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First Birthday Party Tips Every New Parent Should Know

Throwing a party for your child’s first year on Earth is a great way to celebrate their burgeoning young life and reflect on how special the past 365 days have been. But just how far should you go to plan your child’s first birthday party?

Susan Newman, Ph.D., social psychologist, parenting expert, and bestselling author, says the most important thing for first-time parents is to ignore any outside pressure and just concentrate on themselves.

“Parents should shed the influence of what others think they should do for this early birthday and focus on what they want to prioritize,” she says. “The first few birthdays are really more for the parents, because children won’t remember them, so just try to have fun and make memories.”

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If you’re looking for first birthday party tips for your little one’s big bash, here are five things to consider.

1. Decide who to invite

When it comes to a guest list, you may want to keep things intimate and manageable, especially if there will be other little kids in attendance. Once you account for family and close friends, consider the groups your baby is in, such as daycare or toddler gym classes.

The first few birthdays are really more for the parents, because children won’t remember them, so just try to have fun and make memories.

Susan Newman, Ph.D.

Social psychologist, parenting expert, and bestselling author

“If you want to plan a lowkey party that’s focused on your child, try limiting the number of guests,” Newman says. “Maybe just invite grandparents, parents of your kid’s friends, friends of the family, and young cousins. If you do decide to invite other youngsters, be sure to include enough cake, cookies, and treats for their enjoyment, too.”

Remember to keep your budget and the party space in mind. Too many revelers may overcrowd the event, drive up the cost, or unnecessarily complicate the planning. In other words, start your list with definite invitees, and then add slowly from there.

2. Choose a location

Hosting your baby’s first birthday at your home, especially if you have enough room to accommodate the guest list and give kids of all ages room to ramble, is an excellent idea. This simplifies the logistics of the party and can help save money.

“If you want your 1-year-old to really enjoy their first birthday, hold the party somewhere comfortable and familiar to them so they can feel at ease and focus on the fun,” Newman says.

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Choosing a party space that is not your home also has its advantages. An outdoor park, for example, makes it easy for larger groups to gather without feeling cramped, gives kids plenty of room to play, and often includes tables and/or pavilions that you can use for decorations and food. If you go this route, be sure to get any necessary permits before hosting the party.

Restaurants and dedicated play spaces are also good options. While they can be a little pricier, they do not require much prep, and cleanup is taken care of (we can hear every parent reading this exhaling in relief).

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3. Set realistic expectations

Let’s be honest: One-year-olds are unpredictable. You never know what they’re going to do next. So, the last thing you want to do is pressure your child into doing what you think he should do instead of letting him do what he wants to do.

“You’ll probably want them to blow out candles and smash the cake. If they do, that’s great, but if they don’t, that’s OK, too,” Newman says.

That’s why, Newman says, you need to have a camera handy at all times — so you can document everything that happens.

“It’s going to be super fun later in life to show your child the first birthday party they won’t remember,” she says. “They’ll love to see themselves sticking their fingers in the cake or seeing who was there.

“And, of course, you’ll want to remember, too.”

4. Keep guests fed and hydrated

No party is complete without tasty treats and refreshing beverages. While a birthday cake is an obvious inclusion — preferably one for the guest of honor to destroy and one for everyone else to enjoy — providing other snacks to satisfy hungry partiers is also must.

Further, you could forgo the cake entirely and serve cookies instead. Serving a cake isn’t the end all be all, Newman says, and smaller children might enjoy cookies more anyway.

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Beyond sweets, the children at the party are sure to go for more kid-friendly options and drinks — think finger foods, fruit, and drinks with straws — while adults may require more nuanced selections.

5. Don’t forget to have fun

You may be a little limited in terms of party activities — there’s only so much you can do with a room full of 1-year-olds — but a little creativity can go a long way.

Consider having photo props on hand so that parents can take fun, memorable pictures with their children. This keeps the kids and the parents engaged. You can even print the photos out on site so partygoers can have keepsakes to take home with them.

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A first birthday party is also a great time to start traditions. In Newman’s case, she baked a cake for her son’s first birthday in the shape of a car, because that’s what he was into at the time. As her son’s interests changed, she made cakes for future birthdays in the shapes of soccer balls and bowling pins.

Newman says, “This is a wonderful time to start your own traditions that are special to you now and will be special to your children later.”

How to Throw a Unicorn Birthday Party That Is Gorgeously Epic

From winning gift ideas to card message suggestions, “Birthdays Reimagined” provides tips to help you make your loved one’s birthday wishes come true. Plan a unicorn birthday party with these simple steps that will guarantee your party is gorgeously epic and showcases the magic of unicorns.

A unicorn birthday is one of the most popular kids’ party themes out there, and for good reason: It combines the fanciness of fairy tale magic with the adorableness of magical ponies. Unicorns are notoriously extra, and that makes planning a unicorn birthday even more fun. It’s the perfect opportunity to go wild with colors, opulent accents, and all that glitters. We say, bring on the fun and fabulousness.

Jasmine Shah, owner of Atlanta’s IDEA! event + style, says the unicorn party became popular around 2014 and remains one of her most frequently requested parties. “For many years, princesses had reigned supreme for little kids’ parties,” Shah explains. “The party world was ready for something new. The unicorn is a perfectly majestic and magical creature that piques the imaginations of kids and adults alike.”

Although a unicorn party can be tailored to any age, Shah says that it’s especially popular for preschool kids, between 2 to 5 years old. And, she contends, it’s easier than you think to summon the beauty, grandeur, and wonder of this mythical one-horned horse for a child’s birthday party.

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Unicorn party basics

Some parts of a unicorn party are essential to channeling the epic glamour of the unicorn aesthetic. A rainbow of colors, some sparkle, and, of course, the all-important unicorn cake are the foundations. But unicorns embody wild imagination, so there’s plenty of room for fun interpretations personalized for the guest of honor.

“Usually the unicorn parties I plan include pastel rainbow colors, sparkly tutus, iridescent horns to play dress up with, a real life pony making a grand entrance dressed up like a unicorn, and sometimes a ‘unicorn princess’ making an appearance as well,” Shah details.

Shah recommends figuring out the entertainment portion of the party before getting too caught up in fantasy bling. “While kids appreciate the special decor elements, what they really remember is the fun factor!” she exclaims. Shah suggests leaning into your child’s interests as a way to customize the experience. While she often hires “unicorn princesses” to play games and read stories, any adult, with just a costume and a wig, could easily fill this role.

Unicorn party decor: rainbows and royalty

Shah suggests renting an all-white bounce house and decking it out with a rainbow of pastel balloon garlands. She says elements that do double-duty, providing both fun and style, are the way to go. Think unicorn pool floaties, pretty lawn games, and glammed-up party rentals, such as a cotton candy cart. Give each child their own unicorn-themed place setting with place cards and a snack box. “Kids love seeing their name printed,” Shah says.

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If you don’t want to spend too much time on decor, you can take care of your tablescape in one click with the Unicorn Party Bundle.

Unicorn party fun and games

Shah hosted one unicorn party in the courtyard of a ritzy Atlanta hotel where she brought in a real “unicorn” pony for rides. If you don’t have the means (or space) for real ponies in your yard, swap in unicorn plushies that party guests can cuddle, such as Sparkles the Llamacorn. Other ideas for keeping party guests happy and entertained include unicorn piñatas, unicorn ring toss, and unicorn slime making.

Don’t forget a photo station for your little unicorn wranglers. “Create a custom-printed unicorn backdrop with the birthday child’s name and age,” Shah says. “Add a bunch of fun unicorn-themed photo props so the kids can get silly, goofy photo memories!”

Unicorn cake

The centerpiece to any proper unicorn party is the iconic unicorn cake. “The unicorn cake is one of the most special elements for the birthday child — it’s a must,” Shah says.

To create this demure classic, use a tall round cake with flawless white icing for the unicorn head. Add multicolored icing for the mane and dreamy unicorn eyes with big, bold eyelashes. Last but not least, top the cake with a majestic silver or gold horn.

Whether you DIY or work with a baker to create a custom cake, Shah suggests additions like rainbow cake layers or a sparkly glitter sheen. Be sure to stage it on a proper pedestal to enhance the grandeur.

Unicorns need to eat, too

Finger foods and easy-to-eat snacks are the way to go at a unicorn birthday party. Here are three ideas that fall in line with the overall theme.

Unicorn ‘poop’ dip

We all know unicorns poop rainbows, right? Get some giggles by whipping up this silly side dish using your favorite white veggie dip, such as ranch, hummus, and sour cream and onion dip. Separate your dip into four separate bowls and add a different pastel color gel food coloring to each bowl. (Food coloring goes a long way, so you don’t need to use much.) Fill a larger bowl with your dip and alternate spoonfuls of each color until you get a good unicorn rainbow swirl.

Rainbow grilled cheese

Make rainbow melty cheese using shredded cheeses (mozzarella, cheddar, and Gruyère make for good stringy cheesiness) divided into different bowls. Mix each bowl with pastel food coloring. Place the cheese on the bread (the thicker the better) in different-colored strips, and grill the sandwich until you get a nice melt and the bread is golden brown on each side.

Unicorn pizza

Use the same method for making grilled cheese to make rainbow pizzas. Just be sure to keep your colors of shredded cheese nicely divided so it makes a visible rainbow effect when melted.

Sweet treats for playful ponies

Here’s where you can really get creative with the unicorn theme. Balance out rainbow-colored treats with crisp white desserts to really let the colors pop. Pre-made treats, such as the ones found in the Have a Magical Day Party in a Box, make the dessert menu a breeze. For a great table centerpiece, try a Unicorn Gift Basket. It contains an assortment of goodies your unicorn-obsessed little one will love and provides a place for you to put utensils and napkins.

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Add some variety with Magical Unicorn Dipped OREO® Cookies and Magical Unicorn Truffle Cake Pops, and finish off your dessert menu with rainbow sherbet. Let guests create their own tasty unicorn horns using ice cream cones that they can cover with icing and other toppings, such as sprinkles or magic shell.

Offer a fruity alternative with the Mystical Unicorn Arrangement, which includes unicorn-shaped pineapple slices. And what fancy party is complete without chocolate covered strawberries? Make it epic with Unicorn Sparkle Strawberries. These feature gorgeous pastel colors that twinkle with pearlized sugar crystals for a perfectly pretty look.

Why Every Birthday Is Special and Deserves to Be Treated Like a Milestone

From winning gift ideas to card message suggestions, “Birthdays Reimagined” provides tips to help you make your loved one’s birthday wishes come true. Birthdays are a chance to celebrate, commemorate past years and what’s to come, and connect with friends. Make your birthday matter with these expert tips.

Every year, we all have a special day when we’re showered with gifts, well-wishes, greeting cards, and congratulatory social media posts. Children look forward to their birthdays and all the presents, games, and cake that come with it. For adults, the pomp of birthdays sometimes diminishes as life gets busy. But the day is no less special.

Children and adults alike enjoy good times, and that is especially true on birthdays. Birthdays, whether your own or someone else’s, are a great reason to have fun, entertain, socialize, and make memories.

“Your birthday is a celebration just for being born,” says Pauline Wallin, Ph.D., a psychologist in Camp Hill, Pennsylvania. “You don’t need to do anything to earn it, and no one can take it away from you.”

Each anniversary of your birth marks a unique moment in time — the day when you came into the world — and is a reminder that you have been given one more year of this wonderful gift of life. That alone is reason to treat it as a joyous occasion.

While birthdays connect us to our past, they also can serve as temporal landmarks. These moments help us move forward by encouraging us to make a fresh start and take action toward future goals and aspirations. Rather than being about numbers, birthdays are about life and constant renewal, and each one should be celebrated with alacrity.

“The fact is, every birthday is special, whether the birthday boy or girl is turning 8 or 80,” says Jim McCann, 1-800-Flowers.com’s founder and executive chairman. “Birthdays are an opportunity to connect with the people in our lives and reflect on accomplishments, learnings, and memories.”

Getting older = getting better

Sure, a birthday means you’re another year older — but that’s even more reason to celebrate. You have one more year of lived experience to your credit, and with it comes extra wisdom, learning, and personal growth.

In fact, celebrating another year can help promote a healthy attitude toward aging. “In some cultures, such as Greek, Native American, and several in Asia, older people are considered wise and given great respect, so this can be a good aspect to focus on as we get older,” Dr. Wallin says.

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Birthday celebrations and acknowledgments also can promote mental health and emotional well-being. “It’s a feel-good moment when someone takes the time to recognize your birthday,” says Deborah Crowe, an executive and business coach based in London, Ontario. “Who doesn’t like to be recognized on their special one day out of 365?”

In children, birthdays can be good for building self-esteem. “Birthdays are focused on the individual, which can make a child feel special,” Dr. Wallin says. “And as an adult, having happy memories of childhood birthday celebrations can be good for your mental health.”

Here are five ways to make sure you treat every birthday as the milestone it deserves to be.

1. Take time to reflect on the past year

Use a birthday as a time to take stock of the honoree’s life. Look back on what they’ve achieved since their last birthday, the hurdles they’ve overcome, and where they hope to be when their next birthday rolls around.

Capture your thoughts in a letter or express them at the party or over a phone call. “You have the power to affect how someone feels,” McCann says. “Pick up the phone, send a text, or share a memory, and let them know how much you are thinking of them on their special day.”

2. Show gratitude by giving back

Birthdays can be a great time to reflect on many blessings in our lives and what we’re grateful for. If your birthday is coming up, use it as a chance to give back, such as requesting donations to your favorite charity in lieu of gifts. This is something Dr. Wallin herself has done. If a friend’s birthday is coming up, ask about a favorite charity you can contribute to.

3. Celebrate in a way that pleases you

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However you choose to celebrate, do it in a way that makes them happy. If a big, all-out bash is not their thing, you can mark the occasion in a more quiet, low-key way. “I tell people to focus on making the day enjoyable for themselves,” Dr. Wallin says. “Simple pleasures like buying flowers or plants are easy to do and don’t require a lot of preparation.”

4. Remember others on their birthday

As nice as it is to have our birthdays remembered, it’s even better to remember someone else on their birthday — even if it’s just saying (or singing) happy birthday to them. “It’s a very small effort that is usually much appreciated, and it’s also a good way to keep in touch with people you don’t see or talk to very often,” Dr. Wallin says.

5. Give a gift

Gifts are a wonderful added perk to having a birthday. Whether giving to a friend, family member, employee, colleague, or even yourself, here are five gift ideas to inspire and delight.

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Gourmet gift basket

Who doesn’t love tasty, sumptuous food? These are items we tend not to buy for ourselves, so receiving a basket with yummy cheeses, pâtés, jams, and teas is sure to please the birthday person for weeks to come.

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Flowers

There’s nothing like a fresh floral arrangement or a plant basket to lift one’s spirits and remind the recipient of your love and well wishes.

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Sweets

Chocolate-covered strawberries, cheesecake bites, or candy-covered cake pops will please the sweet tooth of any birthday recipient or party guest. They are also perfect for a work celebration.

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Something personal

A personalized framed photo, mug, glassware, T-shirt, or bottle of wine that reflects the recipient’s unique personality shows extra thought and care on your part. Additionally, Crowe says, “giving personalized gifts to staff on their birthdays shows the employer has spent time getting to know their employee outside the scope of work and is present and interested in their lives.”

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Candles

In addition to giving off light and warmth, candles can symbolize support and love. You can choose from an array of candle shapes, sizes, and scents — or gift your friend or co-worker a special birthday candle.

Don’t rely on others to make your birthday special

If someone forgets to send you a card or gift, or even give you a call, let it go. “My advice, which I follow myself, is it’s up to you to make your birthday special,” Dr. Wallin says. “If others remember, that’s a bonus, but if they don’t, it does not mean that you’re not important to them. Your birthday is not a test of how much your family and friends care about you.”

Instead, let this motivate you to become better at remembering others on their birthday. Go out of your way to treat them on their special day as you would want to be treated on yours. No matter what age a person is turning, treating their birthday like a milestone is something that never gets old.

No Secrets Here: 10 Steps for Planning a Memorable Surprise Birthday Party

From winning gift ideas to card message suggestions, “Birthdays Reimagined” provides tips to help you make your loved one’s birthday wishes come true. In this article, learn how to keep your surprise party planning a secret as well as some celebration ideas to help you throw an unforgettable birthday bash.

“Surprise!”

The very word gets us excited and conjures up memories of the times we’ve been caught off guard by fun. The element of the unexpected raises the level of anticipation when planning a surprise birthday party — and keeping a covert mission from the guest of honor is entertaining for everyone who is involved behind the scenes. A surprise party means being both stealthy and creative.

Here, we help you navigate the process, from guests to food to gifts and more.

Step 1: Book the guest of honor and set the date

To keep your friend or family member from discovering your plans, get a firm commitment from him or her to celebrate their special day with you. Make a decoy plan, such as a family birthday dinner or drinks with friends.

Making a date on the honoree’s birthday guarantees they will attend their own party. It also keeps them from wondering why no one is planning something for their special day. Another option is to schedule the celebration for a more convenient time rather than their actual birthdate, such as the weekend before.

Step 2: Pick a venue

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When choosing the location, consider activities the guest of honor enjoys, advises Sue Moretti Bodson, founder and president of Emboss, an events and communications company in Greenwich, Connecticut. Will she like a party at a brewery with hay bales and a live local band, or is she more of a classic dinner party lover? Does he love good food or would he rather get everyone on the rock climbing wall?

“Bear in mind who you are surprising and what their likes and interests are,” Bodson says. “Asking someone to meet you at a fancy restaurant who is a more lowkey person isn’t going to fly.”

Step 3: Organize the guest list

Once you secure the location, you’ll have an idea of how many guests the space holds. Jot down a list of possible attendees.

Ensure you’re on the guests’ calendars six to eight weeks out and be very clear it’s a surprise so no one spoils the surprise. And don’t tell more folks than you have to. “Keep the circle very tight,” Bodson recommends.

Step 4: Directing the guests

Start a group text or Facebook chat to review the details of the big day. These should include what time guests should arrive, the guest of honor’s arrival time, where to park cars (so they are not visible to the guest of honor), and the venue address.

Bear in mind who you are surprising and what their likes and interests are. Asking someone to meet you at a fancy restaurant who is a more lowkey person isn’t going to fly.

Sue Moretti Bodson

Founder and president, Emboss

Step 5: Stun the honoree with surprise guests

One way to really make the birthday girl swoon is to invite favorite family members from faraway locations or important people (a mentor, best friend) from her past whom she rarely gets to see.

Work with the special guests to find a local place to stay and make sure you set up a time for them to spend the day after the surprise party. The excitement of connecting the birthday girl with out-of-town relations will guarantee a lasting memory.

Bodson planned a dinner for her father in New York City. “My sister, who lives in North Carolina, met us as a surprise, which he loved,” she says. Bodson then continued the surprise by giving her dad tickets to see Rocky on Broadway, since he is a boxing fan.

Step 6: Choose the music

Follow the classic ideas to th rowing a good party and firm up the music selection. If you’re hiring musicians, start looking for them immediately. Live music requires a longer lead time. GigSalad is a useful site to help find local musicians and other entertainment. Ask friends, local musicians, or even your child’s music instructor for suggestions.

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If you’ll be DJing, start working on a playlist two weeks out. Be creative and design a music list based on the birthday girl’s favorite songs. Another option is to create a greatest hits song list from the year they were born.

Step 7: Create the menu

What you serve will set the tone of the gathering. You can be simple, with beer and pretzels or margaritas and guacamole. If your party girl has swankier preferences, serve champagne and macarons. And don’t forget the birthday cake.

Step 8: Order decorations

Decorations, such as banners, balloons, and flowers, will set the party’s style. Connect the color scheme of your decorating items and you can have a festive look with just a few clicks of the mouse. Be sure to order gifts or party favors early. Last-minute arrivals can be overwhelming, with you having so many duties to attend to.

Step 9: Offer gift ideas to guests

Include any gift requirements in your group chat. Share details, such as if there will be a gift table at the venue, or give helpful links that reflect the birthday girl’s favorite goodies. Deliveries like flowers and gift baskets sent directly to the guest of honor’s residence after the party are an easier way to gift. They also don’t impose on the venue and eliminate the trouble of having to transport the presents home after the celebration.

One idea is to create a personalized photo album. This keepsake will entertain guests while they wait for the party to begin and is a thoughtful gift. Be sure to take pictures at the party and have them printed after so they can be added to the album.

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Step 10: Time it right

Timing is everything with a surprise party. Guests should arrive 30 minutes before the birthday girl or boy arrives. Emphasize the importance of promptness, since latecomers could arrive at the same time as the guest of honor, which will spoil all the fun.

While people are waiting for the birthday party to begin, have guests fill out “would you rather” cards you’ve printed beforehand. Serve light food and non-alcoholic drinks — just not anything too celebratory, as you don’t want the guest of honor to feel like they’ve missed any of the fun at their own party.

Don’t worry if the plans don’t go as expected. Some attendees may cancel. The balloons may have escaped when you opened the car door. In the end, it’s about celebrating a birthday in the most surprising way. And how fun is that?

The Best 50th Birthday Gift Ideas

From winning gift ideas to card message suggestions, “Birthdays Reimagined” provides tips to help you make your loved one’s birthday wishes come true. Shopping is easy with this list of 50th birthday gift ideas that will keep your loved one smiling all night long.

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Those of us approaching our 50th birthday remembers the days when department stores thrived and everything came with a logo. It was the ’80s, when we also watched “Dynasty” and “Dallas” on picture tube televisions.

Life, and living, are different now. Turning 50 is certainly a major milestone, but marking it with a status symbol is no longer what most of us are looking for. We want feelings and connections — and the experiences that give us those feelings and connections.

Lifestyle expert Katie Brown says one of her most meaningful gifts was a spiral notebook (paper!) of go-to recipes compiled by one of her favorite home cooks. She says feels their friendship every time she makes one of the recipes. Michael Clinton, publishing executive and author of ROAR: into the second half of life (before it’s too late), says he celebrated his 50^thwith a group of friends on a trip to Antarctica.

“That was the best present for me, a life experience we will share forever,” he says.

Expression goes a long way

The traditional 50^th birthday gift is gold, as in entering our “golden years,” I suppose. But come on, I’m starting to finally do the things I wanted to do as a teenager, such as drive a stick shift convertible, have long hair, and date fun boyfriends (not long-haired boyfriends). Gifts should reflect our youthful spirit, no matter the chronology, and they don’t have to be gold.

LA-based philanthropist Eve Somer says her special 50^th gift was a short film with clips from all her best friends and family, put together by her boyfriend, who happens to be a professional filmmaker. “I’ve never felt more celebrated or more loved,” she says.

Tips for giving great gifts

The key to giving a great gift (short of flying to Antarctica) is to consider what makes the recipient happy and fits with their unique personality, not yours (and no regifting!). In the past few years, I’ve baked brownies or a cake for a friend on their birthday, and then packaged it in a beautiful box with a ribbon, or a silver-plated cake server, because everyone likes brownies and cake, right?

Here are 11 gift suggestions based on the recipient’s personality or background that will allow you to send something they’ll love, especially if you can’t celebrate in person. (And no age-shaming! Point out that 50 really is the new 50.) Our new motto should be, it’s not just the thought that counts but the feeling, too.

50th birthday gift ideas

Flowers

Sending flowers, even on the same day, is always a winning gesture. You can also give that feeling every month with a flower delivery subscription. There’s even a vibrant “flower cake” made entirely of blooms that can be delivered on a white cake plate.

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Lobstah, baby!

For the New Englander at heart, or your friend who loves summer, send two or four lobster tails to remind them of that full moon dinner you shared on the beach.

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The sweet tooth

If you know your sister, brother, mother, or friend is super sweet, or just really into desserts, how about a monthly delivery of baklava? I would love that.

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Wine bud

For your friend you drink wine with, even if it’s on video chat now, how about engraved wine glasses with their initials? Or a phrase you always say together, such as “Have you tried that new wine called Rosé?”

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Forever NYC

To your neighbor who said they would never leave New York City, send a New York-style cheesecake. It’ll remind them that the city’s still there, even if they’re not.

Animal lover

For the person you know deep down is happy just hanging with their dog or cat, how about a personalized dog bed for their furry friend?

Movie buff

If your friend or family member is addicted to streaming movies at home, send a subscription from The Popcorn Factory, such as the Popcorn Lovers Flavor of the Month Club. They won’t even have to get off the couch to enjoy it.

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Healthy(ish)

Know someone who eats healthy but also likes to indulge every now and then? Give them the best of both worlds with a shipment of a dozen dark chocolate-covered strawberries. Even the chocolate has its health benefits!

Pretty and practical

An engraved mirrored box, for jewelry, reading glasses, or hearing aids, can look elegant and be functional, too. Get it for a friend who needs more places to put (and find) things.

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Keepsake for mom

Every mom loves a scripted 10K gold name necklace, whether it’s of their name or their child’s — especially if you are the son or daughter giving it.

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Personalized and cozy

If you really want to evoke a feeling, send a personalized throw pillow with a photo of something or someone they love. Maybe that’s you.

Celebration Ideas for Every Milestone Birthday

From winning gift ideas to card message suggestions, “Birthdays Reimagined” provides tips to help you make your loved one’s birthday wishes come true. In this article, we provide gift ideas for every milestone birthday.

Milestone birthdays signify important life achievements that are worth commemorating. Whether the milestone year is 21 or 50, these birthdays are the ones we tend to celebrate in creative, unforgettable ways.

According to researchers at The Wharton School, recognizing temporal landmarks such as a birthday or new year are motivational because they provide an opportunity for reflection and gratitude. With such a powerful opportunity to reflect and remember the occasion, it’s no wonder people look to honor these milestones in big ways! Below, we’ve listed memorable celebration ideas for each major milestone birthday.

Fun ideas for throwing an 18th milestone birthday bash

The 18th birthday is the first big milestone in our lives. With it comes many adult perks, such as being able to vote, purchase a car, and establish credit. “It’s the one in which western culture bestows young people with rights they will enjoy for the rest of their lives,” family therapist Kyle King says. “They are excited to flex some of their new independence and privileges.”

One way to celebrate this new independence is with a sophisticated party to mark the occasion. Encourage attendees to get dressed up in formal wear and if you can, try renting out a party venue to make the day extra special. You could even plan a “bon voyage” cruise-themed party as you watch your childhood years sail away, with a cruise-themed menu and snacks.

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18th birthday gift theme: Flowers

Flowers are a perfect gift for an 18th birthday. As full adulthood approaches, childlike interests lose favor to more sophisticated enjoyment. Roses, lilies, and orchids are classic selections. And you can never go wrong with a birthday bouquet. Receiving a birthday flower delivery also introduces an 18-year-old to a lifelong pleasure that happens when you receive a delivered gift.

Go all out for a 21st birthday

Twenty-one is a milestone that grants new privileges, so it’s usually honored by indulging in these fresh abilities. Celebrate with a wacky scavenger hunt for the honoree to complete that night. To feel luxurious, rent a limo on the way to a casino or 21-and-up nightclub! If a big bash isn’t ideal, then an evening of sophisticated cocktails with friends at home can make the night special. You could hire a mixologist (or buy a mixologist kit) and keep the night intimate as the honoree celebrates their new freedoms, complete with a Girls Night In Rosé Gift Basket.

21st birthday gift theme: Alcohol

Most everyone agrees that full adulthood and being able to legally drink are why the 21st birthday matters. Customized champagne flutes are more elegant than shiny SOLO cups, while a wine-related gift introduces pleasures found in more grownup tastes.

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Celebrate 30 in style

If your honoree is feeling particularly old at this milestone, you can throw an “over the hill” party. Ask guests to dress in black to “mourn” their youth and bring gag gifts like fake teeth. If they’re not up for the joke, the 30th birthday can also be a time to celebrate the refining of tastes and interests. Organize a dine-around your local city, where you try a different course at each restaurant. Or you could find a private chef to cook an intimate meal at home for a sophisticated touch. If your honoree would rather their 30th still feel youthful, you can throw a classic slumber party, full of cheesy movies, pajamas, and plenty of snacks.

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30th birthday gift theme: Chocolate

Chocolate for the 30-year old who loves decadence in a delicious package. Give a box of super chocolatey cookies or a selection of fine chocolates, such as the Neuhaus Collection Discovery Box, which includes pralines of various flavors and fillings.

Get festive for the 40th

A fun way to honor the 40th is by throwing a 1940s big band-themed party. Guests can dress in 40s-era clothing and the party can feature swing music or vintage movie classics. For a more low-key event, try an at-home spa weekend for your closest friends. You could host a wine tasting, mani/pedis, or even hire a masseuse. Complement the weekend with a Lavender Spa Basket for a luxurious experience.

40th birthday gift theme: Self-care

Indulge the 40-year-old with self-care goodies to relieve the exhaustion that comes from active living. Ideas include spa gifts, candles, or cozy comfort gifts like tea and blankets to encourage relaxation.

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The best ways to bring in the big 5-0

Aside from the 21st birthday, the most popular birthday for adults to celebrate is their 50th. According to Matt James, an award-winning professional event planner, most people turning 50 prefer a tasteful party, with good food and good company, rather than a cheap joke-shop-style theme party. He recommends activities that celebrate the person, not just the age, such as a personalized crossword puzzle or even a piñata bust created to their liking. If your honoree wants to skip the party route, then create a to-do list with 50 tasks to complete over the year. Or, select a destination 50 miles away and spend the day exploring the area for a peaceful retreat.

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50th birthday gift theme: Food

Who would ever turn away a gift basket of food favorites? From healthy fresh fruits, foods that satisfy a sweet tooth, or a variety basket, food for 50 is the ideal celebratory gift. Food gifts also have a dual function if the recipient wants to have an impromptu celebration with friends and family.

Celebrate 60 to the max

Each decade that passes provides even more reason to cherish time with loved on. A 60th birthday (or even 70th or 80th) should be full of smiles and laughter, celebrating old friends and new family members alike. You could arrange a birthday around old childhood favorites, including a Vintage Candy Dispenser with Treats. If the honoree is up for it, try childhood activities like a bike ride, ice skating, or a visit to a local amusement park. For an at-home event, surround the special person with stories and memorabilia from their youth, taking time to share stories.

60th birthday gift theme: Flowers and plants

Most 60-year-olds are empty nesters, and with that extra time allotted from not shuttling kids to sporting events, there’s more opportunity to care for flowers and plants. Adding both beauty and enjoyment to home life, plants are a natural, uplifting gift that’s sure to be enjoyed.

Making a 90th birthday milestone memorable

At such a special milestone, this birthday can be commemorated by planning an event where new or distant family and friends have a chance to reconnect with the honoree, either in person or over video. You could have attendees write a short note honoring their life, or even gift a Personalized Message in a Bottle. If you can, take a visit back to a favorite childhood location or neighborhood and hear old stories. If you’d just like to provide some company and conversation, an outdoor lunch at a new café or restaurant can offer a lively afternoon.

90th birthday gift theme: Puzzles & games

Nonagenarians have the gift of wisdom. Develop their mind with classic puzzles and games. Games also encourage leisure time with the ones you love, which is more engaging than digital entertainment.

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Honoring the ultimate milestone birthday: 100 years old

After 100 birthdays, there’s less value in material gifts, and the gift of time and love from family and friends can be more valuable. Center the theme of the party around their life. Create a pictorial timeline of the honoree’s milestone moments, and ask friends and family to contribute photos and videos for a “this is your life” presentation. And allow guests time to toast with their fondest memories, or you could even roast them with funny jokes and stories. Make sure to eat lots of cake and honor the day with a beautiful arrangement.

100th birthday gift theme: Personalized gifts

Celebrate centenarians with a personalized gift. Examples include one-of-a-kind keepsakes like engraved gifts, jewelry, and photo albums that include pictures of life’s greatest moments.

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Zodiac Sign Gifts: How to Pick the Perfect Gift for Every Sign

From winning gift ideas to card message suggestions, “Birthdays Reimagined” provides tips to help you make your loved one’s birthday wishes come true. This article offers ideas for the perfect Zodiac sign gifts.

Gift giving — many of us think of it as one of the greatest joys in life while others consider the act to be one of life’s greatest challenges.

The unique thing about gift-giving is that no matter who you are or how great you are at picking presents, the process can turn out to be sort of a double-edged sword. In other words, gift-giving can absolutely be something you love to do — but that doesn’t mean it can’t get tricky.

The ultimate tip for picking out the right present for a loved one, friend, colleague, partner, and beyond? Think about who they are. Someone’s personality and overall essence can be directly influenced by a lot of things — their hobbies, their careers, their values. But it can also be influenced by other crucial determiners.

One of them? Zodiac signs.

What are zodiac signs and what do they tell us about?

Zodiac signs — otherwise known as sun signs — are the 12 sectors of the ecliptic, the plane of Earth’s orbit around the sun. There are 12 zodiac signs that exist and can be pinpointed based on analyzing the projection of the position of the sun, moon, and planets at the moment of a specific person’s birth. All 12 signs belong to one of the four elements that exist: air, water, fire, and earth.

Zodiac sign gifts are perfect for all your astrology-loving friends and family. This image shows all 12 zodiac signs.

Though astrology and zodiac signs aren’t scientific determinants for someone’s personality, a lot of people believe that astrology and zodiac signs can help us all get a clearer picture of a person, what’s important to them, and what fits their personality.

The best zodiac sign birthday gift recommendations

Aquarius (January 20 – February 19)

Your air sign Aquarius is rational, communicative, social, and quite the smart cookie. Always a bit analytical, an Aquarius enjoys sentimentality so long as it’s balanced with a bit of social interaction.

Consider getting your Aquarius loved one a good book that’s been on their list for a while or a well-thought-out and well-planned surprise party with a few of their closest buddies.

Pisces (February 19 – March 21)

As a water sign, Pisces is typically an artistic dreamer with a wild, exciting, and spiritual or creative flair. They’re typically absorbed in their thoughts and spend much of their time with their heads above the clouds. Because they’re another sentimental sign, they’re at their happiest when their loved ones are showing them how well they know them and how much they care for them.

Consider gifting your Pisces a ticket to their favorite artist in concert, a collection of songs that remind you of them, a family photo from a treasured moment, or anything water-related (a trip to the ocean or a picnic by their favorite lake, for example). And, of course, a Pisces wish bracelet could make their dreams come true.

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Aries (March 21 – April 20)

Our Aries friends are fire signs who love to be the life of the party. If there’s a way for them to be the center of attention, they’ll find it. Bold, ambitious, and fearless in many ways, Aries are ready to dive headfirst into almost any challenging situation. With this in mind, it makes sense that their zodiac symbol is a ram.

If you’ve got an Aries pal, the perfect zodiac sign gift is a getaway trip that gives them the chance to have an adventure, throwing them a large-and-in-charge birthday party where they get to be at the center of the hubbub or buying them a gorgeous piece of jewelry that they can show off to the world.

Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

This earth sign is all about relaxation and serenity. Taurus signs love soothing smells, succulent flavors, and any type of environment that allows them the chance to melt into themselves and what they love to do. If you have a Taurus in your life, remember that they’re highly affected by tastes and smells, so keep this in mind as you hunt for the perfect gift.

A low-stress cooking class that shows them how to make their favorite meal, a lovely and fragrant bouquet of flowers, or a delicious treat to tickle their Taurus taste buds are all excellent gifts.

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Gemini (May 21 – June 21)

Geminis are air signs who are adaptive, outgoing, intelligent, and on occasion, sort of impulsive. Most Geminis are pretty curious, too, so they love to bend their brains and think hard when the situation calls for it.

Our suggestion for your Gemini’s zodiac sign gift? Because they’re naturally brainy, try gifting them something like puzzles, books, travel accessories, or even brain teasers.

Cancer (June 21 – July 23)

Intuitive and gracious, Cancers are water signs who have a hankering for being loved on, cared for, and pampered. As one of the more sentimental signs, Cancers are typically domestic, gentle, intelligent, and even-tempered. Cancers are bound to appreciate gifts that are less flashy and more substantial — but as long as it’s sentimental, you’re probably in the clear.

Try ideas like a spa day, a gift card to their favorite stylist, or a homemade gift that screams sentimentality, like their favorite flowers or a special, framed photo.

Leo (July 23 – August 23)

Vivacious and theatrical, this fire sign loves to bask in the spotlight. You can count on the Leo in your life to be a passionate and animated person who won’t shy away from a little extra attention. When it comes to Leos, they love to flash and fanfare, so no matter what you plan for your Leo, be sure the overall presentation is over-the-top.

Your Leo is sure to love fine jewelry that will turn heads, a flashy bouquet of flowers (delivered in a public setting, of course), a night on the town to celebrate, or tickets to their favorite form of entertainment (a sport’s game, a movie, a play, etc.).

Virgo (August 23 – September 23)

The Virgo in your life is practical, systematic, and logistical. It’s even highly possible that they’re the friend or loved one that you jokingly call a perfectionist. This earth sign tends to be very rooted in reality and pragmatic, so they’ll appreciate a gift that reflects those characteristics.

Don’t get something unnecessary or impractical for a Virgo — instead, try something they need, like a coffee gift basket, bar tools, accessories that make their daily lives easier, homemade gifts, a blanket, and things that help keep them organized like removable shelves or briefcases.

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Libra (September 23 – October 23)

Libras tend to be passionate, mysterious, and on a constant quest to seek balance and harmony in their lives. Because Libras are air signs, they tend to be a bit gentler.

Gift your Libra a collection of music filled with their favorite artists, gourmet goodies, delicious coffee, wines, or home décor — just make sure you abide by the rule of balance for your Libra friends.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

Scorpios are water signs that can’t get enough of intrigue and mystery. Most Scorpios are guaranteed to be passionate, powerful, and incredibly curious. Because they’re suckers for sentimentality, it’s likely any gift that combines a little intrigue with a lot of compassion is going to be a home run.

Your Scorpio loved one is bound to get a kick out of a stellar mystery novel from an author they love, a thriller movie marathon day, decadent treats, brain-stumping puzzles, and even a trip to your local escape room for an exciting and special experience.

Sagittarius (November 23 – December 22)

This sign is on a constant quest for knowledge, adventure, and thrills. The Sagittarius in your life probably loves surprises, spontaneity, and throwing the rule book to the wind now and again. With that description, it’s probably no surprise that Sagittarius is a fire sign — right?

Think about gifting Sagittarius a trip to an exotic, exciting location they’ve never been before, a travel accessory that they’ll use on adventures, or even a new journal to document all the beautiful things they see on their adventures. And, these adventurers love low-maintenance plants since they are always on the go.

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Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

Another earth sign that craves a little practicality is, Capricorns are simple, intentional, logical, and heavily invested in quality time with the people they care the most about. Another interesting thing about Capricorns is that they crave physical comfort alongside quality time, so it’s crucial to offer a balance of both to the Capricorn in your life.

Try gifting your loved one the ultimate, at-home birthday experience (whatever that looks like for them), a cozy blanket, a sentimental and personalized gift, or even a del i cious treat that was created just for them. Acts of service also go a long way with Capricorns, so don’t underestimate how excellent something as simple as cleaning their house could be.

An astrologer’s input – Venus in the signs

Professional astrologer and author Moon Zlotnick says that while a zodiac sign can give insight into who a person is, it’s only a small part of the information that’s available about a person, so it’s pertinent to not make assumptions based on just this information.

“The sun signs in astrology can sometimes become an easy way to pigeonhole someone because we’re clumping these huge numbers of people who share a birth month and then we’re making generalizations,” Moon says. “As a practicing professional, there is definitely some legitimacy in that sign, but you’d also be in a better position if you know what sign their Venus is in, not just the zodiac sign.” In other words, a person’s Venus sign represents what they love and value, so it might be helpful to figure out what their Venus sign is, too.

Now that you know which birthday gifts to get based on someone’s zodiac sign, see which flower your zodiac sign represents!