Author: Elizabeth Craig Wells

Elizabeth Craig Wells is a former senior editor at Real Simple magazine where she focused on the Life, Style, and Simple Solutions sections. She writes for magazines, websites, and catalogs, and recently edited a 50-year history for an international women’s organization. Wells holds a B.A. in French and B.M. in flute performance from Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois. She lives with her three children in Connecticut where she coaches soccer and tennis and is working on a series of contemporary novels.

12 Good Luck Gifts and the Meaning Behind Them

Whether you think luck simply comes to you or you make your own, there’s no doubt that for centuries people have tried to change their fortune for the better with good luck charms and talismans. A money tree, a horseshoe hung over the door, and making a wish at 11:11 come to mind.

As luck would have it (yes, pun intended), there are countless symbols that might turn your day around, whether you’re looking for a little boost or are just in the right place at the right time. Pop on one of these wearable symbols or add a serendipitous item to your home, and your luck could change for the better.

Not a believer? Well, these good luck gifts are stunning anyway.

Jewelry good luck gifts

Hamsa necklace

This necklace pendant has a rose gold overlay on top of a sterling silver hand-stamped hamsa with the words “Protection,” “Power,” “Prosperity,” “Love,” “Abundance,” “Peace,” “Happiness,” “Health,” “Strength,” and “Luck.” The hamsa is found in Jewish and Muslim cultures in the Middle East, and the word “hamsa” translates to “five” in both Hebrew and Arabic. The eye in the hand-shaped symbol is supposed to ward off the evil eye; thus, the hamsa is worn as protection from evil spirits.

Rainbow necklace

Catching a glimpse of a rainbow certainly feels special, and it is — you have to be just in the right place to spot one of them. (Rainbows are actually optical illusions, but we don’t need to get into the science of that here. That’s what sites like Popular Science are for.) Then there’s the matter of the legendary pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. If you’re on the hunt for that, you’re out of luck because, as luck would have it, rainbows have no end. They are a full circle — you just can’t see the other half because the horizon gets in the way.

Rainbows, nonetheless, are associated with healing, hope, and peace, and this beautiful charm is the perfect reminder of those signs.

good luck gifts Horseshoe Pendant Necklace

Horseshoe diamond necklace

Many legends persist about how horseshoes became a lucky symbol, but the most ubiquitous is that of a patron saint of Ireland, a blacksmith. The devil demanded the blacksmith make him shoes, but the blacksmith wasn’t tricked and instead nailed a burning hot shoe to the devil’s cloven hoof, prompting the god of the underworld to declare he would never go near a horseshoe again. Warding off the devil seems like a good thing.

Its 11:11 – Make a Wish Bracelet

In numerology, 11:11 is considered an angel number, one that is either a palindrome or follows a pattern. The number 1, specifically, can represent new beginnings. The superstitious feel that the luckiest day of the year is 11/11 with their wishes coming at — you guessed it — 11:11.

14k Gold Filled Clover Earrings

While the three-leaf clover was associated with another patron saint of Ireland, St. Patrick, and his work spreading the word of Christianity there, the four-leaf clover is in short supply. Legend says that Eve took a four-leaf clover from the Garden of Eden to remind her of paradise (sounds lovely). And the English say if you dream of clover, you will have a happy marriage (also sounds lovely). Each of the four leaves, according to a European poem, has its own meaning: faithful love, fame, health, and wealth.

Finding a four-leafed variety is unlikely, as it only appears 1 in 10,000 times. Therefore, wishful thinking would follow that if you’re lucky enough to find a four-leaf clover…then, well, you’ll be lucky enough for anything prosperous. And that sounds very lovely!

Wishbone 16″ Extending Necklace in Pure Platinum

In ancient Etruria (central Italy), chickens were considered the oracles of the future, and, thus, Etruscans stroked the wishbones of these birds for good luck. But chickens at the time were also scarce, so people broke the bones in half to spread the wealth of luck. The tradition was passed from the Romans to the British and, ultimately, to the Pilgrims, who found turkeys — and, by extension, wishbones — in abundance in the new world.

Plants and home decor good luck gifts

Money Tree Grove

The money tree is associated with good fortune and is a common gift for the Chinese New Year. The story goes that a man found the tree and took it home, and grew many more trees from it, giving him financial prosperity (gives new meaning to having a “green” thumb!). The specially trained trunks are known to keep luck within their braids. According to the rules of feng shui, the money tree should be kept in the southeast corner of the home, where it thrives in an abundance of indirect light.

Lucky Clovers Oxalis Plant

Most Americans know St. Patrick, whose feast day celebrated here is largely associated with rainbows, leprechauns, and pots of gold. Though his life was filled with suffering, St. Patrick spread Christianity throughout Ireland, explaining its Holy Trinity meaning through a shamrock — the three-leafed plant that now represents St. Patrick’s Day to many in the U.S. and around the world.

This flowering gift includes a resin shamrock with the saying “For each petal on the shamrock this brings a wish your way. Good health, good luck and happiness for today and every day.”

Yin Yang Chip & Dip Bowl

Hand carved of Indian rosewood, this is an entertaining statement piece. Not only gorgeous but symbolic, the yin and yang is the ultimate sign of balance, coexisting peacefully together, and each side has a bit of the other in it (in this case, your spots for salsa and guac!). When this balance is achieved, energy is harmonious, according to Chinese Taoism. Sounds like a perfect plan, whatever your dip of choice!

11″ Antique Brown Polyresin Turtle Statue

A harbinger of long life and lasting presence, the turtle has been around since before the dinosaurs. In a Hindu depiction, the turtle holds four elephants who, in turn, hold up the earth, signifying the weight of the world. And in Native American cultures, the turtle represents healing, wisdom, spirituality, heath, safety, longevity, protection, and fertility.

This statue can live inside or outside, but we picture this little guy greeting guests at your entryway. He has certain good vibes, as all turtles seem to (remember Crush from “Finding Nemo”?).

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Hand-carved Elephant Soapstone Tea Light

Symbols of peace and power, strength and knowledge, a hand-carved elephant made of soapstone will be a reminder to you that all things are possible with patience and learning. This African treasure will be right at home on your desk, as elephants represent wisdom and prosperity.

Braided Bamboo

Beautiful and sleek, yet easy to take care of, bamboo is highly prized in Chinese culture and feng shui. This lucky bamboo has three stalks braided into two, with each stalk representing happiness, longevity, and wealth. A beautiful gift for someone starting a new job or new life together, lucky bamboo will bring positive energy.

20 Last-minute Valentine’s Gift Ideas for Her and Him

Some day, in the not too distant future, ChatGPT or the like will act as our personal assistant, keeping us on task, making sure we get enough sleep, and reminding us of important dates. The app will ding 10 days in advance, asking if you’d like to buy one of three options for your wife for her birthday, your anniversary, and Valentine’s. It will then order (with wrapping, of course), and the gift will arrive in advance of said special occasion, making you look like a proper hero.

Until that day comes, though, we have to keep on top of our calendars ourselves. But with this cheat sheet of perfect last-minute Valentine’s gift ideas for your sweetheart, you can still come out on top. Better yet, as Feb. 14 looms and the frenetic pace of the new year becomes all consuming, you only need to remember a day or two in advance. And even if you don’t have time to choose one of the below winners, you always have same-day flower delivery to fall back on.

Thank goodness for the Information Age.

Last-minute Valentine’s gift ideas for women

For the Traditionalist

Red Roses & Drizzled Strawberries

Nothing says “I love you” like a dozen beautiful fresh red roses. For a woman who loves the traditional expression of love, you cannot go wrong with these quintessential Valentine’s flowers. This particular choice also adds a dozen white chocolaty-coated strawberries to satisfy her sweet tooth.

For the Jewelry Lover

White Gold Plated Tennis Bracelet

Tennis player or not, this 18k white gold tennis bracelet sparkles just like the real thing. It’s such a sweet, surprising gift, and she can feel equally comfortable pairing it with casual or special occasion looks.

For the Daydreamer

Message In A Bottle

If your sweetheart cried when she watched Robin Wright Penn’s classic movie “Message in a Bottle,” she just might be the perfect recipient of this present, one that is romantic and touching. Choose from notes written for a “new love,” a “true love,” or “someone special,” or write your own poem or letter. Chocolate truffles add an extra special Valentine’s touch.

For the Green Thumb

Heart Succulents

A more subdued way of wishing your loved one a happy Valentine’s Day, these cuddling succulents in a heart shape couldn’t be cuter. Succulents are loved by all and are easy to take care of, no matter your level of gardening expertise.

For the Sweet Tooth

Pink Rose Chocolate Cake

The absolutely exquisite pink rose frosting hints at — but does not reveal — what is underneath: a four-layer moist chocolate cake by the award-winning bakery We Take the Cake. Chocolate cream cheese frosting separates each layer, while beautifully crafted buttercream roses cover the outside. For those with different food preferences or allergies, try this gluten-free vegan ch ocolate cake instead.

For the Scroller

“I Love You” Magnificent Roses

Does your partner love texting “IU”? Make her message a permanent display of love with this stunning yet cheeky gift box made with preserved red roses. Unlike those disappearing Snaps, this message will last forever.

For the Decorator

Monthly Flower Subscription

Many designers love a fresh flower bouquet gracing their entryway or table. Imagine the love she will feel every month when another gorgeous arrangement arrives at her door. Start in February and choose a three-, six-, or 12-month term — or let the blooms keep coming until you cancel!

For the Bubbly Drinker

Cherished Blooms Bouquet and Wine

A beautiful bunch of flowers accompanied by a bottle of sparkling rosé is a surefire way to touch her heart. Add these stemless flutes or chic and of-the-moment purple-hued glasses, and you have a memory that will last beyond the final sip.

For the Nostalgic Gal

The Love Glass Jar

Surprise your girlfriend, wife, or partner with a glass jar that can be filled with notes of love from you or missives to one another. Or, do as the monk, author, and life coach Jay Shetty suggests and have her fill it with wonderful reminders of things that happen week by week, all year long, and then reread each special note the following Valentine’s Day.

For the Fondue Lover

Fondue Tower Set

If she loves melted chocolate, then this little fondue set will tempt her. Pair it with fruit, cake, or cookies — or all three! — for dipping. It will be a night to remember for your chocoholic S.O.

Last-minute Valentine’s gift ideas for men

For the Oenophile

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Reserve Pinot Noir and Artisan Belgian Chocolate

Send your love a bottle of 2018 Harry & David Pinot Noir packaged in a custom box with a little drawer at the bottom that holds delicious Belgian dark chocolate truffles. If you’re feeling extra generous, upgrade to one of two “deluxe” options, each of which features a second bottle of wine and either an assortment of desserts or a chest of savory and sweet treats.

For the Snacker

True Love Gift Basket

The name of this present is apropos: If your partner is a snacker, then he’ll see this gift basket as a sign of true love. With cookies, peanuts, popcorn, pretzels, and more, he might even give you the nod and share some of its deliciousness! If you’re feeling frisky, start perusing the Netflix options, because this option is perfect for movie night and chilling (wink, wink).

For the Doer

Breakable Chocolate Heart

For the guy who loves to fix everything himself comes a gift that’s right up his alley. He’ll have to pound on this chocolate heart with a mallet to reveal more goodies inside. Treats and breaking things? Sounds like a match made in heaven for most of the men we know.

For Mr. No-Nonsense

Satin Heart Box with Heart Truffles

Is your guy a traditionalist? Then he’ll appreciate the look of this old-school red satin heart-shaped box. Even more, we bet he’ll appreciate what’s inside: 28 assorted heart-shaped chocolate truffles.

For the Baker

French Macarons DIY Baking Kit

Does he love to bake for you? Then give him this kit for making scrumptious delicacies: French macarons. You’ll both benefit from this one!

For the Man of Few Words

Conversation Heart OREO® Cookies

A Valentine’s gift of conversation hearts decorated with straight-and-to-the-point messages is just right for the strong, silent type. And honestly, who doesn’t love an Oreo?

For the Guy’s Guy

Beef Jerky Flower Bouquet

A jerky bouquet in a pint glass? Who’da thunk it?! Oh, just the brilliant brains behind the Manly Man Co., a Southern California-based company started by a veteran that also has amazing offerings like Meathearts and Bacon-scented Gift Wrapping Paper. Sometimes, a man’s gotta man.

For the Comedian

Personalized Photo Boxer Briefs

If your man appreciates a good joke, then boxers with your picture and a note letting him know who has dibs will make him laugh out loud. Made from soft cotton and spandex, these machine-washable undies will immediately enter his regular rotation.

For the Golfer

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Personalized Photo Golf Ball Set

If your guy is like most guys, then he’s more of a weekend duffer than a scratch golfer — and he can always use more balls. Put your smiling face, or perhaps a photo of his dog or child, on this set of personalized golf balls to remind him of who he loves most when he’s out on the course.

For the Boss

Personalized Full Pad Portfolio

Whether he leads meeting after meeting or is just starting out and taking interviews, help him show up looking organized and professional with a personalized portfolio that holds an 8.5-by-11 notepad. It’ll let him focus on the task at hand and not worry about where his pen and paper are. Plus, it’s a lovely reminder of your support.

Bridal Shower Gift Ideas and Etiquette: Your Questions, Answered

Popping the question brings more events than just a wedding. In the ensuing months (and, in some cases, years), friends and family want to bask in the glow of the happy couple. It’s no wonder, then, that the calendar starts to fill up with celebrations like engagement parties, bridal showers (and Jack and Jill parties), and bachelor and bachelorette parties.

Haven’t been to a bridal shower in a while? First things first: The accepted term now is “wedding shower,” to ensure all forms of future marriages are welcomed. Regardless of what you call it, a shower is an opportunity for partygoers to help the new couple build their life together, says Jamie Mussolini, destination wedding planner and founder of Beachfronts Travel.

10 most-asked wedding shower questions

There’s a lot to know about wedding shower etiquette. Here, Mussolini shares 10 tips for wading through the shower waters, plus bridal shower gift ideas for every type of couple.

1. What do showers look like these days?

Wedding showers are no longer just an afternoon tea party with the bride’s best friends and close family members. More and more, these events are extravagant affairs, with the guest list consisting of couples. “Some are women-only luncheons or cocktail parties, but in modern days people even have evening showers with a cocktail hour and dinner party,” Mussolini says. Themed events, such as a lingerie shower, are still popular, too.

In addition to traditional gatherings for a bride and/or groom, there are also parties for two grooms or two brides. These are more likely to involve guests from both sides of the wedding party and usually include both men and women.

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2. How many guests are invited?

Showers aren’t the intimate affairs of the past. The total number of guests can range anywhere from 30 to 100 — lean towards the higher end if the event is an evening party.

3. Who throws it?

Almost anyone can throw a shower, from the mother of the bride to the maid of honor and bridesmaid party to even the couple themselves, if they are in a position to pay for it. And who says you have to stop at one? Many brides have multiple showers (just be sure the guest list is different for each). Coworkers may want to host a small party for colleagues to honor the happy couple.

4. Does the bride-to-be still sit on a chair and open everyone’s gifts at the event?

Yes! Sometimes gifts will be sent to the address on file with a registry, but a wrapped gift brought to the shower is customary. “The bride or groom opens cards and goes through physical gifts that are there, and usually has a list to say thank you to the guests that have mailed gifts and mentions those items,” Mussolini says. And, she adds, don’t forget about thank you notes!

For the couple who is just starting out, they need to build their home with basic things.

Jamie Mussolini

Destination wedding planner, founder of Beachfronts Travel

5. What’s the price range for a shower gift?

Gifts usually start at $75 per recipient and go up from there.

Mussolini advises shower guests to choose from the registry. “It makes it easy, and then you know that you’re giving something the couple really wants,” she says. That said, you’re welcome to choose anything that you think would make the two of them happy.

6. Should you buy a gift from the bridal shower registry?

7. What are some typical bridal shower gift ideas?

Mussolini’s picks: Bedding, china, kitchenware, monogramed bath towels, cutting boards, custom mugs, custom cake server and knife, personalized coasters, photo frames, bathrobes, luggage, gifts for the wedding day, and small appliances like an air fryer, toaster, mixer, or teapot. “The newest present is a gift certificate toward the honeymoon,” she says.

If you’re buying for a couple that is already living together, you might want to look beyond everyday essentials. “Think more out-of-the-box for them, with lovely vases, furniture, rugs, or items for hosting their next holiday or festive event,” Mussolini says. “But for the couple who is just starting out, they need to build their home with basic things.”

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8. Do attendees go in on group gifts?

If there is a larger item the couple really wants, guests will sometimes pool funds to get a group gift.

9. What about cash?

Cash is always acceptable, but often the couple will register for a gift card. Certain sites have the option to contribute to a honeymoon event, such as dinner out or spa treatments, Mussolini says.

10. What if you can’t go to the shower? Do you send a gift with your regrets?

Most people usually send a gift or, at the very least, a note expressing their happiness for the couple and that they’re looking forward to attending the wedding, if they are able.

Bridal shower gift ideas

There are a lot of choices out there when hunting for a wedding shower gift. Use this helpful guide to help you choose the perfect present for any kind of bride or groom.

Unique choices

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Honey & Orange Blossom Spa Set

Plant of the Month Club

Sometimes a couple doesn’t know what they need. If that’s the case, try a themed present, such as a lavender spa kit, or a gift that keeps on giving all year, like a membership to the Plant of the Month club.

Last-minute picks

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Harry & David Quarterly Gift Club

Same-day Flowers and Gifts Delivery

Forgot to shop? Order a monthly or quarterly delivery from a trusted purveyor of fine foods, such as Harry & David, and let the recipient know in a beautiful card to expect its arrival. Or send a same-day delivery of a beautiful orchid or flower bouquet to the guests of honor’s home. They’ll appreciate the gesture of continuing the festivity of the day for a few more weeks when they look at their gift.

Ideas for cohabiters

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Engraved Glass Ice Bucket & Chiller

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Personalized Wall Art

Engaged couples who have already started a home together appreciate presents on the higher end since they likely have the basics. A gorgeous engraved ice bucket or a custom piece of wall art indicates that they have taken the next step together in their shared lives.

Globetrotter gifts

Personalized Tote Bag

Embroidered Canvas Duffel

For their upcoming honeymoon and all the travel the couple will do over the course of their lifetime, a canvas tote bag or duffel will likely last them the length of their marriage. Personalization gives it an added sentimental touch that the duo will carry with them every time they grab it to head to the beach or for a long weekend of leaf peeping.

Bath buys

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Personalized Fleece Robe

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Embroidered Bath Towel

His and her bathrobes are luxury items that most couples won’t purchase for themselves and are happy to have at home (or at the honeymoon hotel!). If you think it’s more appropriate for just the bride, try a silky one with “Mrs. New Last Name Here” emblazoned on the back (just make sure to check that the bride is changing her name!). Monogrammed bath towels are plush, classic, and, in this case, earth friendly.

Items for the wedding day

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Engraved Cake Knife & Server Set

bridal shower gift ideas Crystal Champagne Flute Set

Engraved Crystal Champagne Flute Set

If you’re stumped for what to buy, a cake knife and server set is a perfect gift for the couple’s wedding reception. (Just be sure to let them know that you’d like to purchase it for them in advance so they know the item is covered for the big day.) Engraved champagne flutes will remind them of sipping bubbly while listening to wedding day toasts.

Holiday-themed presents

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Personalized Christmas Hurricane

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Personalized Hanukah Hurricane

A winter hurricane candle holder is a present they can bring out each holiday season, reminding them of you and your thoughtful gift around Christmas and Hanukkah.

12 Best Gifts for Every Kind of Dog Lover

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With nearly 70 million American households owning a dog, chances are you either have a slobbery four-legged friend roaming around your home or know someone who does. Whichever category you fall into, you know what a special breed dog owners are: They consider their pet a member of the family, and always want what’s best for them — so it makes sense that when it comes time to buy them a present, you remember those furry companions.

“A dog lover appreciates a canine-focused gift because they are our babies,” says Teena Graf, a dog care professional from Cos Cob, Connecticut. “We always want other people to love our pups like we do. Including our pets is a great way to say you understand and care.”

But just as there are hundreds of kinds of dogs to choose from, so, too, are there seemingly innumerable kinds of gifts for dog lovers to dig through. Lucky for you, we’ve done the legwork to come up with all types of pup-centric presents — from paw print blankets to puppy-themed water bottles to personalized pooch picture frames.

Here are 12 top gift ideas for dog lovers. Woof, indeed.

For mom

Dog Mom Gift Box

Dog moms spend so much time grooming, walking, and caring for their furry friend that they often forget to take a moment for themselves. Help her pamper herself by giving her this gift box filled with such items as an eco-friendly soy wax candle, handmade soap, and vanilla lip balm. With treats for Fido, too, this bundle will put a smile on both their faces.

For dad

Bottom Sniffer Dog Beer Gift Set

If your dad is like most of the dads we know, then chances are he has an odd sense of humor — and that means he will sure get a kick out of this present. This doggy beer is non-alcoholic and non-carbonated, but is totally refreshing to pooches. Your pops will delight in sharing a cold one with his best four-legged friend.

For everyone

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A-Dog-Able Dog Flowers

Whether your bestie is laid up with the flu or you want to wish your mom a happy birthday, gifting one of these baskets, with an adorable pup fashioned from flowers, will lift spirits.

For women

Pet Paw Necklace

This piece of jewelry, with the inscription “Pets leave paw prints on our hearts,” will serve as a lasting and tangible reminder of her favorite companion. Perfect for a special occasion or someone who has recently lost a beloved pet. For a more affordable but no less meaningful jewelry option, check out the All You Need Is Love Charm Necklace.

For pooches

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Dog Gift Baskets

For the animals themselves, check out the Max & Milo Collection, with toy, treat, chew, and biscuit gift baskets curated expressly for those little balls of fur.

For kids

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Cat and Dog Mismatched Socks

Getting kids to wear clothes that match can be a challenge, so why not get them articles of clothing that aren’t meant to go together? These adorable socks will keep their tootsies warm and show everyone how much they love their furry friends (felines too!).

For grandma

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Good Dog! Personalized Photo Frame

A frame with a picture of their pup, Graf says, is one of those gifts for dog lovers that is always received well — and that goes double if it has the animal’s name on it. The wood grain frame fits many interior styles and is available in 4-by-6, 5-by-7, and 8-by-10 sizes.

For the top dog

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Dog Mom Sweatshirt

Who doesn’t love a comfy hoodie to throw on and wear while snuggling up to their furry friend? This one, which comes in a choice of seven colors, tells everybody who’s the boss in this doghouse.

For a family

Hug in Every Bite Dog and Treats Gift

Wondering what to get for a dog-owning household? Wonder no more. This sweet gift arrives with a variety of six Cheryl’s Cookies and a floppy-eared plush dog that is oh so cuddleable. Is cuddleable a word? It is now.

For your aunt

Paws On My Heart Personalized Blanket

Make cuddling up to their fur buddy an even cozier experience with a warm blanket. This one comes in several different styles, including fleece, sherpa, and quilted. Personalize it by emblazoning it with their dog’s name under a heart made of paw prints.

For your uncle

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My Kids Have Paws Personalized Tumbler

This 16-ounce cup that keeps on-the-go drinks hot or cold comes in six colors. Pop a photo of your family member and his dog on the side, and include the pup’s name for a truly memorable and useful present.

For a sibling

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Woof Personalized Pet Photo 2-Sided Ornament

A holiday ornament with a pup photo is essential for any Christmas tree. Give this to Spot’s big brother or sister to hang wherever he chooses.

The Ultimate Catch-all Holiday Gift Guide

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When we flip on the TV, we see endless commercials for holiday sales. When we go to big box stores and local boutiques, we walk down aisles decorated with the colors and in the style of the season.

No doubt about it: Gift-giving season is here.

And you know what? That’s pretty great, because you know a lot of people who made your life easier this past year at home, at school, and in the office. This is the time to show your gratitude to those who are essential to your life with a thoughtful end-of-year present.

We know how tempting it is to just get them a gift card, but take a moment or two to think about how you can personalize your thanks. Figuring out what is meaningful will show how much you appreciate them. And make sure that whatever you choose from this holiday gift guide, you accompany it with a thoughtful handwritten note that will touch their heart.

Holiday gift guide for work colleagues

These are the co-workers, bosses, and clients who add a little light to your nine-to-five. Was there someone who helped ease you into a new job this year? A client who championed you for a promotion? A co-worker who lent their invaluable assistance on a project? Recognize them for their support with one of these classic yet thoughtful gift ideas.

Bamboo cutting board

A cutting board made of eco-conscious bamboo lets your office colleague know that you care about sustainability. Personalize it for special significance.

Paperwhites

A quintessential holiday flower that says thank you without the connotation of other, more intimate flowers, such as roses. Plus, they don’t break the bank, and they smell divine.

Royal Riviera Pears

There’s a reason bosses send fruit year after year: It’s a winning gift that leaves a great taste in the recipient’s mouth. These famous pears are a rare treat, so get them while they last.

Popcorn tin

You might just work together, but that doesn’t mean you’re not fun, and there’s just something fun about three flavors of this delicious snack in a giant can.

Holiday gift guide for childcare providers

You couldn’t get out the door without some hand holding — literally, for the little ones — from babysitters, nannies, and au pairs. Leaving our children in the care of just anyone won’t do. Whether it’s a neighbor, your mother, or a caregiver you hired at the recommendation of a friend, childcare helpers deserve one of the biggest thank yous we can offer. Write them a note of appreciation, and give them a present that lets them know just how important they are to your family.

Aloe vera plant

Aloe plants can last years and have the bonus of health uses — making them perfect for the person who takes care of the bumps and bruises of your little one.

Safari animal succulents

Who doesn’t love a cactus? It’s easy to keep alive, and the playful containers can be reused (if you do happen to let yours expire).

Christmas evergreen sleigh

For her table centerpiece or by the front door, this gift will save your sitter from having to decorate a bit.

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Lavender spa set

Let your caretakers ensconce themselves in luxury while breathing in the scent of this calming herb.

Holiday gift guide for household help

In a world where we have a job (or, in some cases, more than one), volunteer commitments, and family obligations, sometimes we have to outsource housecleaning, gardening, lawn mowing, and the like. And the special home improvement project (new front door, anyone?) can require expertise beyond our capabilities. Let these imperative workers know that you couldn’t live without them by offering a gift of thanks (and maybe a cash bonus as well).

Cinnamon rolls

Cinnamon rolls are a hit with almost everyone. Plus, it’s nice to not have to plan a meal around the holidays.

Herb garden trio

Give some flavor! This pretty planter of fresh herbs will keep on giving throughout the new year.

Grooming kit for men

From plumbers who make emergency calls to the lawn care pros that saved you from weekend yard work, don’t forget the guys who helped you this year! Let them get spiffed with their own set of goods.

Lavender herb wreath

This purple-hued wreath will give a lovely fragrance to your painter or contractor’s home.

Holiday gift guide for educators and leaders

Teaching is hard. Anyone with a school-aged child will tell you that. Keeping kids focused and on task — not to mention enthusiastic about learning — is incredibly challenging. The school teachers, coaches, tutors, music instructors: To you we say, “You’ve touched our lives.”

Air plant terrarium

Beautiful, budget friendly, and easy to care for — what more can we ask for?

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White orchid

A simple, delicate orchid is always in style and conveys the message that the recipient is important to you.

holiday gift guide Thank You Gift with Wine

Wine and chocolate

You’re sending your thanks, and they’ll be thankful you did with these two perennial favorites.

Magnolia tree

Make sure your recipient has a large space to plant this beautiful and fragrant tree — a forever reminder of your appreciation.

Holiday gift guide for just because recipients

For the people who have gone above and beyond for you this year — such as a nurse or doctor if you’ve been sick, friend who helped you through a crisis, or realtor who guided you through the buying or selling process — now is the time to recognize their efforts. These folks might not be in your life year after year, so stretch your wallet with a special one-time gift that reflects your thanks.

Holiday flower tree

Giving a Christmas tree-inspired arrangement will be welcomed throughout December.

Fruit bouquet

Fresh fruit and chocolate-dipped strawberries are a winning combo, and will show the person on the receiving end how much of a difference they made in your life.

Chili and herb wreath

Lovely colors transition nicely to spring, giving a lasting reminder of your appreciation.

Herbal tea assortment

Help your hard worker find inner peace and mental clarity with this set of comforting chai teas. Feeling relaxed already!

11 Thanksgiving Gift Ideas for Family & Hosts

“Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.” — American author William Arthur Ward

We have busy lives with endless to-do lists, and by the end of year, we’re just spent. Fortunately, Thanksgiving — our annual day dedicated to being thankful — is just what we need to refocus on what’s truly important to us: the friends and family who make our days go ’round and our lives meaningful.

Wherever you are for Thanksgiving this year, you can express your gratitude with a thoughtful gift for your hostess — whether it is your mom, best friend, or neighbor — or any family member you’re spending the holiday with.

Here are 11 Thanksgiving hostess gift ideas that will show your appreciation to those who matter most to you.

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Flowers

Flowers are a lovely pick-me-up for anyone who receives them. These Thanksgiving flowers are made with bright oranges, reds, and yellows — perfect for the season — and are sure to add a festive feel to Thanksgiving dinner. A tip, though, if you do get these for your hostess: She may already have her floral arrangements planned for the big event, so consider sending them the next day or the following week as a post-party thank you. If you’d rather bring them on the actual day of Thanksgiving, call the hostess beforehand and let her know you’d like to bring a bouquet. If she wants a centerpiece or bouquet for her front hall, find out where she’ll display the flowers and the colors she prefers.

Gifts for entertaining

Give your Thanksgiving host or a family member some new accessories to use. For example, a decanter set, hand-painted wine glasses, or a super chic wine chiller that doubles as a lantern are all presents that the recipient probably won’t splurge on for himself. Is the person you’re buying for more of a beer drinker? A set of personalized pint or pilsner glasses will be a treasured gift.

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Fine olive oil & balsamic

Chefs say that using top-quality olive oil and balsamic vinegar makes a noticeable difference in your cooking or for dipping your bread — but they can be expensive, and the cost can be hard to justify when buying for yourself. That’s why some fine Greek olive oil and balsamic, along with a jar of Greek sea salt and a cookbook written by esteemed chef Geoffrey Zakarian, can be the perfect present for Thanksgiving. You can also add a little recipe card: Pour the EVOO over high-quality goat cheese and sprinkle chopped mixed herbs on top for a delicious dip with crackers or a baguette.

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Kitchen linens

Kitchens linens get stained and soiled quickly, and they’re an item most chefs don’t tend to buy for themselves. If you’re not sure of what type of linens to buy, start by thinking about the color of their kitchen, colors they like to wear, or linens you may have seen in their home already. You can’t go wrong with a classic ivory and black kitchen towel set. Accompany this with an apron and oven mitt .

Wine

Wine is not just a classic Thanksgiving hostess gift but a favorite for just about anyone (as long as they are of legal drinking age!). You can never have enough of it in the cabinet or cellar. Both whites and reds can accompany a Thanksgiving dinner, so buy a few bottles of each. Pop in a corkscrew or wine bag and stopper set to make this gift more substantial.

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Dessert

Humans may not agree on much, but one thing that unites us is a love of dessert. It’s kind of a universal language that everyone speaks. If you do want to bring dessert as a gift for your Thanksgiving hostess, make sure to ask their permission first and inquire as to what kind of dessert — pie, cake, a tray of candy, fruit, chocolates — you should tote along. It doesn’t matter whether you make it yourself or buy it — taking some of the responsibility and pressure off the host is a Thanksgiving gift in and of itself.

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Scented soaps & lotions

Homeowners might skip splurging on pretty soaps and hand lotion sets, but they are nice treats to have in the guest bath. Go with a universal fragrance like lavender or a scent that won’t be overwhelming for the nose. Fall- and winter-inspired scents can be an homage to the season and are ways to “decorate” the bath for the holidays.

Br eakfast

We don’t typically think of giving the gift of breakfast, but that is a mistake. The first meal of the day, like dessert, is almost unanimously beloved. And if you’re gifting breakfast items to your host, you’re being extra thoughtful: Not only are you putting your generosity on full display, but you’re relieving them of the burden of having to feed people again the day after the big meal. Breakfast basket ideas include baked goods (like cinnamon rolls!), juices, sausage and cheese casseroles, and coffee cake. Indulge your host with fine coffee or tea, which they can also use to accompany the post-Thanksgiving dessert.

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Spa kit

After pulling off Thanksgiving dinner, the host is going to need some down time. Heck, even if you just ate the dinner and didn’t prepare it, you might feel like a little down time is in order. That’s why a “treat yourself” spa kit containing bath salts, soap, lotion, essential oils, lip balm, a mask, a loofah, and a candle — or any combination of personal care items — is a Thanksgiving gift that’s sure to be appreciated. For a little something extra, pop in a gift certificate for a massage or nail treatment.

thanksgiving host gift ideas Blooming Gardenia Plant in Basket

Plants

Plants keep on giving for weeks, months — sometimes even years. They will remind the recipient of you every time he or she waters it. A money tree, a succulent, an herb garden, or a gardenia plant are all special greens to brighten a home.

Thank you note

People don’t tend to put pen to paper very much these days. A thoughtfully written note on beautiful stationery or a card mailed to the recipient will bring a smile to his face the next time he goes to the mailbox. A note of gratitude detailing what you love about the person and the celebration they recently had may be more meaningful to them than any tangible item.

How to Say Sorry: 8 Ways to Apologize to the One You Love

Ever trample a loved one’s spirit because you ignored a simple request…or worse? Maybe you forgot an anniversary, broke a promise, or spoke hurtful words in anger or frustration. We’ve all been there, to one degree or another. Unfortunately, we tend to hurt the ones we care about most.

Whether you haven’t been pulling your weight around the house, consistently show up late, or kept a big secret, by following these eight steps, you can smooth things over with a significant other you have wronged.

1. Put yourself in your partner’s shoes

Painting a picture of your loved one’s hurt evokes empathy and compassion, which leads to a thoughtful apology, says Amanda Craig, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Darien, Connecticut. “Really try to imagine what your partner experienced,” she says.

Accountability should be paramount in your apology. Instead of shifting the blame, clearly and sincerely take responsibility for your actions.

Eros Miranda

Relationship coach and host of the Eros to the Heart podcast

Part of the apology process is recognizing your role in the issue. “You must start by reflecting on the actions that contributed to the problem,” says relationship coach Eros Miranda, a TikTok influencer and host of the Eros to the Heart podcast.

Choose your timing wisely, Miranda recommends. Ask your significant other when is a good time to talk. “Your partner might be in need of space, so prioritize creating a safe and respectful environment,” she says.

2. Be genuine

“People on the receiving end of an apology can tell if it’s heartfelt or just words,” Craig warns. After you’ve taken time to reflect, choose words that are simple, straightforward, specific, and sensitive.

“When making an apology, the main key is to own up and admit that you made a mistake and say that you will work on doing better next time,” says relationship therapist Jaime Bronstein, LCSW, host of “Love Talk Live” on LA Talk Radio.

3. Take ownership of your role

Admit to your partner you know what you did; trying to underplay your role in your partner’s pain or frustration only exacerbates the problem. “Accountability should be paramount in your apology,” Miranda advises. “Instead of shifting the blame, clearly and sincerely take responsibility for your actions.”

how to say sorry with man apologizing to woman

Stick with just these two words: I’m sorry. “Pairing an apology with the ‘why’ often waters down the apology,” Craig says. You might have an explanation for why, but you shouldn’t make excuses. Keep the focus on what matters — that you feel empathy for the person you’ve mistreated.

4. Use the right words

Sometimes we don’t phrase our apologies correctly, and that can make matters worse.

Craig suggests keeping it simple. Her recommendations: “I realize when I said X, that hurt your feelings. I am sorry.” Or, “I didn’t get it at the time, but as I’ve reflected, I see when I did X, it made you feel Y. I’m sorry.”

Miranda agrees. A good apology, he says, might look like this: “I take responsibility for my actions because it was wrong of me to act that way. I should have realized how those actions would not only affect you but our relationship. However, I know that words are not enough. So, if it’s OK with you, I would love to sit down and try to find a compromise on how to fix it. I am ready to listen to you, respect your perspective, and be guided by your needs.”

Conversely, he says, a bad apology might sound like this: “Here we go again. You’re always starting things. I might have made a mistake, but it’s your fault I acted that way. I’m sorry you feel hurt, but you shouldn’t be surprised or angry. Let’s not worry about this anymore and just get over it instead, OK?”

5. Gifts are welcome

Having a talk, penning a note, writing a poem — these are all welcome ways of saying sorry. But a gift can really show your partner how much you care about their feelings. And the experts agree that knowing your loved one’s most treasured flowers is the ultimate show of connection.

Be thoughtful with a gift. “Instead of just saying you are sorry, accompany that apology with their favorite flowers and a note recognizing your mistakes and expressing how much they mean to you,” Miranda says.

how to say sorry with man giving woman flowers

And don’t underestimate the importance of special time together as a treat. “A surprise weekend getaway is a wonderful way to say ‘I’m sorry,’ especially if the reason you are apologizing is due to a lack of prioritizing the other person and the relationship,” Bronstein says. “Your gesture will mean that you will be spending more time together to bond and build up a better connection.”

Just don’t overdo it. Sending flowers with every apology shows a lack of understanding and intimacy. “You don’t want to give the same gift every time you say you’re sorry, especially if it’s frequently, because the gift will lose its meaning,” she says.

6. Give space for your partner to respond

Your partner may not be able to forgive you for certain things right away, and that’s OK. “They might want to reaffirm boundaries or perhaps ask for more space, but it is imperative to give them the opportunity to express their needs,” Miranda says. “This is your opportunity to not only make amends but to grow as you learn from your mistakes.” Take time to listen to them.

7. Think beyond today

Your relationship is bigger than this one issue. “Forward thinking helps your partner feel like you care enough to think about the future,” Craig says. “Use statements like ‘Next time I will do X instead’ or ‘I think in the future I want to do X because I care about your feelings.'” And then, follow through. Otherwise, your apologies are vacuous.

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8. Actions DO speak louder than words

Verbal apologies are important, but your behavior is what your partner will notice. If you say I’m sorry for leaving your shoes in front of the door, but you continue to leave them there every day after work, your words mean nothing.

“After an apology, you need to show your significant other that you have changed, and the only true tell-tale sign that you have changed is time,” Bronstein says. “That’s why it’s important to say, ‘Please, let me show you that I can do better. I know it will take time, but I promise you won’t have to deal with this again. Once again, I am truly sorry.'”

Words flow easily for some. You may say the right things but not show that you respect your partner by hearing their hurt and making meaningful change. “A genuinely remorseful partner is one that is willing to show you with actions, not just words, that they are accountable and ready to make amends,” Miranda says.

Wedding Gift Etiquette: Experts Answer Your 10 Most Pressing Questions

Summer ‘I do’ season means steaming the wrinkles from your wedding guest attire, responding to invitations promptly, and choosing a gift for the couple they will cherish for years to come. And even though every wedding is different and every married couple is unique, there are still certain guidelines to follow when picking a present.

Here are 10 of the most commonly asked questions regarding wedding gift etiquette, along with answers provided by three wedding experts.

How much should you spend?

The registry gives guests a general sense of what the couple is looking for but is in no way a mandatory list of required gifts. If you’re close to the couple and want to get them something personal, don’t let a registry deter you from doing so!

elaine swann

Founder, Swann School of Protocol

Experts agree guests should stick to their budgets. Meg Critchell, founder of Meg Critchell Event Planning in Greenwich, Connecticut, suggests her clients register for a range of items to accommodate different-size budgets. “Someone may need a $60 gift or a $600 gift, so put a few of those on as well,” she says.

The proper amount to spend depends on your relationship with the couple, says Elaine Swann, founder of the Swann School of Protocol in Carlsbad, California. “I use what I call ‘the onion method.’ This is where the closer to the core of the onion — the closer the person is to you — the more you spend on the gift.”

A way to give a gift of significance when your budget is tight is to participate in a group gift. “Group gifts work well for younger folks who are in the early stages of income earning,” Swann says. “Come together and give a group gift of an experience.”

Do you have to ‘cover your plate’?

The rule of covering your cost via a wedding gift is not followed today. “I don’t think there is that expectation anymore,” Critchell says.

Swann agrees the old adage is outdated. “The amount of money you spend on a gift depends on your relationship with the couple,” she says. Start at a lower amount for a coworker, somewhere in the $50-$75 range. For a closer family member, spend a bit more; $100 is a reasonable starting point.

Is it necessary to double the gift if you’re bringing a date?

Critchell and Swann agree this is a big “no;” the gift is still coming from the invitee. Remember to always choose a gift that fits your budget, while also taking into account how close you are with the couple. There’s no need to go into debt to send your good wishes.

Do you have to stick to the registry?

While you don’t have to buy a gift from the registry, you should start there. “Couples register for a reason,” Critchell says. Guests know buying registered gifts means the items are things the couple wants. “I encourage brides to register for something special. Everyone needs a vacuum, which you’ll buy for yourself, but you probably won’t buy 12 high-end crystal glasses for a dinner party.”

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Swann agrees. “The registry gives guests a general sense of what the couple is looking for but is in no way a mandatory list of required gifts,” she says. “If you’re close to the couple and want to get them something personal, don’t let a registry deter you from doing so!”

Should you give traditional household items, such as sheets and place settings?

When deciding what to buy the couple, think about where they are in life, Swann suggests. “You might have an older couple who is getting married for a second time, so give a gift of an experience,” she says. “But if they’re just starting out, a gift for their household could fit right into their stage of life.”

Is money an acceptable gift?

Yes! “Etiquette dictates it’s acceptable to give money as a wedding gift,” Swann says. A 2019 Zelle study found 84% of couples want money as a gift. Send cash electronically, rather than bringing a card with a check or money, which could get lost.

While cash may be king, it sometimes can get whittled away, Critchell says. “Many couples might save for a house or a big purchase,” she says. “But if things aren’t going well and they need money, suddenly the wedding gift of $200 just went toward groceries.” Getting married is one time in the bride and groom’s lives when they can really indulge, so consider giving them a tangible item they would never buy themselves, Critchell suggests.

One way to know your gift of money is going toward something special is to contribute to a special event. Some wedding websites allow this, says Jamie Mussolini, destination wedding planner and founder of Beachfronts Travel. “You can put in a dollar amount and put it toward a honeymoon, massages, or a romantic dinner.”

One grandmother contacted Mussolini and said she wanted to give the couple something for the honeymoon. “The bride and groom were going to Hawaii, so she bought a luau for them,” she says. Thinking outside the box is something the couple will remember always.

Should you bring your physical gift to the wedding reception?

You do still see gift tables, or a box for cards, at a wedding, but they have gotten smaller. “People are taking advantage of online shopping,” Swann says. “It helps the couple because they have less to worry about the day of the wedding.”

Critchell suggests not physically bringing gifts. “Send gifts to the home,” she says.

Do you need to give a gift if you’re attending a destination wedding?

While a gift is always appreciated, brides and grooms don’t expect them, Mussolini says. A couple is often sensitive to the financial burden attending a faraway wedding puts on guests. “Friends and family spend so much to go, and that means a lot to couples,” she says.

If you do want to give a gift, do not bring it to the destination wedding, Critchell says. “You don’t want to add anything to the bride and groom’s plate. They don’t need extra stuff,” she says. “Mail it to them when they get home.”

Do you have a year to send a present?

Yes. But if you choose not to buy right away, registry lists might be picked over and options become fewer or more than you want to spend.

Do I have to get a present if I decline to attend?

Even if you decline a wedding invitation, a gift is the polite way to show you care about the couple and their new life together, Mussolini says. If you are not particularly close to them, however, you are not required to get a gift. That said, a nice gesture would be sending them a card or calling them on the phone to congratulate them on their marriage.

Best Zodiac Plants for Each Astrological Sign

You’ve heard of using astrology to find a romantic match. But did you know your zodiac sign can also help you find the perfect plant? It’s true. 1-800-Flowers.com teamed with the astrology experts at Sanctuary, a company that offers daily personalized horoscopes, live birth chart readings, and on-demand astrologers, to guide you to what plants are the best match for each sign’s traits.

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“When choosing plants to bring into your space, it’s a good idea to consider the needs of the plant as well as your own needs,” says Haley Houseman, creative director for Sanctuary. “Choosing plants that suit your temperament is the surest way to keep both of you happy.”

The experts suggest thinking about plants the way you think about people: “If you’re interested in a plant whose lifestyle runs counter to yours, you might want to invest a little more energy in the surroundings of your plant, just the way you might have to invest more energy in an unconventional friendship or a romantic match,” Houseman says.

But don’t sweat it if you are a Libra who is obsessed with orchids, the pick for Leos. “There are no ‘bad’ plants or ‘bad’ signs — astrology gives you clues to how best accommodate every sign’s unique aspects to help them thrive, just like the care instructions on your new plant,” Houseman adds.

Read on for the perfect zodiac plants chosen for each sign by the astrology gurus at Sanctuary.

Guide to zodiac plants

photo of zodiac plants with glass succulent terrarium for aries

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Attributes: Independent, secure, leader

Plant: Succulents in Glass Terrarium

Succulents are strong and unique; so, too, is Aries. There’s no hidden agenda here: The see-through container holding these plants lets you see exactly what is on the inside, matching perfectly with Aries’ straightforward and hardworking personality. Just like Aries is a self-starter and wants to run the show, these succulents will last and don’t require a lot of work.

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Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Attributes: Pragmatic, sensual, reliable

Plant: Peace Lily Plant

The Peace Lily Plant is gorgeous, its greens and snow-white flowers lending an air of both sturdiness and beauty. “A home-loving Taurus might look to curate a perfect setting and be ready to invest in a plant that enjoys the more luxurious side of life,” Houseman says. A Taurus uses his senses more than the other signs, taking in scents and smells, and noticing the way things feel. This thriving plant will appeal to this sign since it is simultaneously hardy and beautiful.

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Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Attributes: Brainy, articulate, persuasive

Plant: Snake Plant (Sansevieria)

Just as Geminis can rebound from situations and not get affected by adversity, so, too, does the Sansevieria. A hardy, vertical-growing plant with variegated leaves, the Snake Plant is easy to keep healthy for the busy and social Gemini. “An easily distracted Gemini needs something low maintenance,” Houseman says.

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Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Attributes: Loving, caring, family-oriented, strong business acumen

Plant: Aloe Vera Plant

Aloe plants aren’t just cool, they actually cool! The substance inside the plant is used as a soothing healing remedy for injures like cuts and burns. One can also take it internally for stomach issues; before you do, though, consult an expert. Since Cancers are known for being emotional and putting family first, having this plant in the sunroom is essential for this sensitive, empathetic individual.

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Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Attributes: Generous, ambitious, loyal, comfortable being the center of attention

Plant: Simply Elega nt Orchid Garden

Orchids are a special plant, just like a Leo. They require attention, and they aren’t wallflowers. Need a gift? An orchid is a no-brainer option for this generous, giving sign.

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Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Attributes: Kind, gentle, organized, reliable

Plant: Maiden Hair Fern

This pretty plant can take up to three years to grow to its full size, but to get it there, you need to make sure it is kept in a very humid environment. If anyone has the patience and traits to keep this plant healthy and growing, it’s the organized and dependable Virgo. “This plant is the best pick for this sign because it brings an opportunity to find alignment in routines and tasks,” says Sanctuary astrology expert Laura Beth Finley.

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Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Attributes: Balanced, fair, tasteful, intuitive

Plant: Airplant Terrarium

This airplant is a great choice for the air sign Libra. “It’s the perfect pick for this sign because it brings harmonious vibes to any space,” Finley says. With impeccable taste, a Libra will know just where to display this fun plant in their home. Hang it on a Christmas tree, balancing the orb on a branch, to symbolize Libra’s desire for all things in harmony.

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Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Attributes: Mysterious, loyal, secretive

Plant: Marble Queen Pothos Plant

The Pothos plant is easy to care for, and that’s great for a Scorpio who has bigger things percolating. With an attractive green and white variegated pattern, the Marble Queen clears the air in your home. Scorpio can even forget about watering it, as the plant likes its soil to go dry between waterings, but Scorpio’s compassionate soul needs to remember to put it in a light-filled spot.

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Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

Attributes: Wise, adventurous, generous, optimistic

Plant: Majesty Palm Floor Plant

The palm fronds on this impressive plant may recall travel memories — or goals — for wanderlust Sagittarius. Sag is too busy learning and philosophizing to do much more than keep these beautiful greens out of indirect sunlight. Yes, the plant needs misting, but Scorpios do so lovingly, longing to feel the humidity of a tropical destination.

photo of zodiac plants with juniper bonsai for capricorn

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Attributes: Trustworthy, practical, sensible, hardworking

Plant: Juniper Bonsai

It’s tough to look at the bonsai tree without feeling zen and calm. Capricorn cares for these trees with the utmost responsibility, and benefits from the meditative state each one gives its owner. The bonsai lasts for years if well cared for, and Cap is one of the longest living signs of the zodiac. The plant is truly representative of this patient soul.

photo of zodiac plants with money tree grove for aquarius

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Attributes: Intellectual, leader, humanitarian

Plant: Money Tree Grove

Aquarius is busy saving the world, so a plant that stays alive with little effort from its owner is just what this socially minded sign needs. The good fortune vibes from this tree grove (there are three) equate well with Aquarius’ desire to make a societal change, especially because the sign isn’t motivated by fortune and fame. “The braiding of the trunks exemplifies how Aquarians can powerfully bring together a community to unite for a greater cause. We don’t see a messy unification here but wise connectivity, leading to a strong foundation that would be hard for any outside influence to break apart,” says Sanctuary astrology expert Julia Modorsky.

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Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

Attributes: Caring, daydreamer, intuitive, imaginative

Plant: Red Maranta Prayer Plant

The red and green leaves of the Prayer Plant fold up like praying hands at night. For the Pisces who care so much about relieving the suffering of others, a plant paying homage to spirituality is a perfect match. The creative Pisces might be dealing with enacting change in the world, so a plant that can thrive without too much work will be a good match for this selfless member of the zodiac.

For all signs

Sanctuary reminds us that plants are similar to people — you can’t change them. If you aren’t equipped to care for a high-maintenance plant, choose a succulent. “Meeting your plants where they are and taking their needs into consideration is the best way to ensure a compatible match between your sign and your special plant pick,” Houseman says.

Sounds like good advice for our human relationships, too. Now that you’ve read which zodiac plants match well with your astrological sign, check out your zodiac flower.