important part of [company name], and I’m glad we work together. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • I’m grateful to be working with you. Enjoy the long weekend!
  • I’m inspired by your hard work and dedication. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • This Thanksgiving, I am grateful to work with someone who is as funny and kind as you are. I hope you have the best day surrounded by family and friends!
  • Thank you for bringing your positive attitude to work every day. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your loved ones!
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  • Wishing you a relaxing and restful holiday!
  • I’m grateful to have a colleague like you who helps make our workplace a thriving community. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • From my cubicle to yours, happy Thanksgiving!
  • Thank you for sharing your wisdom and guidance with me this past year. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
  • Thank you for being my office BFF. Happy turkey day to the best!
  • I never get the Monday morning blues because of fun employees like you. Thank you. May you enjoy your Thanksgiving with those who mean the most to you.

Thanksgiving wishes for everyone

  • Wishing you a very happy Thanksgiving celebration!
  • Sending all good wishes to you this Thanksgiving.
  • Hope you’re surrounded by the love of your dearest friends and family this festive season. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
  • May the wishbone snap in your favor this Thanksgiving!
  • I hope your Thanksgiving table is full of your favorite food and surrounded by your favorite people.
  • May your heart be as full as your belly this Thanksgiving.
  • Hoping your Thanksgiving comes with a cornucopia of blessings.
  • Wishing you a harvest of good health and good times. Happy Thanksgiving!
  • Warmest Thanksgiving greetings to you and your family.
  • Celebrate the little things in life and be thankful for the big ones.
  • May your Thanksgiving, and the whole year ahead, be filled with blessings.
  • Wishing you Thanksgiving moments that are as sweet as pumpkin pie!
  • May you celebrate this day surrounded by family, delicious food, and love in your heart.
  • Sending good thoughts your way this turkey day. Here’s to a happy, healthy holiday!

Thanksgiving gifts to show your gratitude

Everyone can use a little extra thanks this holiday. Whether you’re looking for festive décor or a sweet dessert to share with the table, our Thanksgiving flowers, food, and gifts will make anyone feel appreciated.

How to Say Thank You to Different People in Your Life

One of the best ways to strengthen your relationships is by showing appreciation. Whether you give thanks to your boss, a family member, or someone in your community, expressing gratitude goes a long way. Communicating you’re thankful shows you care, and it can help deepen your relationships and make them more satisfying.

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Gratefulness, however, is a feeling that can be difficult to convey in words or actions. Diane Gottsman, national etiquette expert and founder of The Protocol School of Texas, says appreciation should be tailored to the situation. “There should be a heartfelt sentiment,” she says. “Your words should always sound authentic.”

From the people who lead you professionally to your family and friends who love you, we’ve rounded up ideas to help you show your appreciation for the different relationships in your life.

How to show gratitude to people who guide you

Whether it’s your boss or teacher, thanking people who guide you professionally can make a positive difference. Feeling appreciated in what are sometimes thankless roles can mean a lot to someone in a leadership position.

But for these folks, a grand gesture isn’t always necessary. Sometimes, all it takes is a few words to make a big difference. Gottsman says this can be done in a handwritten letter.

“Send them a note of gratitude,” she says. “Thanksgiving is a perfect time, although it is always a good time to let someone know that you value them. Make sure you include specifics on how they have positively impacted your life professionally.”

Gottsman provided this example for inspiration:

Dear Jack,

We have worked together for many years, and I have always been impressed with your professional work ethic. I have watched you consistently lead not only our team but go out in the community and influence and inspire others.

Thank you for taking a chance on me several years ago. I have learned a great deal under your direction and appreciate you beyond words.

Warm wishes to you and your family this holiday season.

Best,

Susan

Additionally, an act of kindness to go with your letter can foster a sincere interaction that improves your relationship. Here are more ideas to show your appreciation to those who lead you professionally.

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Bosses

  • Tell them they’re outstanding and contribute a lot to the company.
  • Surprise them with lunch during a busy day.
  • Send them flowers or plants to brighten their desk.

Mentors

  • Support and help your mentor — nominate them for an award or help them set up a presentation.
  • Give a public shoutout — leave them a positive review online or tag them in a social media post that praises them.
  • Send them a thank you gift.

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How to show thanks to colleagues

You and your co-workers have been through a lot together. Although you may work as a team day in and day out, showing gratitude can go a long way toward brightening their day. Instead of just being recognized for their accomplishments in the workplace, showing appreciation to your colleagues as people will make them feel seen, connected, and like they have a sense of purpose.

Here are three ways you can show your colleagues they’re valued as people.

  • Tell them what you admire about them.
  • Help lighten their workload, if you’re able to.
  • Offer to get them coffee or tea.

How to show appreciation to people who love you

Everybody wants to feel important and recognized, and your family and friends are no different. Gottsman says what they’ll appreciate more than anything is the gift of time. Showing your gratitude by spending time with loved ones can make them feel valued, and it helps strengthen your connection.

“We all need to feel loved and supported,” Gottsman says. If you can’t physically be with your loved ones, you can show your appreciation in other ways, including a phone call, a text, and remembering special occasions, such as birthdays and holidays.

These heartfelt ideas will show your loved ones you’re thankful for them.

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Spouse

  • Tell them how grateful you are to have them in your life.
  • Cook their favorite meal.
  • Give them a “just because” gift.

Children

  • Play a game with them.
  • Give them more hugs.
  • Create a routine together, such as a fun bedtime saying.

Parents

  • Help around the house.
  • Share a fond memory with them.
  • Ask them for advice.

Friends

  • Participate in their favorite hobby with them.
  • Compliment them.
  • Create a customized gift that shows off their personality.

How to give thanks to people who serve you

In today’s busy world, kindness is paramount. That is especially true when it comes to people who serve you. From waiters and delivery drivers to front desk clerks and doctors, showing appreciation for their time can make a difference in their productivity and how they’re feeling. Thanking them shows you appreciate them and understand their time is valuable.

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Below are some effortless ideas that can make a positive difference in the lives of those who serve you.

  • Leave a larger-than-usual tip.
  • Write a positive online review about them or their business.
  • Show patience, even if you’re in a rush.
  • Let their superior know they’re excellent at what they do.

Letting people know you’re thankful for them — loved ones, acquaintances, and strangers — can make them and you feel happier. Showing appreciation magnifies positive emotions and builds strong relationships, no matter what area of your life the receiver occupies. Gratitude allows us to celebrate the present and makes for a more optimistic future — it’s truly a gift that keeps on giving.

How to Turn Your Backyard into the Ultimate Outdoor Movie Theater

With a little imagination and DIY knowledge, you can make the most of the warmer days, right in the comfort of your own backyard. One fun idea is to create an outdoor theater, and it’s easier than you think! Below are tips for putting together the ultimate outdoor theater so you can enjoy your favorite movies under the stars!

Theater Set Up 

First things first: grab your projector and pick your favorite spot in the backyard! It’s easy to set up a sheet or a portable screen with a stand against the exterior wall of your home. If you don’t have enough space, consider setting up in the driveway against your garage door. You’ll also want to invest in portable outdoor speakers that fill the area with sound. 

To stream your movie, connect your projector to your favorite media streaming source. 

 Classic Snacks 

When it comes to movie snacks, it’s all about what you like. Fresh popcorn from a popcorn machine is a movie theater staple, but don’t forget about the chewy chocolates, sour gummy candies, cheesy nachos, and ice-cold drinks! You can’t go wrong with a savory or sweet popcorn tin or sample from The Popcorn Factory to make your backyard movie night even more POPtastic!

 Viewing Comfort 

Here’s where the real advantage comes in. Now you can enjoy your movie-going experience from a picnic blanket, a lounge chair, or even from a cozy hammock. There are so many options and the choice is yours! 

How to Write an Obituary

Writing an obituary can be an overwhelming task during an already difficult time —especially if you’ve never written one. Even if you have, you may feel pressure to come up with the words that perfectly encapsulate the spirit of the person who has recently passed.

Jane Lerner

This is the final word on a person’s life. You want it done right.

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An obituary needs to, at minimum, communicate the death of a loved one and announce information about the funeral and visitation services. But it also can tell the story of the deceased in a way that allows family and friends to honor their life.

“A well-written obituary is a short story about a person’s life, a story as rich and interesting as the person it describes,” says Jane Lerner, owner of Lives Lived, a professional obituary writing service. “The story should capture the essence of an individual — joys, sorrows, triumphs, and milestones. A good obituary should illustrate how much the person meant to others.”

An obituary is different than a eulogy. A eulogy is a speech given at the wake or funeral in praise of the deceased; an obituary appears in print or online and serves as an announcement of a person’s death as well as provides a few important details about his or her life and accomplishments.

Before you write an obituary

The first thing you should do before sitting down and writing an obituary is collecting facts about the deceased. Lerner says to ask the people who knew the deceased best, including their spouse, siblings, children, and friends. “I find when interviewing people to get information for the obituary that the spouse — if there is one — is usually the best source,” Lerner says. “Often, families will designate one child as the source for information. Others in the family will feed memories to the designated person, who will use them to craft the obituary.”

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How to start an obituary

The traditional way to start an obituary is with a basic announcement of your loved one’s death. For example: “Gary Robinson died May 23, 2022, at his home in Glendale, Arizona. He was 87 years old.”

But you can also be creative. Lerner suggests starting with an anecdote, such as the example below, to help bring the person to life.

“As a young man growing up in a modest Cleveland family, Gary Robinson knew he had to rely on his own abilities to get ahead. He muscled his way into a wrestling scholarship at Ohio State University, where he was captain of the team and studied finance. That experience, along with his hard work and tenacious drive, helped him launch a distinguished business career and made him a role model for others in his field.”

What to include in an obituary

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In addition to an announcement of death, all obituaries should include a few main parts:

  1. Basic details (full name, age, birthday, place of birth) and biographical information about the deceased
  2. Names of family members (both living and deceased), starting with the closest relatives (spouse, children, children’s spouses), and then listing additional family (parents, grandparents, grandchildren, siblings, etc.) in order of birth.
  3. Funeral information

Below are examples of each section of an obituary.

Basic details and biographical information

Caleb Romano, age 78, passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 2, in his Hollywood, Florida, home. Caleb was born on February 27, 1944, to Joseph and Isabella (Rossi) Romano, in Pembroke Park, Florida. He was a 1966 graduate of the University of South Carolina, where he studied education. On May 11, 1969, he married Martina Amato at Grace Fellowship Church in West Palm Beach. He was a professor at DeVry University for 40 years, where he was respected by students and staff for his knowledge and sense of humor.

Names of family members

Caleb is survived by his wife, Martina; his son, Nicholas; his daughter, Mia; his brothers, Lucas and Marco; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents and sister.

Funeral information

Family, friends, and others whose lives Caleb touched are invited to the Landmark Funeral Home at 4200 Hollywood Boulevard in Hollywood, Florida, from 47 p.m. on Thursday, June 9, 2022, to reminisce, grieve, and support each other.

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Because an obituary serves as a historical document, consider including details that could be helpful for future generations, such as maiden names and place of death. “Obituaries often become treasured documents handed down through the generations,” Lerner says.

What not to include in an obituary

Writing an obituary is an emotional experience, and most families prefer to paint the most positive picture possible of the deceased. For that reason, it’s best to leave any unfortunate circumstances or issues in the deceased’s life out of the obituary.

“I advise people to take the high road,” Lerner says. If there’s an estranged sibling, for example, mention that person as a survivor.” Another tip from Lerner is not to make any political statements in an obituary. Years from now, someone reading it will probably not understand the reference.

“Be sensitive about other thorny issues that arise in families,” Lerner says. “An obituary is no place for family squabbles.”

If you were particularly close to the person about whom you are writing the obituary, the task might be too much for you to bear. In that instance, Lerner suggests hiring a professional obituary writer to help you. “Remember, this is the final word on a person’s life,” she says. “You want it done right.”

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Publishing your obituary

Lerner says an obituary should be available in print or online as soon after the death as possible. “Most funeral homes and crematoriums have websites where you can publish the obituary at no additional cost,” Lerner says. From there, you can copy the link and share it via email or social media.

An obituary is a heartfelt way to remember someone who played an important role in your life and the lives of others. More than simply a death announcement, it’s an opportunity to recount a loved one’s life story while bringing comfort to those who will keep them alive in their hearts.

8 Tips for Writing and Delivering a Eulogy

Writing and delivering a eulogy is a heartfelt way to say farewell to a loved one who has died. The purpose of this type of speech is to capture the essence of the deceased by highlighting the positives of their life. Although the task often arrives suddenly and during a time of mourning, you don’t have to be a great writer or public speaker to deliver a meaningful speech.

Since a eulogy is meant to bring comfort to those who are grieving, it’s important to know your audience. When writing a eulogy, be sure to take into consideration what the deceased would have wanted, as the focus is on the life they lived.

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“A great eulogy always comes from the heart,” says Ralph DiBiasio-Snyder, a staff writer with The Eulogy Writers. “It is simply words of tribute, thanks, and celebration spoken with love and sincerity.” DiBiasio-Snyder says sharing stories about the deceased that illustrate a particular talent, virtue, or characteristic of theirs can be comforting.

Because writing and delivering a eulogy can be challenging, we’ve put together eight tips to help you feel comfortable while easing the pain of those who are grieving.

1. Do your research

Before writing your eulogy, it’s important to pin down specific dates and other information that was central to the life of the person you’re eulogizing. Knowing how many years the deceased spent working for a certain company, the names of family members, the town in which they grew up, and what their favorite hobbies were could be helpful as you craft your eulogy.

2. Decide on tone and style

One way to honor the deceased is to match the tone and style of your eulogy to their spirit. Depending on the circumstances surrounding their passing and their personality, it may be appropriate to add some lighter moments to your eulogy. Sharing stories that make family and friends smile while recalling the deceased can help ease their pain.

“Remember your audience,” says Aubrey Bauer, eulogy writer and owner of Eulogies by Aubrey. “If you will be speaking to mostly elderly people and your loved one was religious and conservative, perhaps keep a reverent tone and the funny anecdotes to a minimum. If your loved one was happy-go-lucky, used swear words on the daily, and had a good time as often as possible, your audience would probably appreciate a more lighthearted, humorous speech.”

“The beauty of eulogies is that they are 100% customizable.

Aubrey Bauer

Eulogy writer and owner of Eulogies by Aubrey

3. Make an outline

Once you have some ideas, organize them into an outline. DiBiasio-Snyder says it’s important to begin by thanking the people in attendance for their support and for joining in a celebration of life. You should also emphasize the positive qualities of the deceased in your introduction.

To paint a picture of how your loved one lived their life, include anecdotes or share details about their daily routines in the body of your eulogy. Concluding with an uplifting message, such as “Here’s to a life spent bringing happiness and laughter to others,” may provide comfort to the assembled friends and family.

In all, Bauer says, a typical eulogy is about 1,000 words long.

4. Get feedback on what you’ve written

Once your eulogy is written, find someone you trust who also knew the deceased well and have them review it. They may have ideas you can add to make it even more heartfelt and comforting to you and your audience. Because writing a eulogy can be an emotionally taxing experience, another person may also catch a mistake you didn’t notice when you were writing it.

Most importantly, keep in mind that there are no hard-and-fast rules when it comes to writing a eulogy. “The beauty of eulogies is that they are 100% customizable,” Bauer says. Let the memory of your loved one and your knowledge of those who are in mourning be your guide.

5. Practice reciting your eulogy

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It may feel awkward to practice a eulogy, but doing so is important as it ensures your speech will be a fitting tribute to your loved one. Practicing your eulogy in front of a mirror, family member, or friend until you get it right can help you feel comfortable and prepared. You can also record yourself on your phone and play it back to hear how you sound. A good eulogy sounds natural, and to achieve that, you must be comfortable with your speech.

6. Speak slowly

When delivering your eulogy, remember to pace yourself. Don’t think of it as a formal speech; speak as you would as if you were talking to your closest friends, from your heart.

A typical eulogy should take between six and eight minutes to read, Bauer says.

7. Make eye contact

While speaking, make sure to occasionally make eye contact with your audience. This will help your eulogy seem more like a conversation. However, if you start to get emotional while looking at others, come back to your written notes.

8. Be yourself

Instead of trying to make your eulogy sound perfect, focus on being yourself. What matters most is expressing what the deceased meant to you and what you want to remember about them.

Overall, your eulogy should be a brief overview of your loved one’s life, focusing on what made them special. Accomplishments and memorable stories should be shared, with the goal being to bring comfort to your audience.


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Sample eulogies

Below are two examples of eulogies, one for a parent, the other for a friend. Keep in mind these versions are condensed, but they still contain the same themes and sentiments you would find in a full-length eulogy.

Eulogy example No. 1:

My father lived a life based on doing whatever he could to make a positive impact on others. While raising two children and working 35 years as a teacher in the Tropical Hills school district, he always put aside his own needs to help others.

Dad liked to say during moments of adversity that we should move forward fearlessly. I first remember him telling me that when I was learning to ride my bike without training wheels. I told him not to let go, worried that I wouldn’t be able to keep my balance. After his words inspired me, I discovered that I was wrong. Years later, before I left for college, he reminded me again of those wise words.

In a difficult time like this, we must take an example from my father’s bravery as we try to move forward without someone we loved so much. At the same time, we should find comfort in the many years of memories we were given through the time we spent with him, including a lifetime of laughs, smiles, and stories.

Although we all gather today to mourn my father, he’ll never truly leave us. We can still see him in the eyes of his grandchildren, in the lives he impacted while teaching, and in our hearts and memories. May we all move forward fearlessly even as we mourn the loss of a great man.

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Eulogy example No. 2:

Hello.

Thank you all so much for being here today. Stephanie was my best friend for 42 years. Living these past few days without her infectious personality hasn’t been easy. She was the most fearless person I knew, and I looked up to her for that. Whether she was going on one of her hiking adventures or running her business from a boat, she was always an inspiration. Although the past few months have been heartbreaking, I know her spirit lives on in all our hearts and memories.

I believe it’s best to remember Stephanie as she truly was: a fast-talking, smiling, generous soul who always made time to help others. An amazing friend who would binge on ice cream with you after a tough breakup or be there with you to celebrate birthdays and anniversaries. It’s easy to dwell on the fact that Stephanie has left us too soon, but I’d prefer to remember all the wonderful times we all got to share with her while she was here.

Stephanie will be remembered not only as a terrific artist and a vibrant individual but also as a dependable mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. I know it’s impossible to not feel deep grief during this time, but I think we all can also say that Stephanie would want us to pick ourselves up, find the things that inspire us, and make a real difference in the world. That’s what she did, and the best way we can honor her is to do the same.

Rose Color Meanings: The Complete Guide

Roses are the original romantic flower, and if you’ve ever bought these beautiful blooms for someone, you know there’s a variety of colors from which to choose. While it may seem like it’s all about preference, rose colors can make a big difference in the message you send. Whether you’re choosing roses for a friend, family member, or someone special, picking the right color is a wonderful way to express how you feel. From graceful white and cheery yellow to majestic purple and passionate orange, here are the rose color meanings for every shade of this timeless flower.

Rose color meanings

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Red roses meaning

If movies, TV shows, poems, and plays have taught us anything, it’s that red roses are the symbol of deep, passionate, romantic love. Giving someone a bouquet of red roses — the most popular flower sold on Valentine’s Day — is a clear sign that you’ve caught the love bug.

A classic expression of love, longing, or desire, red roses can also convey respect, admiration, or devotion.

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Bright pink roses meaning

Bright pink roses tell the recipient you’re grateful to have them in your life. They symbolize happiness, thankfulness, and appreciation. This eye-catching hue can also symbolize allure and attraction without the deep intensity of a red rose.

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Pale pink roses meaning

A bouquet of pale pink roses says “I appreciate everything you do for me.” The gentle nature of these flowers makes them the perfect gift for mothers, sisters, and close friends. Pale pink roses also symbolize sympathy and comfort.

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Purple roses meaning

If you and your loved one have a storybook, love-at-first-sight romance, then purple roses are the flowers for you. With ties to nobility and royalty, purple roses tell the one you love that they’re the most important person in your life. These flowers are for committed, long-term relationships.

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Lavender roses meaning

Looking to express sincere love and appreciation to someone special? Then the lavender rose is an ideal choice. It’s a memorable way to make an impact, especially if you’ve been swept off your feet from new feelings of love and adoration.

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Burgundy roses meaning

Burgundy roses are intense in meaning and color, conveying a deep passion and romantic devotion to your one and only. Commonly mistaken for red roses, burgundy roses are said to symbolize an even stronger romance than their more popular counterpart.

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Yellow roses meaning

Show your best friend how much you appreciate their loyalty and devotion with the help of a few yellow roses. Yellow roses’ sunny demeanor and positive attitude make them the perfect gift for anyone you care about.

These joyful blooms symbolize friendship, making them the perfect birthday gift for a close friend or relative. Yellow flowers are also a symbol of happiness, so send yellow roses to a friend who needs cheering up!

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Orange roses meaning

If you’re looking to take your relationship with someone from friendship to romance, drop them a hint with a bouquet of orange roses. With yellow roses representing friendship and red roses symbolizing love, orange roses are thought of as the bridge from friends to lovers.

With a vibrancy and exuberance all their own, orange roses signify passion, energy, and intense desire, as well as a sense of fascination.

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Peach roses meaning

Peach roses represent sincerity, sweetness, and the genuineness of your feelings. They’re also a thoughtful way to show sympathy for a friend or family member. Because of their light color, they’ve become popular spring and summer wedding flowers.

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Coral roses meaning

A blend of red and yellow, the coral rose has a meaning that fits between “I love you” and “You’re a great friend.” It’s a sweet gift for a first date since it expresses passion without being overwhelming.

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Blue roses meaning

Blue roses are incredibly rare because they’re engineered rather than grown naturally. For this reason, gifting someone blue roses tells them they’re unique, one of a kind, and truly special. These flowers are often used to symbolize mystery or attaining the impossible.

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Green roses meaning

Green roses aren’t just for St. Patrick’s Day. In fact, these flowers started blooming naturally around 1743. Since green is a color of growth, green roses symbolize life, abundance, and rejuvenation. They’re also a celebration of good news and happy beginnings.

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Ivory roses meaning

Commonly thought of as cream colored, ivory roses represent charm, gracefulness, and elegance. They’re the perfect gift for someone with an upscale style, without romantic intentions.

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White roses meaning

If you think you’ve found the person for you but it’s still a bit early in the relationship, send them a bouquet of elegant and classic white roses.

A symbol of purity, innocence, and new beginnings, white roses are also known as the “bridal” flower due to their representation of eternity and everlasting love. They’re also used as an expression of sympathy and hope.

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Black roses meaning

Black roses are one of the very few rose colors that holds several — sometimes contradictory — meanings. While some believe black roses symbolize the end of a relationship, others find them representative of passion and lust. Black roses have also been mentioned as being closely related to dark magic.

While it’s usually impossible to go wrong with sending roses, you may want to check with your partner before ordering black roses, as they could send mixed messages.

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Multicolor roses meaning

Looking to express a range of emotions in a single gift? A bouquet of multicolor roses can deliver your message. A colorful variety of blooms also represents Pride Month and serves as a powerful reminder that love in all forms should be celebrated.

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Kaleidoscope roses meaning

Want to break from tradition while still remaining fun and passionate? Look no further than kaleidoscope roses! With a bit of every color in their petals, kaleidoscope roses tell your partner that they’re simultaneously your best friend and lover, appreciated and respected, and, most importantly, unique.


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30 Messages to Write in a Graduation Card

Graduating from college is a major achievement, one that marks the end of an era and opens a world of exciting opportunities. So when you sit down to craft the perfect message for a graduation card, you want to get it right.

Whether your grad is earning a degree or a professional title, their hard work and dedication deserve words of recognition. If you’re not sure about what to write, we have plenty of ideas for you, from formal messages to inspirational quotes.

Tips for graduation card messages

First, recognize that any kind of graduation is a huge milestone, and acknowledging it as such can bring joy and excitement to the recipient. The special student in your life is about to enter a new phase in life, so warm wishes are a must. A simple “Congratulations!” is fine, but considering everything they’ve gone through to get to this point, providing them with words that are a little more supportive or inspiring is warranted.

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“Focus on the message, avoid clichés, and try to be authentic and personable,” says Maryanne Parker, etiquette expert and founder of Manor of Manners. She says it also makes sense to focus on the exciting and challenging adventure that lies ahead. “Express confidence in their desire to excel. Remind them that every great journey begins with the first step.”

In general, be encouraging and enthusiastic when writing out a graduation card, as positive words can go a long way. While ready-to-use graduation quotes are easy, a personal message that shows the giver put real, genuine thought into it can be truly memorable for the graduate.

“Many times, our messages express the emotions we feel at that very moment,” Parker says. “This leaves the recipient with beautiful, unforgettable, and meaningful memories.”

No matter what kind of graduation you’re celebrating, the heartfelt expressions below will get you started on helping the grad in your life go confidently in the direction of their dreams.

Casual graduation messages

  1. What a ride it has been! You should be very proud of yourself. Hats off to you!
  2. Fulfilling your dreams is one of the most satisfying experiences in life. Congratulations! I cannot wait to see what life has in store for you!
  3. Here’s to your next adventure. May it be as awesome as you are.
  4. What an impressive achievement! This calls for a celebration. Congrats, grad!
  5. May your cap fly as high as your dreams. Congratulations!
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Formal graduation messages

  1. Congratulations on your well-deserved success.
  2. Here’s to a bright future. Congratulations!
  3. Warmest congratulations on your graduation.
  4. Be bold, be courageous, be your best. Congratulations!
  5. Congratulations on your graduation, and best wishes for your next grand adventure.

Encouraging graduation messages

  1. Following your dreams requires dedication, passion, and sacrifice. We can’t wait to see you accomplish everything you set out to do.
  2. Congratulations on your graduation. Your next adventure awaits, and we’re excited to see where it leads you. Nothing can stop you now.
  3. Today is one of the most amazing moments of your life. Congratulations!
  4. Never stop growing, exploring, learning, and challenging yourself.
  5. Graduation isn’t the end of a long journey but the beginning of a beautiful one. Start each day believing in yourself, and watch the magic happen.

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Funny graduation messages

  1. Good looks, brains, lots of heart, and now a degree? You’ve got it all! Congrats!
  2. The tassel was worth the hassle! Congratulations!
  3. You deserve all kinds of high fives and hugs! Congrats, grad!
  4. I lost a bet. You graduated.
  5. Cap, gown, it’s going down! Congratulations!
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Inspirational graduation quotes

  1. “That clock you hear is the sound of your own heart. Sink your teeth into this life, and don’t get let go.” — Lin-Manuel Miranda
  2. “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.” — Steve Jobs
  3. “Don’t be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered.” — Michelle Obama
  4. “If you want something you’ve never had, you must be willing to do something you’ve never done.” — Thomas Jefferson
  5. “We do not need magic to change the world; we carry all the power we need inside ourselves already. We have the power to imagine better.” — J. K. Rowling
  6. “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.” — Mark Twain
  7. “The most effective way to do it is to do it.” — Amelia Earhart
  8. “It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up.” — Babe Ruth
  9. “The best way to predict your future is to create it.” — Abraham Lincoln
  10. “Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” — Mahatma Gandhi
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Thank You Etiquette: Tips for the Perfect Thank You Gift & Message

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Whether a neighbor brought in your mail while you were on vacation or your friends spent an afternoon helping you move, showing your appreciation for their generosity is a must. But sometimes — even though you are truly thankful — expressing your gratitude may not come naturally. In fact, it can be downright awkward.

Fortunately, sending a gift is a way to say a lot without many words. Sometimes, though, the process of giving a thank you gift isn’t so straightforward. What if they don’t like it? Will they use it? Is this enough? These thoughts can make the act of sending a thank you gift more complicated than it needs to be.

To ease your mind, we’ve rounded up four tips to take the awkwardness out of sending a thank you gift.

1. Choose a gift your recipient will love

Choosing a thank you gift requires thought and creativity. “The primary reason we get a thank you gift is to show appreciation, which means taking the time to find something the receiver will enjoy,” says Diane Gottsman, national etiquette expert and founder of The Protocol School of Texas. Selecting a gift that aligns with the recipient’s interests is key.

“Thank you gifts are from the heart,” Gottsman says. “If they love a particular flower or plant, then that’s the perfect choice. If they’re a baker, get them something related to that passion you know they will use and enjoy.”

If you can’t decide whether to have the gift delivered or give it in person, know this: Both are acceptable. “Choosing to deliver it is perfectly appropriate; everyone has different schedules,” Gottsman says. “Of course, if you’re going to meet them for a cocktail or lunch, a beautifully wrapped gift is always a wonderful presentation.”

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2. What to write in a thank you note

If someone has gone out of their way for you, then including written words along with your gift makes the gesture that much more meaningful. Gottsman says a thank you gift should always include a heartfelt thank you note. Whether you handwrite a letter or include a gift tag with the recipient’s name and a short message, making it personal gives it a special touch.

Not sure where to start? Here are two examples that may help you.

Dear [Name],

Thank you so much for [favor/act of kindness]. You’re an amazing person, and your generosity means a lot to me. I know how much you love [reason you chose the gift], so when I saw this [gift], I knew I had to get it for you. Enjoy!

[Your Name]

[Name],

Thank you for [favor/act of kindness]!

3. What to say when giving a gift

The late motivational writer William Arthur Ward said: “Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.” Truer words have rarely been spoken.

Verbally letting someone know how grateful you are for their generosity is a lovely gesture they’re sure to appreciate. If you’re at a loss for words when presenting a thank you gift, then it is best to keep it short and simple.

Here are five examples of messages that you can use when presenting your gift.

  • I got you something. I hope you like it!
  • I thought you might like this for helping me out.
  • I’m so grateful for you! I got you something for [favor/act of kindness].
  • Here’s a little something for [favor/act of kindness].
  • You’re the best for [favor/act of kindness]! Here’s a gift to thank you.
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4. Put effort into expressing thanks but don’t overthink it

When it comes to choosing a thank you gift, let the recipient’s interests guide your choices. Consider who they are and what their interests are, and then keep your selection in line with something you know they’ll love. Ironically, putting too much thought into it can lead to choosing a gift that represents your own ideas of the recipient instead of something the recipient would actually want.

“The effort you spend on a gift will be noticed and appreciated,” Gottsman says. “The bottom line is to put your heart in it.”

A thank you gift is a wonderful way to show your appreciation while leaving a lasting impression. Sending a thank you gift, such as winesweet treatspersonalized gifts, or thank you baskets, is never a bad idea, and even the smallest gesture can go a long way. Gratitude never goes out of style.

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