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Why Fall Birthdays Are the Best

Autumn is many people’s favorite time of year, and there are lots of good reasons for that. The weather is pleasantly cool, with crisp nights that make us want to get cozy with a favorite cardigan and warm apple cider. It’s the return of baking season, which means the aromas of cinnamon, nutmeg, and cloves are everywhere you turn. People are arriving back from their summer vacations, and the time feels right to reunite with friends. All that, and more, makes autumn an awesome season for celebrating a birthday with these fall birthday party ideas.

Think boozy hot chocolate, an apple cider bar, s’mores, and flannel blankets.

jessie williams

Founder, WE Events

“Fall is my favorite time of year in Chicago,” exclaims Jessie Williams, founder of WE Events, a party and event planning service. “The leaves are changing colors, the temps are getting more manageable, and kids are back in school.”

Whether you’re planning to host an autumn birthday party for an adult or child, you have as many themes to choose from as there are leaves on the ground.

4 fabulous fall birthday party ideas

Autumn birthdays fall into that perfect sweet spot on the calendar. This time of year offers the flexibility of hosting either an indoor or outdoor party, along with plenty of easy ways to embrace the season.

1. Make it all about them

“To make a fall party extra special, customize,” Williams says. “Use items that go with your theme and add names or nicknames to those items. Think blankets for a bonfire party or mugs for a camping party.”

fall birthday party ideas with fall dessert table

2. Add an awe-inspiring autumn treats table

A show-stopping food table can set the tone for the rest of the party. Whether it’s a snack buffet or dessert bar, this stylish self-serve station can be decked out for the season with wooden crates and other warm, rustic touches. One idea is a DIY apple cider bar chock full of toppings, such as cinnamon sticks, cocoa powder, and whipped cream.

The finishing touch? Plenty of fall decor. Tablescapes are extra easy for fall, with gorgeous natural options everywhere you look. “Use gourds, pumpkins, apples with fall leaves, and fall floral to decorate the table,” Williams says.

3. Decorate with seasonal florals and shades

Think about the colors of fall: oranges, reds, browns. With that in mind, Williams suggests supplying a captivating printed photo backdrop, with designs ranging from rustic wood or a fall scene with blankets, sunflowers, and hay bales.

Balloon sculptures are also a popular budget-friendly way to make a big impression. For a retro fall camp-out vibe, opt for muted shades of moss green, beige, and rust tone balloons accented with natural dried flower arrangements of pampas grass, wheat, and thistle.

4. Be mindful of fall’s wild weather

Planning parties in the Windy City, Williams knows all about preparing for the unpredictable autumn weather. “Wind and rain can very quickly ruin a party. When planning any outside party, it’s always best to have a backup plan.” She suggests considering renting tents or heaters, or selecting a venue that has an interior option if needed.

“I like to always bring tablecloth weights and, if setting up a tablescape with paper plates, have something heavy to place on each plate, such as a custom “place card,” so they don’t blow away,” Williams says. “My favorites for fall are pumpkins or apples with each guest’s name on them.”

Trick or treat yourself to a Halloween-themed party

Fall is associated with Halloween, so why not lean into that connection for an October birthday? You have so many options when you embrace this theme, the most obvious of which is a costume party.

This can translate to a lavish masquerade ball for adults; for kids, make it a fun DIY costume contest. A gorgeous Día de los Muertos-inspired dinner party, complete with tamales, sugar skulls, and hibiscus tea, can work for all ages. Create a makeup station to give everyone traditional calaveras skull faces, which will make for instant photo ops.

Another kid-centric idea is to create your own backyard pumpkin patch, far away from the swarming crowds at the local farm. Here you can set up outdoor pumpkin painting stations and a scarecrow stuffing area replete with old clothes, hay, and silly accessories.

fall birthday party ideas with halloween birthday party

One of the favorite parties Williams has planned was actually not for a client but for her daughter and their neighbors. “We hosted a ‘ghost hunt,’ where I put candy and trinkets inside plastic eggs that I wrapped in tissues with ghost faces drawn on them. I hid them throughout our yard and the neighbor’s yard,” she says. “The house was already decorated for Halloween, so no extra decorating work was needed. Even the older kids had a blast finding the ‘ghosts.'”

Williams points out a wonderful fall party perk: If you decorate for Halloween, or even just the autumn season, your party decorating is nearly done. Just add a few birthday elements to make it feel extra special for the guest of honor.

Fuel your November celebration with the spirit of Friendsgiving

November birthdays can present a planning challenge, as they fall during a time when most people’s attention is on Thanksgiving and prepping for the holidays. If you’re planning a large get-together for friends or classmates, consider holding the birthday party earlier in the month, when the weather may be warmer and schedules less chaotic. Play with a fall clothing theme, such as everyone comes wearing their favorite flannel or a sweater-weather ugly sweater. And don’t forget: Your party should be not just for the guest of honor but the senses as well. With the lovely smells of fall filling the air, this is definitely the time to bust out the pumpkin spice candles.

Williams suggests considering a philanthropic option to infuse your party with the spirit of gratitude that is so prevalent during the season. “Consider encouraging guests to bring an item to donate to a charity.” This could be anything from books for a children’s hospital library to dog toys for an animal rescue. For an adult Friendsgiving birthday party, this can take the emphasis away from presents and make it more about coming together and helping out a cause everyone can feel good about.

4 fun fall birthday ideas & themes for kids

1. Football party

Fall means football time. If you have a little fan of the game, you can create a miniature-sized tailgate party, complete with smaller versions of classic parking lot games, such as cornhole or ladder ball.

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2. Scary movie night

Gather up those blankets and pillows, set up a projector screen, and play some slightly spine-tingling classics.

3. Classic country fair

Give guests bandanas, set up classic carnival games, such as ring toss and milk bottle knockdown, and serve corn dogs and funnel cake.

4. DIY party

Whether your guests are decorating candied apples, making mini-wreaths, decorating cookies, or trying their hand at some autumn-scented soap making, fall-themed crafts can keep everyone entertained.

4 fabulous fall birthday themes for adults

1. Hoedown party

Williams suggests renting a backyard mechanical bull, using mason jars to hold floral arrangements, and adding extra seating with hay bales. Ask everyone to come in their best rodeo attire, such as cowboy boots, a long-sleeve button-up, jeans, and a leather belt with a big, ol’ belt buckle.

2. Backyard bonfire

“Think boozy hot chocolate,” Williams says, “an apple cider bar, s’mores, and flannel blankets.” Add a lush fall soundtrack and a few conversation games, such as “Two truths and a lie” or “Would you rather.”

fall birthday party ideas with oktoberfest party

3. Oktoberfest party

Create a backyard biergarten with a sampling of fall beers and classic German cuisine, including sausages and fresh-baked pretzels. As a bonus, ask guests to dress in traditional Bavarian garb.

4. Seasonal harvest sampling

Embrace all the flavors of the harvest with a dinner filled with fall’s favorites, including Brussels sprouts, squash, sweet potatoes, and pumpkin. Put a comfort food fall twist on the traditional charcuterie board with a hearty and homey baked potato board, complete with a host of favorite toppings. Or go all in on a single flavor, with a menu that includes pumpkin hummus, pumpkin salad, pumpkin soup, and pumpkin ravioli.

Best Birthday Gifts for Virgos

When buying a birthday gift for someone, you want your present to be meaningful, welcomed, and, of course, appreciated. A great way to check all those boxes is by looking to the recipient’s zodiac sign.

Virgos love their aesthetic. With a lot of them, they’re into clear, vibrant colors and styles, so, often, everything is white.

Lisa Stardust

Astrologist and best-selling author

That’s according to New York City-based astrologist and best-selling author Lisa Stardust. She says zodiac signs can offer insight into people’s personality traits, perspectives, and preferences — in other words, they are an incredibly useful guide for gifting.

“Knowing someone’s likes and dislikes based on astrology can help you find their ultimate gift,” she says. “We can get a window into what they’ll be into based on their cosmic attributes and use that information to calculate the best gift.”

If you’re on the hunt for a birthday gift for the Virgo in your life (Aug. 23-Sept. 22), this guide can help.

What to know about Virgos

Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac and the second earth sign, following Taurus. Stardust notes that Virgos are usually analytical, energetically absorbent, and factual — if you tell them a story, they’re the type to try to “suss the facts out of it.”

One thing that’s special about Virgo is that it’s a mutable sign. Like Gemini, Sagittarius, and Pisces, Virgo ends one of the four seasons. This, Stardust says, means they tend to be more flexible, laid back, and comfortable with change.

“Virgos are low maintenance, patient, and very chill,” Stardust says. “You know until they’re not. Virgos are incredibly patient and will remain patient until they’re pushed to their limit for the ninth or 10^th time.”

What kinds of birthday gifts do Virgos like?

When it comes to gifts, Stardust says, Virgos are all about lush green plants, flowers, relaxation-style gifts, special things that are just for them, and snuggly things they can curl up with.

virgo gifts with women reading book and drinking coffee

“Virgos love their aesthetic,” Stardust says. “With a lot of them, they’re into clear, vibrant colors and styles, so, often, everything is white.”

Virgos tend to love a good book, a delightful glass of wine, and anything else that can help put them in their comfort zone, Stardust says. From a great cup of coffee they can pour for themselves every morning to a fluffy robe they can put on every evening to relax, Virgos are very into their ritualistic routines.

But why?

“Virgos are ruled by the planet Mercury,” she says. “Mercury influences Virgos and explains their love for routine and ritual. The joke is always that signs ruled by Mercury — like Virgos and Geminis — are the only signs that would be OK living their whole life in the place they grew up. They like the community, the familiarity, and the ritual of it all.”

Go-to Virgo gifts for birthdays

Ready to shop for the perfect Virgo-approved birthday gift? Stardust says options like the five below are sure to make the Virgo in your life happy.

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Something simple and delicious

Virgos can be picky about their food, Stardust admits. But she also says that whenever she’s gifted a Virgo an assortment of thoughtfully selected treats, they’ve gone over well. A beautiful, delicious, and, of course, on-brand-with-their-aesthetic collection of yummy foods can be a total win for a Virgo birthday gift. Stardust suggests keeping it clean, simple, and tasty with something like these Sunny Day Drizzled Strawberries.

Something to help them relax

Virgos like things that are all their own, so a personalized beach towel or soft, fluffy white towel is a great option. They are also big on relaxation, which is why it would be perfect to pair one of those gifts with a bath bomb, a bath salt, or something fragrant they can include in their nightly, unwinding bath ritual. And since lavender is the essence of Mercury, anything lavender scented is a great gift option.

Something from the earth

virgo gifts with women holding bouquet of daisies

As an earth sign, it makes sense that Virgos would love flower arrangements and plants — but not just any kind. When considering a gift in this area, go for bouquets that include daisies and chrysanthemums, Stardust advises. For that matter, any flower or plant that comes in white, such as a lily or gardenia, can make the list, too.

Something luxurious

Since Virgos are creatures of habit and tend to like things that make them feel special, think about getting them a gift that could enhance their nighttime routine. That could be anything from wine to soft sheets to fancy blankets to plush slippers.

Something soft and fluffy to wear

Virgos love to be comfortable, and that means loungewear. A soft, fluffy (and white, of course!) robe is always a wonderful idea for Virgos, Stardust says. Adding a little personalized touch, such as their name, is a great choice, too.

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How to Make Summer Birthdays Special

Quick, think of everything you love about birthdays (playing games, getting together with friends and family, cake). Now, think of what makes summer so awesome (warm temps, no school, ice cream). Put them together, and you’ve got the absolute best time of year for a birthday party!

“Summer birthdays can be a blast, and with short work weeks, warm weather, and any excuse for a pool day, there are many ways to make a summer birthday special,” says Kristine Cooke, event planner and designer at Simply Charming Socials.

The laid back and flexible nature of the season, Cooke adds, makes planning summer birthday celebrations easier. “Kids are out of school, workloads tend to be lighter, and vacations are sprinkled throughout the months, so adding in a birthday party or trip isn’t as hurried,” she says.

Summer lets you fully enjoy the great outdoors

With the weather generally warm and sunny, the options for where to host a summer birthday increase infinitely. “You can celebrate anywhere, from a manicured backyard to a pool deck, down by the lake or oceanfront, on a rooftop or in a garden,” Cooke says. “Even the mountains in the summer months are beautiful and great for a glamping trip or campout.”

While there’s nothing like an outdoor summer party, Cooke is quick to point out the pros of an indoor party. “When the AC is pumping and you can enjoy a sweat-free fete, indoor parties are where it’s at,” she says.

4 easy ways to achieve summer birthday happiness

With a little extra consideration about the season, you can host a memorably fun summer birthday party.

1. Choose a summertime theme

A theme might feel too “extra” at first, but it can help immensely when it comes to brainstorming and planning — not to mention the “wow” factor for your guests and special birthday person. “One of our most memorable summer birthdays was a citrus-themed pool party for 4-year old twins at their home in Atlanta,” Cooke says. “From water activities to a tapas bar, on-theme desserts to colorful picnic-style seating, this party was pretty and fun!”

Photos courtesy of Grace Jayne Photography

2. Opt for summer-friendly foods

Particularly for outdoor daytime parties, avoid foods that melt quickly in the sun (anything with chocolate) or things that spoil easily (shrimp salad, for example). Focus on summer foods that refresh and hold up in the heat, such as watermelon salad, gazpacho, and cucumber sandwiches.

3. Think drinks

“Always keep plenty of cool beverages at the ready, boozy or otherwise,” Cooke says. Freeze bottles of water, have plenty of ice on hand, and make sure juice boxes and water is easy to access, especially for little hands.

4. Bug off

Nothing can kill a party faster than a swarm of mosquitos. In addition to bug spray, Cooke says fans are a helpful way to ward off bugs and keep everyone cool. “And for the evenings, tiki torches or citronella candles are key.”

Summer birthday parties for adults

A summer birthday also means the party possibilities are virtually limitless. Cooke, whose business is based in Georgia, says some of her favorite summer birthday celebrations have included an al fresco dinner party, poolside white attire party, and dockside low-country boil. Another stand out? “An intimate boat ride followed by a multi-course waterfront dinner.”

summer birthday with group of young friends drinking cocktails on beach

For adult summer birthdays, Cooke suggests taking full advantage of gorgeous summer evenings. “Laid-back gatherings, when the sun sets late into the evening, are so enjoyable. Or opt for a pool party or beachside celebration…where else can you blow out the candles with a frozen drink in hand?”

Know someone who’s turning 21, 30, or the big 5-0 this summer? For the person celebrating a milestone birthday, Cooke likes the idea of whisking them away. “Tropical destinations are popular in those summer months, but if you’re staying in the U.S., we recommend New England or the Pacific Northwest, areas that have so much beauty in the summer without the high heat or cold winter weather,” Cooke says.

4 summer birthday themes for adults

1. Throwback summer camp

Who says you have to be a kid to enjoy camp? Make silly crafts, learn to tie knots, and give everyone merit badges for their awesome achievements.

summer birthday with group of friends outdoors drinking red wine

2. Parisian wine tasting party

Fancy up a deck or patio and serve up a mix of reds, rosé, and white wines along with fresh grapes, cheese, and charcuterie.

3. Color-themed party

Ask everyone to dress in the same color. Don’t forget to end the night with a toast and sparklers (these aren’t just for wedding exits anymore).

4. Hot tropics

Encourage guests to come in their best island attire (bonus points for the loudest Hawaiian shirts). Send out the tropical vibes with festive decor and coral-colored party fans, and indulge in some icy cocktails that will transport partygoers straight to a seaside bar (in spirit, at least).

Summer birthday parties for kids

summer birthday with kids swimming in a pool

Now, about those kiddos. A summer birthday for younger ones means you’ll want to track down school friends to get invites out to everyone. Cooke says it’s also important to consider the summer heat and other related factors. “Summer birthdays for kids can be a blast but can come with a few challenges, especially if you’re hosting outside.” She suggests always keeping sunscreen, bug spray, and a first-aid kit on hand. “And we can’t stress adult supervision enough, especially for pool parties, bounce houses, and campfires.”

4 summer birthday themes for kids

1. Backyard camp-out party

Roast marshmallows, set up pop-up tents with sleeping bags, tell scary stories, and sleep under the stars.

summer birthdays with kids roasting marshmallows while camping out

2. Magic garden party

Think gnomes as decoration, cupcakes decorated like mushrooms, cookies with “fairy” sprinkles, and grow-your-own crafts.

3. Drive-in movie night

Keep this party low-key, with an outdoor projector playing a favorite flick and an ice cream bar or popcorn station.

4. Mermaid/Merman party

Tails are optional, but “sea” food is a must (or maybe just the fish cracker variety). No pool? No problem! Get well stocked on water balloons and Super Soakers. Indulge little ones in their own summer dessert board that’s just as fancy as the grown-up variety.

Why August Is the Best Month for Birthdays

August, named after the Latin term for “majestic and magnificent,” is summertime’s glorious victory lap. The warmest season always flies by, but, after two months of non-stop fun in the sun, August grants us one last chance to stop and smell the flowers before school resumes and business ramps back up. (There’s a reason National Lazy Day is Aug. 10 and National Relaxation Day is Aug. 15.)

august birthdays with friends having party in swimming pool

August is also a fine month for a birthday — no major holidays to compete with, summer vacations are mostly winding down, we get extra-long periods of daylight, and of the three summer months, August tends to have the least rainfall. And as birthday gifts go, we’ll let you in on a little secret: August is absolute prime time for receiving great presents, that sweet spot on the calendar when we find late-summer clearance sales and new products for fall (and even winter) start hitting the shelves.

But, August babies, it gets even better. You possess some invaluable natural gifts that can’t be wrapped.

August babies are positively lucky

august birthdays with baby playing happily under an umbrella

Nothing beats a lucky streak and the happiness that accompanies it. A European study found those born in the summer months, and August especially, were significantly more likely to consider themselves lucky in life. Another survey links the feeling of luck with less anxiety and neuroticism, and a greater level of outgoing behavior.

Vanderbilt University also found those with August birthdays are less likely to develop depression than those born in the cooler months. Why? Scientists theorize that because mothers who give birth in August are exposed to high levels of vitamin D (aka the “sunshine vitamin”) during the last stages of their pregnancy — a result of the season’s extended daylight hours — their newborn’s “biological clock” may be permanently, and positively, altered.

August babies are healthier in mind and body

Not only are August-born individuals naturally more positive, but they have also been found less likely to suffer from bipolar disorder and schizophrenia than those born in any other month — again thanks to the vitamin D boost they receive from extended exposure to daylight experienced by late-term summer mothers. Furthering that concept, a study in Denmark also found that babies with low vitamin D levels at birth were more likely to develop schizophrenia later in life. Physical benefits abound too: Studies suggest summer babies have the healthiest average birth weights and grow to be taller than most people. Girls born in the summer also tend to experience a later onset of puberty, which is associated with lower risks of breast and throat cancer.

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August’s birth flowers honor and pay homage

August’s first birth flower is the gladiolus, or “sword lily,” a name based on the Latin translation of its genus name as well as its sword-shaped blooms. Native to South Africa, the flower made its way to Europe in the 1700s. Today, it blooms around the world in array of colors, each with a different meaning: A red sword lily declares the giver’s heart is “pierced with love,” yellow expresses warm-hearted compassion, pink is a sign of motherly love, and purple speaks to mysterious charm. The gladiolus also provides more than pretty petals: South Africans have used the sword lily’s roots, blooms, and seed sacs for centuries to treat colic, skin inflammations, and wound infections.

august birtdhays with young woman smelling a red poppy in flower meadow in summer sunset

The poppy, August’s second birth flower, was first cultivated in Mesopotamia nearly four millennia ago, for its pain-relieving properties. Ancient Romans and Greeks collected poppies to honor the dead, a tradition that continues today in this country — Americans wear and display the flower around Memorial Day to memorialize fallen U.S. soldiers.

Despite the poppy’s link to the concept of death, its message is less about mourning, and more about tribute and giving thanks. A vast variety of poppy shades exist, carrying subtle messages: Reds symbolize happiness, and purple poppies represent enchantment. White and cream stand for sympathy and condolence, and yellow conjures wishes of prosperity.

August’s zodiac signs are strong and sure

Leos (July 23–Aug. 22) are July’s natural-born performers and public speakers, and powerful ones at that. Like the sign’s symbol, the lion, a Leo can capture the attention of all around them with sounds that reach almost any volume. They won’t stop their act until everyone notices, but boy do they love the applause — a Leo lives to be showered with praise and admiration. If a Leo’s whole stage is taken, however, things could get loud, and should a Leo’s inner circle be disrespected, the lion’s full roar is on the way. They sure sound intimidating, but however wealthy or powerful, a Leo’s naturally bright smile and warm personality make them feel approachable to people of all ages and levels of society. Barack Obama, Kylie Jenner, Mick Jagger, and Martha Stewart are just a few well-known Leos.

August also births Virgos (Aug. 23–Sept. 22), a practical gang of problem solvers with a thing for modesty and independence — quite a refreshing attitude to encounter in a world of pride and glitz. The typical Virgo lives by logic and practicality, making life choices that leave little to chance. Being meticulous certainly isn’t a bad thing, though Virgos must remember that keeping unreachable ideals can lead to burnout, and applying personal sky-high standards to friends and partners can lead to unfair judgment. Thankfully, the inherently gentle and supportive Virgo nature tends to outshine its critical tendencies. A Virgo’s desire to share and build can make them wonderful teachers, musicians, and doctors. Famous Virgos include Beyoncé, Keanu Reeves, Amy Poehler, Michael Jackson, and Salma Hayek.

Best Zodiac Plants for Each Astrological Sign

You’ve heard of using astrology to find a romantic match. But did you know your zodiac sign can also help you find the perfect plant? It’s true. 1-800-Flowers.com teamed with the astrology experts at Sanctuary, a company that offers daily personalized horoscopes, live birth chart readings, and on-demand astrologers, to guide you to what plants are the best match for each sign’s traits.

Room with best plants for zodiac gift guide

“When choosing plants to bring into your space, it’s a good idea to consider the needs of the plant as well as your own needs,” says Haley Houseman, creative director for Sanctuary. “Choosing plants that suit your temperament is the surest way to keep both of you happy.”

The experts suggest thinking about plants the way you think about people: “If you’re interested in a plant whose lifestyle runs counter to yours, you might want to invest a little more energy in the surroundings of your plant, just the way you might have to invest more energy in an unconventional friendship or a romantic match,” Houseman says.

But don’t sweat it if you are a Libra who is obsessed with orchids, the pick for Leos. “There are no ‘bad’ plants or ‘bad’ signs — astrology gives you clues to how best accommodate every sign’s unique aspects to help them thrive, just like the care instructions on your new plant,” Houseman adds.

Read on for the perfect zodiac plants chosen for each sign by the astrology gurus at Sanctuary.

Guide to zodiac plants

photo of zodiac plants with glass succulent terrarium for aries

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Attributes: Independent, secure, leader

Plant: Succulents in Glass Terrarium

Succulents are strong and unique; so, too, is Aries. There’s no hidden agenda here: The see-through container holding these plants lets you see exactly what is on the inside, matching perfectly with Aries’ straightforward and hardworking personality. Just like Aries is a self-starter and wants to run the show, these succulents will last and don’t require a lot of work.

photo of zodiac plants with peace lily plant for taurus

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Attributes: Pragmatic, sensual, reliable

Plant: Peace Lily Plant

The Peace Lily Plant is gorgeous, its greens and snow-white flowers lending an air of both sturdiness and beauty. “A home-loving Taurus might look to curate a perfect setting and be ready to invest in a plant that enjoys the more luxurious side of life,” Houseman says. A Taurus uses his senses more than the other signs, taking in scents and smells, and noticing the way things feel. This thriving plant will appeal to this sign since it is simultaneously hardy and beautiful.

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Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Attributes: Brainy, articulate, persuasive

Plant: Snake Plant (Sansevieria)

Just as Geminis can rebound from situations and not get affected by adversity, so, too, does the Sansevieria. A hardy, vertical-growing plant with variegated leaves, the Snake Plant is easy to keep healthy for the busy and social Gemini. “An easily distracted Gemini needs something low maintenance,” Houseman says.

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Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Attributes: Loving, caring, family-oriented, strong business acumen

Plant: Aloe Vera Plant

Aloe plants aren’t just cool, they actually cool! The substance inside the plant is used as a soothing healing remedy for injures like cuts and burns. One can also take it internally for stomach issues; before you do, though, consult an expert. Since Cancers are known for being emotional and putting family first, having this plant in the sunroom is essential for this sensitive, empathetic individual.

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Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Attributes: Generous, ambitious, loyal, comfortable being the center of attention

Plant: Simply Elega nt Orchid Garden

Orchids are a special plant, just like a Leo. They require attention, and they aren’t wallflowers. Need a gift? An orchid is a no-brainer option for this generous, giving sign.

photo of zodiac plants with maiden hair fern for virgo

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Attributes: Kind, gentle, organized, reliable

Plant: Maiden Hair Fern

This pretty plant can take up to three years to grow to its full size, but to get it there, you need to make sure it is kept in a very humid environment. If anyone has the patience and traits to keep this plant healthy and growing, it’s the organized and dependable Virgo. “This plant is the best pick for this sign because it brings an opportunity to find alignment in routines and tasks,” says Sanctuary astrology expert Laura Beth Finley.

photo of zodiac plants with air plant terrarium for libra

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Attributes: Balanced, fair, tasteful, intuitive

Plant: Airplant Terrarium

This airplant is a great choice for the air sign Libra. “It’s the perfect pick for this sign because it brings harmonious vibes to any space,” Finley says. With impeccable taste, a Libra will know just where to display this fun plant in their home. Hang it on a Christmas tree, balancing the orb on a branch, to symbolize Libra’s desire for all things in harmony.

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Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Attributes: Mysterious, loyal, secretive

Plant: Marble Queen Pothos Plant

The Pothos plant is easy to care for, and that’s great for a Scorpio who has bigger things percolating. With an attractive green and white variegated pattern, the Marble Queen clears the air in your home. Scorpio can even forget about watering it, as the plant likes its soil to go dry between waterings, but Scorpio’s compassionate soul needs to remember to put it in a light-filled spot.

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Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

Attributes: Wise, adventurous, generous, optimistic

Plant: Majesty Palm Floor Plant

The palm fronds on this impressive plant may recall travel memories — or goals — for wanderlust Sagittarius. Sag is too busy learning and philosophizing to do much more than keep these beautiful greens out of indirect sunlight. Yes, the plant needs misting, but Scorpios do so lovingly, longing to feel the humidity of a tropical destination.

photo of zodiac plants with juniper bonsai for capricorn

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Attributes: Trustworthy, practical, sensible, hardworking

Plant: Juniper Bonsai

It’s tough to look at the bonsai tree without feeling zen and calm. Capricorn cares for these trees with the utmost responsibility, and benefits from the meditative state each one gives its owner. The bonsai lasts for years if well cared for, and Cap is one of the longest living signs of the zodiac. The plant is truly representative of this patient soul.

photo of zodiac plants with money tree grove for aquarius

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Attributes: Intellectual, leader, humanitarian

Plant: Money Tree Grove

Aquarius is busy saving the world, so a plant that stays alive with little effort from its owner is just what this socially minded sign needs. The good fortune vibes from this tree grove (there are three) equate well with Aquarius’ desire to make a societal change, especially because the sign isn’t motivated by fortune and fame. “The braiding of the trunks exemplifies how Aquarians can powerfully bring together a community to unite for a greater cause. We don’t see a messy unification here but wise connectivity, leading to a strong foundation that would be hard for any outside influence to break apart,” says Sanctuary astrology expert Julia Modorsky.

photo of zodiac plants with red maranta prayer plant for pisces

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

Attributes: Caring, daydreamer, intuitive, imaginative

Plant: Red Maranta Prayer Plant

The red and green leaves of the Prayer Plant fold up like praying hands at night. For the Pisces who care so much about relieving the suffering of others, a plant paying homage to spirituality is a perfect match. The creative Pisces might be dealing with enacting change in the world, so a plant that can thrive without too much work will be a good match for this selfless member of the zodiac.

For all signs

Sanctuary reminds us that plants are similar to people — you can’t change them. If you aren’t equipped to care for a high-maintenance plant, choose a succulent. “Meeting your plants where they are and taking their needs into consideration is the best way to ensure a compatible match between your sign and your special plant pick,” Houseman says.

Sounds like good advice for our human relationships, too. Now that you’ve read which zodiac plants match well with your astrological sign, check out your zodiac flower.

Why July Is the Best Month for Birthdays

Some call July the “real” summer month, and they may have a point.

June serves as summer’s warmup: School is still in session in a lot of places, and full-time tank-top-and-flip-flops weather hasn’t yet arrived. August is summer’s wind-down, and not 100% carefree: The new school year approaches (or arrives fully in many Southern and Southwestern states), fall sports are gearing up, and late-season, triple-digit heat waves make air-conditioned living rooms a top vacation destination.

July is the sweet spot, an oasis on the calendar when days (or weeks!) at the pool, lake, or ocean are the norm and summer entertaining is in full swing.

It’s also a great birthday month, with no major holidays to overshadow your party — save for our nation’s birthday on the 4^th. And with all its fireworks displays and cookouts, Independence Day could be viewed as the perfect day with which to partner for a birthday. July is also the people’s choice, with its plethora of party options making it the favorite month to have a birthday.

As if all this wasn’t enough, babies with July birthdays get some special gifts that can’t be purchased and wrapped.

July is full of healthy, sunny babies

July babies, science has found, are less likely to develop recurring health issues, potentially due to July mothers being exposed to plenty of seasonal sun during the months leading up to giving birth (as well as the babies themselves catching plenty of summer rays during their youngest, most formative months). This wellness boost is attributed to the high levels of vitamin D — a chemical proven to aid in general health — produced by the body when exposed to the sun. These positive growth patterns are known to last well past early childhood: Babies with July birthdays have been found to grow taller than those born in the fall or winter.

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July babies are extra chill and creative

Research demonstrates that those with July birthdays often possess especially positive life attitudes and, consequently, face a lower risk of depression as adults. This could be due, studies indicate, to July babies having an above-average ability to balance emotions and not give in to mindless aggression. As a result, they are more likely to maintain composure when having a favorite toy taken away or losing a game. The effects of being able to stabilize emotions often go beyond chill moods and extend into creative confidence: July babies are more likely to become artists, a census report finds, than those born in nearly any other month.

July flowers promise endless positivity

July’s first birth flower, the larkspur, is a vivid annual that blooms abundantly in the Northern Hemisphere and high-elevation areas of the African tropics. While thriving outdoors from spring through summer’s conclusion, larkspurs grow from several inches to several feet, and in shades that have come to represent certain qualities: A blue bloom embodies grace and dignity, purple symbolizes a first love, white stands for joy and rebirth, and pink signifies classic romance.

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Larkspurs of all colors have long been considered sources of positive energy. In the ancient Middle East, the flower was used to repel scorpions, and in 17^th century Transylvania, dried larkspurs were kept in farm stables, believed to prevent witches from casting spells on healthy animals. Modern-day, natural healing practitioners still employ larkspur to treat insect stings and external wounds.

The month’s second birth flower is the water lily, similar in form and hue to the legendary lotus, both of which grow below, and bloom through, the surface of fresh water. For thousands of years, the water lily has represented life’s endless cycles of growth and unity; to ancient Egyptians, the flower embodied the concept of human birth, death, and rebirth, while ancient Greeks dedicated water lilies to Hera, goddess of family and marriage.

All water lilies have broad flat leaves and petals that give the flower a star-like shape. They come in a variety of shades, each of which carries a different meaning:

Pink = Knowledge and wisdom
Purple = Royalty and regality
White = The peace of nature

The water lily is not only gorgeous but practical, discouraging algae growth in home water gardens while providing shade for tadpoles and tiny fish.

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July’s astrological signs are welcoming and bright

Cancers (June 21–July 22) are born communicators, swift thinkers with unique means of expression, and quirky senses of humor. A Cancer’s mind is somehow both present and dreamy — practical yet emotional — a tenuous balance that if not maintained during life’s ups-and-downs can lead to plenty of second guessing and inaction. Such is the nature of the crab: When threats arrive, it draws into its shell and stays still. All the same, crabs’ shells never hold them; Cancers love social interaction, hold a remarkable ability to read a room, and can make even strangers feel like loved ones, thanks to their capacity for great empathy and compassion. Famous Cancers include Tom Cruise, Margot Robbie, Post Malone, Kevin Bacon, and Princess Diana.

Those born at July’s tail end are Leos (July 23–Aug 22), natural leaders with a born charisma and confidence that perfectly embody their sign’s symbol, the lion. Leos’ normal state of being is warm and joyful, and they certainly do enjoy displaying this radiant nature to all they encounter. If the social spotlight drifts from a Leo, however, he will not hesitate to let out a growl, and should a Leo feel his social circle is being threatened, you will definitely hear roars.

Speaking of which, do Leos ever enjoy making sounds! They live to lead, speak, perform, and receive bountiful praise for the fruits of their expression. Madonna, Ben Affleck, Kylie Jenner, Joe Jonas, and Jennifer Lopez are all Leos.

First Birthday Party Tips Every New Parent Should Know

Throwing a party for your child’s first year on Earth is a great way to celebrate their burgeoning young life and reflect on how special the past 365 days have been. But just how far should you go to plan your child’s first birthday party?

Susan Newman, Ph.D., social psychologist, parenting expert, and bestselling author, says the most important thing for first-time parents is to ignore any outside pressure and just concentrate on themselves.

“Parents should shed the influence of what others think they should do for this early birthday and focus on what they want to prioritize,” she says. “The first few birthdays are really more for the parents, because children won’t remember them, so just try to have fun and make memories.”

If you’re looking for first birthday party tips for your little one’s big bash, here are five things to consider.

1. Decide who to invite

When it comes to a guest list, you may want to keep things intimate and manageable, especially if there will be other little kids in attendance. Once you account for family and close friends, consider the groups your baby is in, such as daycare or toddler gym classes.

The first few birthdays are really more for the parents, because children won’t remember them, so just try to have fun and make memories.

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Social psychologist, parenting expert, and bestselling author

“If you want to plan a lowkey party that’s focused on your child, try limiting the number of guests,” Newman says. “Maybe just invite grandparents, parents of your kid’s friends, friends of the family, and young cousins. If you do decide to invite other youngsters, be sure to include enough cake, cookies, and treats for their enjoyment, too.”

Remember to keep your budget and the party space in mind. Too many revelers may overcrowd the event, drive up the cost, or unnecessarily complicate the planning. In other words, start your list with definite invitees, and then add slowly from there.

2. Choose a location

Hosting your baby’s first birthday at your home, especially if you have enough room to accommodate the guest list and give kids of all ages room to ramble, is an excellent idea. This simplifies the logistics of the party and can help save money.

“If you want your 1-year-old to really enjoy their first birthday, hold the party somewhere comfortable and familiar to them so they can feel at ease and focus on the fun,” Newman says.

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Choosing a party space that is not your home also has its advantages. An outdoor park, for example, makes it easy for larger groups to gather without feeling cramped, gives kids plenty of room to play, and often includes tables and/or pavilions that you can use for decorations and food. If you go this route, be sure to get any necessary permits before hosting the party.

Restaurants and dedicated play spaces are also good options. While they can be a little pricier, they do not require much prep, and cleanup is taken care of (we can hear every parent reading this exhaling in relief).

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3. Set realistic expectations

Let’s be honest: One-year-olds are unpredictable. You never know what they’re going to do next. So, the last thing you want to do is pressure your child into doing what you think he should do instead of letting him do what he wants to do.

“You’ll probably want them to blow out candles and smash the cake. If they do, that’s great, but if they don’t, that’s OK, too,” Newman says.

That’s why, Newman says, you need to have a camera handy at all times — so you can document everything that happens.

“It’s going to be super fun later in life to show your child the first birthday party they won’t remember,” she says. “They’ll love to see themselves sticking their fingers in the cake or seeing who was there.

“And, of course, you’ll want to remember, too.”

4. Keep guests fed and hydrated

No party is complete without tasty treats and refreshing beverages. While a birthday cake is an obvious inclusion — preferably one for the guest of honor to destroy and one for everyone else to enjoy — providing other snacks to satisfy hungry partiers is also must.

Further, you could forgo the cake entirely and serve cookies instead. Serving a cake isn’t the end all be all, Newman says, and smaller children might enjoy cookies more anyway.

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Beyond sweets, the children at the party are sure to go for more kid-friendly options and drinks — think finger foods, fruit, and drinks with straws — while adults may require more nuanced selections.

5. Don’t forget to have fun

You may be a little limited in terms of party activities — there’s only so much you can do with a room full of 1-year-olds — but a little creativity can go a long way.

Consider having photo props on hand so that parents can take fun, memorable pictures with their children. This keeps the kids and the parents engaged. You can even print the photos out on site so partygoers can have keepsakes to take home with them.

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A first birthday party is also a great time to start traditions. In Newman’s case, she baked a cake for her son’s first birthday in the shape of a car, because that’s what he was into at the time. As her son’s interests changed, she made cakes for future birthdays in the shapes of soccer balls and bowling pins.

Newman says, “This is a wonderful time to start your own traditions that are special to you now and will be special to your children later.”

Why June Is the Best Month for Birthdays

From exploring why we celebrate turning one year older to discovering birthday traditions around the world, the series “All About Birthdays” brings you fun facts about the day we all celebrate. In this article, we explore why June birthdays are the best.

June is summer’s sweet spot. Just after Memorial Day, we get four weeks of ideal weather to enjoy before the hot and humid dog days arrive. And what a month in which to be born!

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Birthday party organizers can choose from a near endless variety of recreational options for entertainment: cookouts with yard games, visits to the beach, fishing, boating, hiking. For sporting types, basketball and tennis in the park or a picturesque round of golf all can serve as appetizers for watching this month’s professional basketball championship and one of the major tournaments in both golf and tennis. June is also prime music festival season, a chance to catch three or four favorite acts. Best of all, June contains the most daylight of any month; 2022’s summer solstice — the year’s longest day — falls on June 21. Plan big, because with school out for summer partygoers’ schedules should be wide open!

June brings certain fun for all, but for those born this month, it provides a few unique personal qualities.

June babies aim tall and go big

June, it seems, can provide size, smarts, and smiles — not a bad set of birthday gifts! U.K. studies have found June babies to be some of the largest at birth, as well as the tallest come adulthood. But even those who get the short end of the stick may be headed onward and upward: June has been found to be the most common birth month among Nobel Prize winners, and those born during the spring and summer have been shown to possess long-lasting optimism and a positive personal outlook.

June birthdays stay on the bright side

Seasonal affective disorder, a pattern of depression and fatigue occurring during the year’s darker, colder months, can be a tough condition to deal with. June-born individuals, however, have been found to be less likely to suffer from the disorder, which scientists speculate may be related to the pleasant weather and sunshine experienced during a June child’s most formative years. And while June babies have also been found to be more likely to experience mood swings than those born in the fall or winter, their naturally positive and level-headed natures help to even out their emotions quickly and effectively.

June feels sweet as roses and honey

June’s primary birth flower is perhaps nature’s most recognizable bloom, and definitely one of its most fragrant: the rose. Upon hearing the name, most people picture the simple red rose, though nearly 150 species of the flower exist — among them, long stem, shrub types, and others that climb like vines. They’ve been around for quite a while, too: The oldest rose first bloomed a whopping 35 million years ago!

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Roses come in a variety of colors, each with its own meaning: A pink rose expresses pure happiness, white represents virtue and clarity, red says “I love you,” and yellow expresses an entirely different form of desire: jealousy. Gifting roses in full bouquets communicates utmost gratitude, while gifting just one serves as an exclamation point: A single red rose expresses absolute and eternal commitment, while one yellow says “I seriously envy your partner!”

The honeysuckle, a flavorful favorite of hummingbirds and humans alike, is also a June birth flower. Like roses, they come in both shrub (the best bird magnets) and vine forms (which can grow up to 30 feet tall), and are found in 200 varieties across the globe. All honeysuckles symbolize serenity, and, given their succulent nectar, sweetness — though, specifically, pink, yellow, and red represent friendship, flirtation, and passion, respectively. Honeysuckles also stand for maternal energy, as the butterflies and bees they attract carry plenty of pollen, a substance responsible for reproducing Mother Earth’s flowering plant life. Native to east Asia, the honeysuckle is a latecomer to North America, where its cultivation began in Long Island, New York, during the early 1800s.

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June’s signs are tireless and caring

With lives never dull, and at times almost too hectic to imagine, Geminis (May 21 to June 21) are perpetually curious people, driven to explore the realms of society, intellect, and finance. Geminis make thrilling friends, and potentially epic business partners, though some possess such thin attention spans that something as small as a distracting text thread could end their work day. As social chameleons, Geminis surround themselves with all sorts of life options — from arranging two sets of dinner plans for one night (before canceling one at the last minute) to maintaining multiple circles of friends (each intentionally kept separate). Well-known Geminis include Kanye West (June 8), Marilyn Monroe (June 1), and Chris Pratt (June 21).

Cancers (June 22 to July 22) are an intuitive and imaginative group, remarkably gifted in realms of communication. Always in tune with the vibe of the room, Cancers are adept at picking up subtleties of speech and body language that fly right past other signs. Possessing loads of empathy, Cancers are also perpetually easy to talk to — even for complete strangers — and make perfect confidantes. Definitely an emotional sign, social discord or personal stress can send a Cancer right back inside their shell. When around trusted friends, however, even a chronically uptight Cancer unwinds quickly. Tom Hanks (July 9), Princess Diana (July 1), Post Malone (July 4), Margot Robbie (July 2), and Will Ferrell (July 16) are all born under Cancer.

Why May Is the Best Month for Birthdays

As April showers give way to May flowers, spring is in full swing. The garden is growing, pools are opening, and backyard grills are coming to life, allowing for the type of together time that only warm months can offer. May’s special occasions — a series of party classics — are back: Cinco de Mayo celebrates Mexican culture with margaritas galore, the Kentucky Derby delivers another round of southern indulgence, and National Wine Day brings with it, well, you know. This month also has heartfelt holidays, such as Mother’s Day, a celebration of the lovely ladies to whom we owe our lives, and Memorial Day, a salute to those who have sacrificed so much for our freedom.

With winter far behind in our rearview, the May experience is a present to all — though a May birthday just happens to be the gift that keeps on giving.

Hearty May bodies resist disease

May infants are born, on average, weighing nearly 7 ounces more than those born in other seasons. This ample size seems to correspond with a strong immune system: A review of 1.75 million patient records by Columbia University found that spring babies displayed an overall lower risk of general disease.

A May baby’s low disease risk does not seem to translate to athletic stardom, though, at least in the United Kingdom, where very few national sport captains have had May birthdays — save for a famous son of May 2, footballer David Beckham!

May babies feel fortunate for career options

A survey of 30,000 Europeans regarding their sense of personal luck found those born in May feel more fortunate than fall or winter babies. Scientists speculate this could be related to the fact that mothers pregnant in springtime experience higher levels of sunshine, boosting levels of dopamine (the “pleasure chemical”) in a fetus’ developing brain, which in turn raises positivity levels for years to come.

A May baby’s optimism also seems to open more career paths: U.K. studies have found that certain birth months yield workers of specific occupations — January has the most physicians, February produces the most artists, etc. — and that those born in May (and the preceding month, April) have the widest variety of occupations.

May flowers deliver happiness and protection

The lily of the valley, also known as the May lily, is actually not a lily at all but a member of the asparagus family. Far from a spiky vegetable, this one’s a beauty — a lithe stem bearing small, downturned, bell-shaped blooms and a light honeyed scent.

May lilies have come to represent innocence and modesty, and within floriography, the practice of assigning coded meanings to plants, the “return of happiness.” First cultivated in 15^th-century Europe, the May lily is a very popular bridal flower, chosen even by Catherine Middleton and Princess Grace of Monaco for their royal weddings. Few medicinal uses for the flower have been proven, though water mixed with its petals was said to be used throughout 18^th-century Europe for gout relief.

May’s second birth flower is the hawthorn (aka the May tree), a dense plant more likely to be used as a decoration hedge in landscaping than featured in a bouquet. A native of the temperate Northern Hemisphere, the hawthorn’s clustered white and pink blooms feature thin extensions with tiny red, orange, or black fruited tips. Such alluring visuals embody the hawthorn’s traditional meanings of fertility and earthen beauty, while its firm central twigs and thorns represent protection. Traditional medicinal uses for the flower include blood pressure regulation, menopause relief, sleep aid, and the relief of rashes and acne breakouts.

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The May zodiac is tough and in the know

Those born under the Taurus sign (April 20 to May 20) are widely respected for their righteous ambitions, dependable natures, and pure hearts. Classic Taureans possess the type of sensual and elegant qualities that most can only wish for; yet, unlike many of life’s “beautiful people,” they are quite down to earth. Don’t mistake that kindness for weakness, though: A Taurus isn’t one to budge when pushed, and when they become aggravated, they may display outright hard-headedness, even in matters of little consequence. However, when such persistence is applied to long-term goals, Taurean determination always yields positive results. Beckham, Adele, George Clooney, Tina Fey, and Megan Fox all have Taurus as their astrological sign.

The ever-curious Gemini (May 21 to June 21) is rarely found bored, or labeled boring. Living in a rapid manner both physically and mentally, Geminis can be exciting friends, though hard types to work with; if they lose concentration during a meeting, the day might be over. High-energy Gemini nature thrives on change and choices, leading many born under the sign to keep options around: alternate recreation, income sources, and, for a small few, even lovers. Be it national news or just local rumors, a Gemini must stay informed, and can often be found glued to social media in search of life’s inside scoops. Famous Geminis include Marilyn Monroe, Kanye West, Angelina Jolie, and Prince.