Category: Seasonal Trends

School’s Back in Session: 5 Ways to Celebrate the Return to the Classroom

As the first day of school approaches, it’s important not only to keep an eye on your child’s mood, behavior, sleep patterns, and appetite but to recognize all the positive aspects of heading back to the classroom. Parents need to celebrate both the return to school and the academic success their kids have achieved so far.

But what does a back to school celebration look like?

Below are five creative ways to bridge the gap between summer mode and school mode, and help build positive excitement and anticipation for that all-important first day of school.

1. ‘Yes Day’

If you have elementary school–aged children, there’s a good chance you crowded together on the couch to watch Yes Day! on Netflix, which is based on the 2009 picture book by Amy Krouse Rosenthal and Tom Lichtenheld. A “yes day” is what it sounds like: It’s an entire day where your every answer to your kids will be, “yes.”

Sibyl Volker and her husband started doing end-of-school “yes days” when their now 8-year-old son finished kindergarten. It’s become a tradition every June for the Portland, Oregon, family of two.

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“We’ve promised them each their own day to pick out adventures before school starts,” Sibyl shares. “Our daughter has already decided she wants to ride roller coasters, and our son will likely want to play video games and go swimming.”

If your family’s “yes day” includes candy for breakfast, delight them with a smorgasbord of sweets in the form of the Candy Craves™ Fabulous Favs Tray.

But what about food? “There will be sugar,” remarks Sibyl. “And probably tacos.”

Do the kids want breakfast for dinner? Then say “yes” with a customized assortment of baked goods including scones, Belgian waffles, loaf cakes, English muffins, and sweet rolls. Now that’s a good start to the day….

2. Movie night

Everyone loves going to the movies. Re-create that in-theater magic by hosting a movie night at home.

Start by creating a movie marquee listing age-appropriate film titles to choose from — school-themed movies or films based on your family’s favorite books are a good place to start.

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For an indoor experience, rearrange furniture so the screen is the focal point; toss pillows on the floor so little ones can stretch out. For outdoor viewing, line up patio chairs, blankets, or sleeping bags under the stars, all facing the projection screen.

Don’t have a projection screen? You can DIY a makeshift screen by clipping a white full-size, flat sheet to a dark wall and then clipping it to staked poles or even a clothesline. The secret is to pull the sheets super taut to remove any wrinkles.

And, of course, no movie night is complete without snacks. Set up a table off to the side where kids can help themselves to butter, cheese, and caramel popcorn or grab an individual back-to-school-themed snack pack or cake pop. And don’t forget the beverages…for kids and adults!

3. Teacher appreciation party

Teachers have long been unsung heroes, so why not host a back-to-school celebration in the form of a teacher appreciation party? Your child and their classmates can create handmade gifts that communicate both their excitement about going back to school and their appreciation for all their teacher’s hard work.

One gift could be a thank-you poster on which each student makes a handprint with nontoxic, washable paint and writes a personal message.

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Expressing gratitude can also be done in food form.

And this year, you can not only show your gratitude for your teacher with a thoughtful gift, such as some back-to-school themed iced cookies, but with each purchase, you’ll also be supporting the Red Nose Day fundraising campaign. 1-800-Flowers.com has joined forces with the nonprofit Comic Relief US through Sept. 9 to help end child poverty and provide access to quality educational resources and supplies for all. Ten percent of net proceeds from our special back-to-school collection will be donated to this vital campaign, helping ensure all children thrive with the opportunity for a bright future.

4. Time capsule

Time capsules are an interactive storytelling project that the entire family can create for their future selves. Items that go into the time capsule can have personal meaning or represent life at this point in time. They can be sentimental or even a bit humorous, such as:

  • A favorite toy or stuffed animal
  • A family photo
  • A letter to your future self
  • Old cell phones
  • A family questionnaire

5. Classmate meet and greet

If you already know the other students in your child’s class, consider planning a meetup at a local park or playground for a fun back to school celebration. Setting up designated activity zones, such as a craft table to make personalized name tags and a cookie decorating station, will help kids get back into the groove of hands-on projects and time management.

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The Coastal Grandmother Aesthetic Has Arrived. Here’s How You (and Your Home) Can Look the Part

As I pulled out my navy ribbed cotton sweater from my beat-up boat and tote bag while sitting on the beach in East Hampton, my 26-year-old friend Carrie suggested I have a tag sale to sell my vintage clothes. I had not thought of my classic pieces (striped boatnecks, loose linen pants, straw beach hats) as vintage, but I guess since they’re from the ’80s and ’90s, technically they are. Then Carrie threw in the zinger: “You’re kind of a coastal grandmother.” What??? I’m not a grandmother, or even a mother, so I was utterly confused. Then she explained the TikTok/Instagram phenomenon to me.

And wouldn’t you know it, she had described me to a T.

Here’s the official coastal grandmother checklist…

Lives in a cedar-shingled beach house, with the relaxed attitude to go with it.

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Grows herbs on her back deck for whipping up pesto and quinoa salad.

Coastal grandmother is what we all should look like when we stop following the trends.

Andrea Linett

Fashion expert, author, and blogger

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Enjoys rosé on the early side (ahem!).

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Frequents farms and farm stands, and then bakes pies for friends.

Check.

Wears straw hats, button-down menswear shirts, and stacked rings from every decade of life.

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Never leaves home without her trusty canvas tote bag.

Check.

Has a white kitchen, often with a marble island, where she serves hand-picked lettuce in one of six or seven raw-edge wooden bowls.

Check.

Still can’t picture what a coastal grandmother looks like? Think Diane Keaton’s character in Something’s Gotta Give (or, actually, any Nancy Meyers movie heroine) or your mom’s chic friend from Montecito.

Either way, #Coastalgrandmother has more than 23,000 posts on Instagram, including one from Anne Hathaway, in which she’s wearing a white button-down shirt and cream-colored cotton pants, straw hat, and oversized shades over the caption “I have been ready for #coastalgrandmother chic since before TikTok was born. May this moment never end.” The post has over 770K likes.

The coastal grandmother trend started on TikTok earlier this year and has caught on with the Gen Z/millennial crowd — like my friend Carrie, a podcaster and Instagram aficionado — so it’s officially a thing. Whether you actually live this way or not, anyone can look the part.

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The coastal grandmother wardrobe

“Coastal grandmother is what we all should look like when we stop following the trends,” says Andrea Linett, fashion expert and author of The Cool Factor and the blog I Want To Be Her!. “It’s just good quality pieces worn with the attitude of ‘I have things going on other than worrying about what I look like. I’m focused on life and I’m going to make tomato and corn salad now with fresh basil picked from my own garden.’ That’s what I picture.”

The look, Linett says, specifically means linen pants, button-down Brooks Brothers shirts, French striped sailor shirts, a bolero sun hat with a chin strap, a classic loafer or Birkenstock, L.L. Bean bags, and, “if you can, a really nice watch.” “Anything menswear works,” she says. “And there’s a causal haphazard roll up of a sleeve because you’re making that salad, maybe even a half-tuck, dare I say.” It can be crumpled but still polished. And this look should not be confused with preppy (think K.Jacques sandals, not Jack Rogers) or Palm Beach (skip the Lilly Pulitzer).

The coastal grandmother interior design

The home, where the coastal grandmother spends a lot of time reading, cooking, and entertaining friends, is a big part of the vibe, too. “I sum it up as a timeless, casual, comfortably luxurious space where nothing is ostentatious, but everything is beautiful,” says interior designer Michael Del Piero, who has design studios in both the Hamptons and Chicago. “It’s a new version of a grandmother, and she’s super chic,” she says, adding that she actually is the “coastal” grandmother to two grandsons. When she designs interiors, Del Piero often incorporates an extra-long, weathered farm table in the kitchen as an island, white slipcovers on sofas, candleliers (instead of chandeliers), rattan or wicker furniture, woven natural seagrass rugs (as opposed to newly made or Oriental rugs), and found items from nature or yard sales.

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How to get the coastal grandmother look in your home

It’s easy to bring a little coastal grandmother into your home, no matter your age or where you live. Linen is a big part of the look — linen slipcovers, linen dresses, linen napkins, says Del Piero. She also suggests keeping the palette neutral, with whites, oatmeal, and “sea glass sorts of colors, like aqua and light blue,” not patterns or bright colors. Layer textures like fur and terrycloth in these solid neutral colors. And accessorize to channel your own coastal grandma: stacked dishes on open shelves, pillows or oversized floor cushions made from worn antique rugs, or a rustic wooden bowl of lemons or fruit in the kitchen — cliché as they may sound — sum up the vibe. Natural objects, such as driftwood, olive branches, and wildflowers, can create the mood on a table. Avoid anything “too brassy, too shiny, too new, too silky, or too formal,” Del Piero says.

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That idea of repurposing items applies to what you wear, too. Linett suggests vintage madras or tuxedo shirts, men’s button-downs, and minimal gold jewelry, perhaps inherited. “Vintage looks like you had it in your closet for years, even though it was in someone else’s,” Linett says.

Why coastal grandmother is in

Why is coastal grandmother so popular right now? Perhaps people are looking for a more relaxed approach to life, and the aesthetic is just an extension of that feeling. We take comfort in living life simply, focusing on the basics, enjoying nature and friends, appreciating the beauty of a perfectly ripe tomato or buttery pie crust.

We also feel nostalgia for an easier time.

“The world is so crazy right now, the last thing you need to do is worry about what you’re putting on all the time,” Linett says. “This look is not tone deaf, it’s not flashy or inappropriate, because there are more important things going on (in the world).”

Right she is. I’m off to the beach to ponder life in my linen pants under the shade of my straw bolero hat. I’m lucky I kept my striped shirts from high school. Sorry, Carrie, this coastal grandmother is not selling.

How to Make Summer Birthdays Special

Quick, think of everything you love about birthdays (playing games, getting together with friends and family, cake). Now, think of what makes summer so awesome (warm temps, no school, ice cream). Put them together, and you’ve got the absolute best time of year for a birthday party!

“Summer birthdays can be a blast, and with short work weeks, warm weather, and any excuse for a pool day, there are many ways to make a summer birthday special,” says Kristine Cooke, event planner and designer at Simply Charming Socials.

The laid back and flexible nature of the season, Cooke adds, makes planning summer birthday celebrations easier. “Kids are out of school, workloads tend to be lighter, and vacations are sprinkled throughout the months, so adding in a birthday party or trip isn’t as hurried,” she says.

Summer lets you fully enjoy the great outdoors

With the weather generally warm and sunny, the options for where to host a summer birthday increase infinitely. “You can celebrate anywhere, from a manicured backyard to a pool deck, down by the lake or oceanfront, on a rooftop or in a garden,” Cooke says. “Even the mountains in the summer months are beautiful and great for a glamping trip or campout.”

While there’s nothing like an outdoor summer party, Cooke is quick to point out the pros of an indoor party. “When the AC is pumping and you can enjoy a sweat-free fete, indoor parties are where it’s at,” she says.

4 easy ways to achieve summer birthday happiness

With a little extra consideration about the season, you can host a memorably fun summer birthday party.

1. Choose a summertime theme

A theme might feel too “extra” at first, but it can help immensely when it comes to brainstorming and planning — not to mention the “wow” factor for your guests and special birthday person. “One of our most memorable summer birthdays was a citrus-themed pool party for 4-year old twins at their home in Atlanta,” Cooke says. “From water activities to a tapas bar, on-theme desserts to colorful picnic-style seating, this party was pretty and fun!”

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2. Opt for summer-friendly foods

Particularly for outdoor daytime parties, avoid foods that melt quickly in the sun (anything with chocolate) or things that spoil easily (shrimp salad, for example). Focus on summer foods that refresh and hold up in the heat, such as watermelon salad, gazpacho, and cucumber sandwiches.

3. Think drinks

“Always keep plenty of cool beverages at the ready, boozy or otherwise,” Cooke says. Freeze bottles of water, have plenty of ice on hand, and make sure juice boxes and water is easy to access, especially for little hands.

4. Bug off

Nothing can kill a party faster than a swarm of mosquitos. In addition to bug spray, Cooke says fans are a helpful way to ward off bugs and keep everyone cool. “And for the evenings, tiki torches or citronella candles are key.”

Summer birthday parties for adults

A summer birthday also means the party possibilities are virtually limitless. Cooke, whose business is based in Georgia, says some of her favorite summer birthday celebrations have included an al fresco dinner party, poolside white attire party, and dockside low-country boil. Another stand out? “An intimate boat ride followed by a multi-course waterfront dinner.”

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For adult summer birthdays, Cooke suggests taking full advantage of gorgeous summer evenings. “Laid-back gatherings, when the sun sets late into the evening, are so enjoyable. Or opt for a pool party or beachside celebration…where else can you blow out the candles with a frozen drink in hand?”

Know someone who’s turning 21, 30, or the big 5-0 this summer? For the person celebrating a milestone birthday, Cooke likes the idea of whisking them away. “Tropical destinations are popular in those summer months, but if you’re staying in the U.S., we recommend New England or the Pacific Northwest, areas that have so much beauty in the summer without the high heat or cold winter weather,” Cooke says.

4 summer birthday themes for adults

1. Throwback summer camp

Who says you have to be a kid to enjoy camp? Make silly crafts, learn to tie knots, and give everyone merit badges for their awesome achievements.

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2. Parisian wine tasting party

Fancy up a deck or patio and serve up a mix of reds, rosé, and white wines along with fresh grapes, cheese, and charcuterie.

3. Color-themed party

Ask everyone to dress in the same color. Don’t forget to end the night with a toast and sparklers (these aren’t just for wedding exits anymore).

4. Hot tropics

Encourage guests to come in their best island attire (bonus points for the loudest Hawaiian shirts). Send out the tropical vibes with festive decor and coral-colored party fans, and indulge in some icy cocktails that will transport partygoers straight to a seaside bar (in spirit, at least).

Summer birthday parties for kids

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Now, about those kiddos. A summer birthday for younger ones means you’ll want to track down school friends to get invites out to everyone. Cooke says it’s also important to consider the summer heat and other related factors. “Summer birthdays for kids can be a blast but can come with a few challenges, especially if you’re hosting outside.” She suggests always keeping sunscreen, bug spray, and a first-aid kit on hand. “And we can’t stress adult supervision enough, especially for pool parties, bounce houses, and campfires.”

4 summer birthday themes for kids

1. Backyard camp-out party

Roast marshmallows, set up pop-up tents with sleeping bags, tell scary stories, and sleep under the stars.

summer birthdays with kids roasting marshmallows while camping out

2. Magic garden party

Think gnomes as decoration, cupcakes decorated like mushrooms, cookies with “fairy” sprinkles, and grow-your-own crafts.

3. Drive-in movie night

Keep this party low-key, with an outdoor projector playing a favorite flick and an ice cream bar or popcorn station.

4. Mermaid/Merman party

Tails are optional, but “sea” food is a must (or maybe just the fish cracker variety). No pool? No problem! Get well stocked on water balloons and Super Soakers. Indulge little ones in their own summer dessert board that’s just as fancy as the grown-up variety.

9 Steps to Throwing the Perfect Backyard Party

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Our backyards are not just places for the kids to run around, the dog to roam, or us to grill dinner for our family — they’re ideal venues for entertaining friends and family.

All you need to host a backyard party is a keen eye for detail…and a record player.

1. Create an experience

Games like cornhole and horseshoes have a permanent place at a backyard party, but to create a total experience, consider going further. Urban Cowboy Hotels owner Lyon Porter, who’s known for hosting eclectic hangs at his Catskill and Nashville properties, says backyard parties are opportunities to be original.

“People want an experience. My partner, Jersey Banks, and I try to be super thoughtful about things like themes or outfits,” Porter says. “Our backyard parties have featured mentalists performing disappearing acts, séances, and roundtable talks in ‘Jeffersonian-style oration.’ It’s really about making the party memorable in unexpected ways.”

2. Prep for success

Washington, D.C.-based celebrity chef Spike Mendelsohn has some sage advice: “If the host is going to cook, then they should do most of the work before the party — you never want to miss out on the fun. I always prep the day before, and that really ends up impressing my guests. If I’m going to grill steaks, I’ll be sure to rub them, season and marinate them, and have them in [zip-top bags] ready for the grill.”

backyard party with young people having barbecue on summer day

3. Serve creative cuisine

Mendelsohn, a master snack maker, offers three easy ideas for backyard party treats.

Mushroom jerky

“We can’t talk about summer barbecue trends without talking about fungi. Portobello and cremini mushrooms have always been a substitute for meat. Just marinate the mushrooms, grill them on the barbecue a little bit, and then dehydrate them in the oven.”

Watermelon and jalapeño water

“Chop up the watermelon until it liquefies and then add a little coconut sugar and either honey or agave, and squeeze in some limes. Grill the jalapeños quickly, slice them, and infuse them in your watermelon water. It combines the spiciness of the jalapeño with the freshness of the watermelon.”

Strawberry shortcake log

“Macerate your strawberries, maybe throw some liquor in for a little kick, then get your angel food sheet cake. Whip up your vanilla cream, layer the strawberries over the whipped cream, and then slowly roll it up. Top it off with whipped cream and macerated strawberries, and that thing is a big, big win.”

4. Hire a bartender

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Employing a bartender at your backyard party makes all the difference. “A bartender is a must,” Porter says. “They can craft signature cocktails based on seasonal or event themes.” They also free you up to mingle and enjoy time with your guests.

5. Form small pods

Porter suggests making seating areas into small pods of four to six people. “In smaller numbers, everyone can participate in that group discussion — and then when the food ends, it really turns into a party.”

6. Cast shade

Eventually people tend to retreat indoors and escape the elements. But to keep the party outside (and dirt from tracking inside), Porter suggests adding some shaded areas in the backyard with umbrellas or tents.

7. Spread out the sound

Veteran New York City DJ Nick Russo likes to start with “funkier and mellow stuff” and then introduce some indie or new wave music. He tries to play familiar songs early in the party so arriving guests feel welcome right away. If you don’t want a DJ, play vinyl records selected by your guests for a timeless party atmosphere.

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Selecting the right tunes is obviously the first step, but designing the sound of your backyard venue is essential, too. “Usually two speakers, on the left and right of the DJ, are enough. But you can go a step further with multiple speakers that cover all angles in a bigger backyard to make the sound as full as possible,” Russo recommends.

8. Clean up in real time

Porter says it’s vital to eliminate trash and clutter as it’s produced. “If you see something when you’re walking around, put it in the trash can. And have multiple trash cans set up everywhere — give people the option to discard garbage and recyclables.”

9. Provide protection

You’ll want to have bug spray, sunblock, and maybe even fans (if it’s a particularly hot day and you’re short on shade) on hand for when your guests arrive. If your party goes into the evening, tiki torches or citronella candles will help set the mood and keep insects at bay.

How to Decorate for Summer Parties: Shabby Chic® Founder Rachel Ashwell Shares Her Best Tips

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Summer is one of the best times of year to entertain. During this season, life slows down a bit, providing plenty of time for planning an unforgettable celebration – as well the right atmosphere for hosting one.

“There’s something a bit more gentle about a summer situation,” says Rachel Ashwell, founder of the celebrated Shabby Chic® design style and couture brand. “Being outside, near a garden, on a balcony…it lends itself to interacting and catching up on the year’s events.”

There’s a relaxed sort of elegance to summer gatherings that also allows for a bit more whimsy and possibility when decorating and entertaining guests. Being outdoors allows for nature to set the stage blossoming trees and colorful blooms.

As the proud caretaker of a lush rose garden at her Santa Monica home, Ashwell says her favorite summer parties have always been held outdoors. “I like to let the roses and flowers be the star of the show.”

Details make the day

Ashwell has a few signature elements she often likes to include when entertaining: “I use scraps of fabric for bunting, which is an affordable way of creating a great decorative element.” The British-born Ashwell points out this décor tradition began in England after World War II, when citizens took to displaying small Union Jacks strung across long pieces of twine and hung like banners. Bunting was just about anywhere a string could be affixed and it became an informal and quintessentially English way to dress up an event.

For me, parties are all about intimacy, and hosting is all about the simplicity of making a space that supports people connecting.”

Rachel Ashwell

For themed parties, Ashwell suggests tying the bunting style to the concept. A white garden party may call for a uniquely textured white fabric; for a traditional garden party, a specific floral fabric that complements your yard’s live blooms might be more appropriate. Ashwell also is a fan of décor that combines charm and utility. “Placing parasols in the garden is a very summery party element,” she says. “You could attach flowers, or even fairy lights, to make it actually useful in the evening.”

Setting a summer table

Though a lifetime admirer and collector of vintage china, Ashwell says one of her favorite elements of a hosting an outdoor summer party is the option of using paper plates, customized in an inspired manner. “You can really make a white plate come to life by personalizing it. Decorate them beforehand using an embosser, or buy them already embossed with an icon, maybe a certain flower, or a person’s name — or even have the plates custom made.”

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Blending formal and informal design elements is a Shabby Chic® trademark, which, in this case, Ashwell says can be applied to choosing the rest of your table settings. “I also like to layer in things that have more substance, so I prefer cloth napkins. They could be floral, or little plaids, not always just solids.”

Keep your theme and palette in mind when choosing items for your table, such as beverage bottles and any packaging. “I try and keep everything that’s in view aesthetically pleasing, so I’m also mindful of the attractiveness of the bottles of wine, water, and drinks, as there are really pretty drinks out there these days.”

Keep things cool, light, and lively

Above all, Ashwell believes that a great party gives guests room to communicate and engage with one another.

“Sometimes you go to a party and can’t see people, or you can’t really talk to them,” she says. “For me, parties are all about intimacy, and hosting is all about the simplicity of making a space that supports people connecting. So I make sure to remain mindful of practicality, not just aesthetics.”

To her, the idea is to plan an outdoor celebration by working with your environment and making the most of what nature has to offer. That means building shaded spaces in your layout and keeping an air-conditioned indoor room near the action for folks who need a breather.

Ashwell’s mantra of beauty, comfort, and function begins with seating and surfaces: Having a round table at a party tends to make it easier for guests to communicate with one another, and using low floral displays on the table allows for better eye contact.

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At an outdoor summer party, don’t be afraid to encourage little playful moments that make people feel at ease. “I personally have a massive collection of vintage floral hats, and I always have baskets of those for my guests to wear. It’s not quite dress-up, just something nice and festive, and it makes for great photos,” Ashwell says. “People can often be inhibited about ‘Smile for the camera!’ and this can loosen the atmosphere a bit.”

A reunion to remember

Summer is also prime season for class or family reunions, celebrations that are about collectively experiencing the past, in the present. To aid in this process, Ashwell suggests assembling a “visual memory lane, or a little exhibit of what your reunion is about that represents your shared memories.” Try building multiple memory boards on eye-level easels that feature photos and items from the past, and suggest on your invitations that guests bring their related materials to post. This, Ashwell says, sets the scene for “an interactive ‘Oh my, you still have that?!’ type of scenario.”

Let the fun in the sun commence

At day’s end, Ashwell finds the key to hosting a party that entertains and satisfies is creating an environment that brings people together to recount shared memories while inspiring moments that create new ones.

She says, “I’m all about the meaning of gatherings. So anything you can arrange that jogs memories, causes reflections or communication, enables meaningful conversations, makes a much more successful party than some major, fancy situation with loud music and so much space that you don’t get to see anybody.”

9 Ways to Make the Most of Summer

Summer may be the same length as the three other seasons, but for some reason it feels shorter. Depending on how you read the calendar, we have two or three months at most before we’re all supposed to put the summer whites away and get back to business as usual. So, we want to put this time to the best use we can. Carpe diem! (That means “Seize the day!” for those who don’t speak Latin.)

Here are nine ways to make the most of summer while spending time with others…or reenergizing yourself.

1. Take short vacations

“Less is more” is a key credo for psychotherapist Jonathan Alpert, despite the title of his book, Be Fearless: Change Your Life in 28 Days. With our day-to-day lives being so dang busy, now is not the time for a huge vacation, he says. “Not only is that expensive, it takes a lot of time, energy, and stress to plan it. Then it takes a few days on the trip to get out of work mode, and a couple of days before it ends you’re thinking about work again.” So, you’re wasting half the trip with anxieties about work. Where’s the fun in that?

“What’s better is to take long weekends,” he recommends. “It takes less mental energy, costs less, and you’re not stressed by missing work for so long.” You don’t get disoriented or fall behind.

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2. Disconnect from social media

While platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram give us a sense of community, they also have the drawback of being intensely competitive when people post lavish trips and vacation spots. “They create keep-up-with-the-Joneses feelings,” Alpert says. “Don’t let social media influence where you go for vacation. Just disconnect and base your decisions on your own research and discussions with your significant other.”

Then, when you’re on vacation, the pressure to report your experiences to social media in real time can also take you out of the experience itself. Don’t curate your vacation. “The more time you spend on social media, the more you miss what’s right in front of you,” Alpert says. In other words, your fear of missing out — or FOMO, as the kids call it — should be over a real beach, not a photo of one.

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3. Get back to nature

One way to replace that tech overstimulation is through immersion in the natural world. “It’s summer, so anything you can do to get outdoors and be around flowers and plants is a great move,” says Brielle Merchant, MHA, a certified health educator and registered yoga teacher.

The following three suggestions are all activities Merchant recommends that you do out in nature.

4. Grounding

This involves getting down and dirty with Mother Earth. “You lie down, take your shoes off, and put your feet on the ground with your arms and legs out,” Merchant explains. “It reduces stress and feelings of anxiety and depression, lifting your mood. It can also improve your sleep and help you be more present in your everyday life.”

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5. Journaling

“Making daily entries in a diary outdoors is a great way to gain clarity and understanding,” Merchant says. Parks are a perfect place to do this, she notes. “They’re beautiful, normally quiet, and they often have water fountains and gazebos you can sit under.”

6. Coloring, drawing, painting

Any of these practiced out in the beauty of nature will lower your stress and anxiety, and improve your mood and sleep quality, Merchant says. “They also improve your focus and patience. Plus, they’re great ways to improve our motor skills.” For those who aren’t particularly gifted in art, Merchant recommends adult coloring books, which you can find at your local art store.

7. Meditation or yoga

Listen to the audio of a meditation you like when you’re out in nature. This gives you a double dose of serenity: one from the meditation, one from the location. The same goes for yoga outdoors. “Yoga is especially great because it also helps you improve your balance and increases your strength,” Merchant explains.

8. Cook and eat plant-based foods

In addition to being out in nature, it’s a great time to put some nature in you, Merchant advises. If possible, purchase vegetables, fruits, and beans from your local farmers market. Even if you only have access to grocery stores, summer is the perfect time to explore new produce or cook it in a new way. “Plant-based foods improve your mood, energize you, and reduce your risk of cardiovascular diseases and diabetes.” They also give you new ways to stay hydrated in summer, Merchant adds. “Just add plant-based foods like mint or blueberries to your water to make it more interesting. It’s far healthier than sugary sodas.”

9. Reconnect

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Summer is the perfect time for reunions with loved ones and friends that you haven’t seen in a while. “Start a new family tradition,” Alpert recommends. “Go hiking, hit the beach, visit a new city together…and if you all love it, make it a point to do it regularly.” And if you’re a couple, it’s the perfect opportunity to work on your relationship. “Just getting away from work is a start, and relaxation enhances romance,” Alpert says. “You can just focus on each other.”

“The healthier the thing is that you do together, the better,” Merchant says. “Science shows that any good habit you’re trying to develop, if you do it with a loved one or friend who can keep you accountable, it really increases your chances of not just adhering to it but establishing it as a long-term lifestyle choice.”

Alt Bashes: What These Unique Parties Are and Why We Should Have Them

Life can be challenging and stressful. Often, we look to traditional holidays — occasions that are meant to be celebratory and full of revelry — to provide us with a break from the everyday grind, but even those can put a lot of strain on us. That’s why it’s so important for our wellbeing that we acknowledge the smaller achievements in our lives.

Enter: alt bashes.

What’s an alt bash?

Alt bashes are parties that celebrate the little milestones in life. These are events that may seem minor but carry great significance to us. And, in this day age, they matter more than ever.

From puppy showers to break-up cakes, alt bashes prove it’s not just occasions like birthdays, weddings, and babies being born that warrant a shindig. Bought your first car? Celebrate it with a soiree. Signed the lease to a new apartment? It’s party time. Divorce just got finalized? Throw yourself an alt bash. (It might even turn out to be more fun than your wedding reception was!) These mini milestones all show that you’re moving forward in life, and they deserve to be celebrated.

Not only are alt bashes a fun reason to throw a party, but they can be good for our souls as well. Celebrations that bring us together to recognize small milestones are great ways to acknowledge progress toward achieving something greater, says psychotherapist Amy Morin, host of The Verywell Mind Podcast and author of the international bestseller 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do. “It feels really good to know that your friends and family know you’re working hard to reach a goal,” Morin says. This support network can be there after the party’s over, she says, to help you stay on track, supporting you along your journey.

“Celebrating smaller milestones or little victories can be instrumental in helping us stay motivated.

Amy Morin

Editor in chief, Verywell Mind

Celebrating small wins helps us stay motivated

One of the best parts of an alt bash is how liberating it can be. You can throw an alt bash for literally any reason, no matter how small the milestone. The freedom alt bashes offer gives us a chance to celebrate small victories on the way to big goals. “So often we think we have to wait until we reach the finish line before we can allow ourselves to celebrate the hard work we’ve put in,” Morin explains. “But sometimes celebrating smaller milestones or little victories can be instrumental in helping us stay motivated.” When we allow ourselves to break a bigger goal down into smaller, more manageable chunks, it’s easier to see our progress, Morin insists, and that can make the bigger goal seem more attainable.

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Morin encourages people to make sure goals are measurable and actionable. “Saying you want to become happier or get healthier won’t help. Instead, set out to go to the gym three times a week or pay off $100 in debt this month. Write down your goal and find a way to keep track of it, like just putting check marks on the calendar to show the days you worked on your goal.” Hosting an alt bash to celebrate meeting one of these mini goals can be a wonderful motivator and something to look forward to at the end of the task.

8 reasons to celebrate with an alt bash

Saying goodbye to the past and hello to the future

Revel in the end of a relationship when you’re ready to move on. Bake a breakup cake and throw a party with friends to help the healing process, whether it’s following a divorce or relationship ending.

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Quitting a job

A party doesn’t just need to be reserved for a promotion or retirement. The great resignation has inspired plenty of “I Quit” parties that commemorate a new chapter beginning.

Adopting a pet

Your new fur baby can be any age when you celebrate their “Gotcha Day.” New pet parents can invite the special canines in their life to the party, but you’ll probably want to host that alt bash outside. (And don’t forget the party supplies!)

Overcoming a health obstacle

Whether it’s meeting a fitness goal, going through the last round of chemotherapy, or recovering from an injury, health milestones deserve a moment with loved ones.

Seeing the kids off into the world

Empty nest photoshoots have hilariously been trending online. Now it’s time to bring your social circle into the fun with an empty nest house party.

Meeting a financial milestone

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Paying off a mortgage or big credit card bill, or becoming free of student loan debt takes lots of hard work and dedication, so why not celebrate the occasion (in a fiscally responsible way, of course)?

Improving your home life

We all have tasks around the house that we are always putting off. So if you finally get around to wall-mounting that TV, painting your bedroom, or organizing a closet, invite your buddies over for some delicious treats. Heck, throw in some wine and you might even be able to get them to help you with some other household chores while they’re there.

Welcoming a new member of the family

Baby showers aren’t just for babies, and they aren’t just for birth parents either. Adoption parties are just as special and exciting. This can also extend to fostering as well as annually celebrating the finalization day of an adoption.

Alt bash party planning tips

Alt bashes are fun and easy to plan. Here are three ways to make the preparations even simpler.

1. Focus on food

Specially themed cakes with fun puns and sayings relating to the milestone that’s being recognized make great centerpieces. And since alt bashes are meant to be laidback affairs, don’t spend time on lots of food prep. Instead, opt for a party menu that requires little effort, such as a sweet and savory brunch or a sampling of bakery favorites.

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2. Deck it out

Have fun with decorations that relate to the theme of the party. Grab some puppy-themed supplies for a dog adoption or a “Flying Colors” party pack after acing that big exam (get it?). And, of course, every alt bash needs a well-placed message banner (the cheekier the message, the better). With decor, you can go as far as you want. That means custom napkins, photo backdrops, wine bottle labels, you name it.

3. Don’t forget the games

Entertaining games make your guests feel like they’re part of the celebration. “Guess How Many” jars are popular and easy to make (except for the counting part). You can also find printable games on the internet for virtually every type of party. Just make sure to pick ones that keep the laughs coming, are easy to understand, and feed into the theme.

Life’s a Beach! Here’s How to Have a Picnic at One

Planning a beach picnic involves more than throwing on a bathing suit and flip-flops, packing towels, and filling a cooler with deli sandwiches and adult beverages. Sure, there’s nothing wrong with going that route, but to make your beach picnic shine, we’ve put together this checklist for supplies and a special menu featuring delicious seafood salad sandwiches and caprese kebabs.

Beach picnic checklist:

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  • Picnic basket or market tote
  • Large beach blanket and towels
  • Cooler filled with ice, bottled water, soda, beer, perhaps a hard seltzer or two, and wine
  • Portable speaker (make sure it’s charged!) and beach tune playlists
  • Beach umbrella and/or tent
  • Beach chairs
  • A variety of finger foods, such as cheese, fruit, crackers, jams, dips/spreads, honey, baguettes, nuts, olives, cookies, snack mix, bruschetta
  • Plates, napkins, glasses, cutlery, a few cutting boards, platters, and small bowls
  • Volleyball and net, paddle ball, football, Frisbee
  • Beach hats, sunglasses, sunscreen, bug spray
  • Portable grill and charcoal, grilling tools
  • Hand wipes, trash bags, recycling bags, paper towels, hand sanitizer, first aid kit

Swim hard, eat light

I love supplementing a beach picnic with lighter fare, including wine and cheese, charcuterie, fresh fruit and vegetables, nuts, crackers, dips and spreads, and a baguette, all served on platters and boards. It’s an easy way to feed a group of people chilling at the beach. Plus, no cooking is required, which means more time for swimming, relaxing, and having fun.

Two of my favorite recipes to make for a beach picnic are seafood salad sandwiches and caprese kebabs. They’re both super delicious and easy to make (and pack!), and they look great displayed on a platter.

Seafood salad sandwiches

The seafood salad is made with wild artisan blue shrimp sautéed in Greek extra virgin olive oil and mixed with fresh lump crabmeat, and then tossed in a light, creamy dressing. It’s served on Wolferman’s 1910 Original English Muffin Bread; the thickness of each slice makes this the perfect bread for sandwiches that have to hold up in a picnic basket or cooler at the beach.

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Seafood Salad Sandwiches

Servings 8 sandwiches

Ingredients:

Instructions: 

  • Heat oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the shrimp and season with seasoned salt and pepper to taste. Cook shrimp until bright pink and opaque, about 2 minutes. Raise heat to medium-high and add lemon juice. Continue cooking for another minute or two, remove from heat, and set aside to cool.
  • Once cooled, coarsely chop the cooked shrimp into pieces and place in a large mixing bowl with the lump crabmeat.
  • Add the scallions, celery, mayonnaise, Dijon mustard, hot sauce, seasoned salt, and additional black pepper to taste. Stir together to combine.
  • Place a lettuce leaf on the bottom of the muffin bread and top with a half cup of seafood salad and another slice of bread. Slice sandwiches in half and serve on a platter.
Author: Kristen Hess
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: American

Caprese kebabs

These caprese kebabs are delicious and easy to prepare, and make a light and healthy snack, too. The main ingredients are fresh basil leaves, bocconcini (fresh mozzarella balls), and cherry tomatoes, which are threaded onto small wood skewers, drizzled with balsamic glaze and extra virgin olive oil, and sprinkled with sea salt and freshly cracked black pepper to finish.

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Caprese Kebabs

Servings 12 kebabs

Ingredients:

  • 12 appetizer wooden skewers
  • 24 cherry or grape tomatoes
  • 24 fresh mozzarella cheese balls
  • 24 fresh basil leaves
  • 2 tablespoons Geoffrey Zakarian Greek Olive Oil
  • 2 tablespoons balsamic glaze
  • Sea salt
  • Freshly cracked black pepper

Instructions: 

  • On each of the appetizer skewers, alternately thread tomatoes, mozzarella cheese balls, and fresh basil leaves.
  • Place skewers on a platter and drizzle with olive oil and balsamic glaze. Season with sea salt and pepper to taste.
Author: Kristin Hess
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: Mediterranean

How to Create a Rose-Themed Summer Charcuterie Board

Follow along with these steps from Ramona Cruz-Peters of Fab Everyday to create a wine and roses charcuterie board perfect for summer entertaining.

My two favorite things about the summer are the longer days and all the beautiful roses in bloom. This is what inspired me to create a simple but lovely “Days of Wine and Roses”-themed charcuterie board for summer entertaining.

With just a few steps and a meat and cheese basket, you too can make this swoon-worthy spread.

Step 1: Create salami roses and rosettes

To make salami roses, fold a piece of salami over the rim of a champagne flute. If you don’t have a champagne flute, you can use a regular glass; I recommend one with a narrow mouth so the salami roses don’t end up too big. Repeat the process with more salami, overlapping as you work your way around the glass.

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When the ring of folded salami feels tight, invert your glass over the charcuterie board and slide the glass out of the salami rose. Herb leaves like sage can be strategically placed with the roses to bring the floral theme to life.

After creating 2-3 large salami roses, you can create mini rosettes by folding salami pieces in half, and then rolling a few of them together and securing them with toothpicks. I like to place the rosettes next to the larger salami roses to make it look like a group of rosebuds.

Step 2: Add cheese to the board

Next, add a few different cheeses, such as an aged Asiago and a nutty Gruyère, to your charcuterie board. Offering a variety of cheeses accommodates different guests’ preferences and provides options for mixing and matching flavors.

Continuing with the floral theme, I sliced the wedge of Asiago into long triangles to mimic petals and placed them in the middle of the board. I cut the Gruyère into cubes and placed them at the corners of the board to provide visual contrast with the circular salami roses.

Step 3: Incorporate your antipasto

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Who said you shouldn’t play with your food? Displaying the antipasto should be fun! I arranged some of the roasted peppers with garlic and garlic-stuffed olives into floral shapes in small ramekins before adding them to the charcuterie board.

Step 4: Fill the extra space with nuts and fresh herbs

Finally, fill in the open spaces on the board with mixed nuts and more fresh herbs like rosemary in addition to the sage leaves.

Step 5: Cheers!

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Now it’s ready to party! Serve the charcuterie board with water crackers and baguette crisps for your guests to eat with the meat and cheeses, plus an assortment of red and white wines. If you have a wide variety of wine and cheeses, you could even suggest different pairings for guests to experiment with. For a final touch, I like to set out the charcuterie board with roses or rose petals to pull together the floral theme.

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