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11 Ideas for Throwing a Life-changing 40th Birthday Party

A 40th birthday marks a turning point in life. It’s a moment when we reflect on how far we’ve come, and how much more we want to accomplish. And if, as the saying goes, life begins at 40, a 40th birthday party offers a great way to usher in this exciting new phase of life.

Whether you’re throwing a 40th birthday party for a loved one or hosting your own big 4-0 birthday bash, we’ve got plenty of unique ideas to celebrate the start of a new decade and commemorate a big milestone.

I love to host parties that are really meaningful to the birthday recipient, and some of our favorite things from childhood can really bring a party to life.

dawn lopez

Founder of the Cutefetti blog

Nostalgic 40th birthday ideas (with a grown-up twist)

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For that ’80s baby turning 40, there’s a certain heartwarming charm to reliving the era of neon, cassette tapes, and classic arcade games. “I love to host parties that are really meaningful to the birthday recipient, and some of our favorite things from childhood can really bring a party to life,” explains party expert Dawn Lopez, creator of the Cutefetti blog.

One way to throw an ’80s-themed birthday party is to go all-in on the era: Play hits from the decade by Madonna or Bon Jovi, add lots of bright decorations, and ask guests to dress up in iconic outfits of the era, such as leg warmers, oversized sweaters, and acid wash jeans.

Lopez suggests going deeper into childhood memories for a 40th birthday party theme. She likes to focus on someone’s favorite superhero or cartoon character from back in the day. “See how you can bring elements of the characters and story to life through fun foods and decorations.” You could also incorporate elements from a popular ’80s movie or video game.

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Recreate your favorite childhood party place

Did you, or the guest of honor, spend every weekend at the arcade? Or did an ideal Friday night consist of eating pan pizza at an iconic chain restaurant or hanging out at the local video rental spot? Then throw an instant pizza party that’s even better than you remember, with pizza kits that come with a bottle of wine as bonus! (For a truly nostalgic experience, serve cola too.) You could also pick up some old school DVDs and candy to recreate those all-night movie marathons you used to have in your best friend’s basement.

Want to make a big impression? Serve up plenty of sweet treats in the form of a breakable chocolate pretzel pizza (which comes with its own mallet for busting). That’s sure to be a smashing birthday moment worth capturing.

Was the roller skating rink your second home? Lopez suggests finding a retro roller skating rink and serving themed food items. “It would be cute to serve roller skate-shaped cake, cookies, and snacks,” she says.

‘Intriguing’ 40th birthday ideas

Make turning 40 into a mystery

Grab a murder mystery game kit and assign characters beforehand so everyone can dress the part (or just wing it on the spot by supplying some props). Of course, you’ll also want to serve up snacks and drinks. A mystery cookie box and bloody marys sound appropriate. Add a classy touch with myriad mocktails, from Espress0% Martini to Sansgria, for those skipping the alcohol.

Fortune-ate at 40

Bring an air of mystique to your 40th birthday party by inviting a psychic to tell everyone’s fortunes, or DIY the future-casting with a set of tarot cards. Gift tarot-themed plant seed packets and tarot card mini journals as favors, and decorate with some tarot-themed items like candles and diffusers.

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Camp out under the stars

There’s nothing like escaping into nature to usher in a new beginning in life — and what better way to do it than with friends and family to celebrate turning 4-0. Get together around the campfire, tell spooky stories, and treat everyone to s’more making with your choice of ingredients presented beautifully on a customized wooden board. Pair it with s’mores-flavored popcorn and some chocolate-, marshmallow-, and graham-themed gourmet snacks.

Enriching 40th birthday ideas

Take an online workshop

Learning something new can be an invigorating and bonding experience among loved ones. And the best part is you don’t need to have any skills or prior experience to dive into a new hobby or interest. Whether it becomes a life-long passion or merely a one-time adventure, exploring a culinary, craft, or specialized skill can be a way to broaden your horizons when turning 40. Try your hand at a virtual group lesson, such as flower arranging, pasta making, succulent growing, or mixology.

Host a Bob Ross paint party

Take the classic paint party and make it epic with everyone’s favorite ASMR art instructor. Heck, you don’t even need to do any painting! (Although if you want to, we’ve got you covered.) A Bob Ross-themed 40th birthday party decoration package is sure to do the trick. Throw in “Bob Mob” for the lawn and a wine and light bites package, and you’re sure to have plenty of “happy little trees.”

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Choose your own 40th birthday adventure

You don’t need to travel far to find an adventure. Turning 40 means trying new things, so get out and do something new, such as an escape room, rage room, or VR lounge. For those that want to get the heart pumping, visit a trampoline gym or play laser tag. You’ll come home invigorated from the experience, and hungry from all the energy you expended, which is why an instant Italian dinner — with all the comforts of spaghetti and meatballs, garlic bread, and apple crostata already made and ready for you to enjoy — is the perfect birthday meal.

Your favorite book or movie birthday

At 40, you probably have very specific tastes and fandoms when it comes to your entertainment choices. Bring that pop culture obsession to life with a party that celebrates a favorite book, movie, or TV series. How about a Mad Hatter tea party or “Lord of the Rings”–inspired feast with plenty of dishes featuring “po-tay-toes“? For the Jane Austen fan, recreate the splendor of a gorgeous English garden by filling the space with springtime blooms and a stunning centerpiece. Serve up traditional English muffins, offer Regency-style dance lessons, and invite guests to dress in Bridgerton-style outfits.

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Escape to another era

Time travel to the past with a 40th birthday party set in an iconic era. Picture turning your home into a roaring 1920s speakeasy with flapper attire, a posh cocktail-making station (don’t forget to offer some mocktails as well!), and indulgent delights, such as caviar and chocolate truffles. Or create some “disco fever” with a 70s-themed birthday bash. Invite guests to sport their best bell-bottoms and platforms, and add a disco ball, funky music and, of course, smiley faces.

No-school snow day for big kids

Remember those magical days when school got canceled for snow and all you did was watch cartoons, have snowball fights, and retreat in the house for hot chocolate breaks? Recreate those unforgettable times by inviting friends to come over in their best pajama outfits and fixing up a cereal bar with all your favorite childhood breakfast treats (including cereal cookies!), along with some adult beverages.

Lopez says, “I love the idea of throwing a sleepover-inspired party — basically, a celebration that brings the birthday person right back to their childhood. I once threw an old school party to celebrate friendships and served up a retro waffle bar and handed out friendship bracelets. It was SO much fun.”

10 Leap Year Birthday Celebration Ideas for Leaplings, Leapers, and Leapsters

Every birthday is worthy of being celebrated, but a leap year birthday deserves extra special attention. That’s because there is a 1 in 1,461 chance that an individual will be born on Feb. 29. So when you or someone you know has a birthday on that day — and it actually appears on the calendar — it’s even more important to make a big deal of it.

But before we share ideas about how to celebrate, let’s find out more about how leap years came to be and why they are still necessary. (Spoiler: It has to do with the Earth’s orbit around the sun and a fraction of a day.)

History of leap years

Thank goodness for people who pay attention to the details. While the rest of us roll through our lives content in the knowledge there are 365 days in a year, the fact is it takes 365.242190 days for Earth to orbit the sun, and that overage amounts to an additional five hours, 45 minutes, and change. Over the course of time, that fraction of a day matters — so much so that if wasn’t somehow accounted for, it would disrupt the timing of our seasons.

Some ancient calendars tracked both lunar and sun cycles, and the difference between the two tracking systems amounted to 11 days. To account for this time, the ancients added extra months to their calendars, known as interstitial months. Feeling this was too hard a system to manage, Julius Caesar did the math in 46 BCE and figured that adding an extra day to the calendar every four years would balance it out.

When I turned 24, we did a clown-themed birthday party for a 6-year-old. When I turned 40, we did a superhero party suitable for a 10-year-old.”
Bobbie Hoehner, owner of The Healing Lounge at Get Tanked Float Center

All was fine until 1582 AD, when it was discovered that the addition of a day every four years over the course of centuries resulted in an overage of 10 days. (Does your brain hurt yet? Mine does.)

Fortunately, Pope Gregory XIII found that by adding an extra day to the calendar in years evenly divided by four, and only in century years evenly divided by 400, all would be right in the universe once again. This became the Gregorian calendar, with Feb. 29 designated as the official leap year date.

Leaplings, leapers, and leapsters

Leap year babies — of which there are only about 5 million in a world populated by nearly 8 billion people — are known alternatively as leapers, leaplings, and leapsters. Bobbie Hoehner, who runs her family’s business The Healing Lounge at Get Tanked in Hinesville, Georgia, is one such leapling — and she wasn’t the only one in her family.

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“My great uncle and my aunt also had leap year birthdays, so I always had someone to celebrate with,” Hoehner says. On non-leap years, she celebrates her birthday on Feb. 28. “In the leap year community, there is debate over which day we should celebrate. Some celebrate on the 28th, some celebrate on March 1st. But 28 plus 1 equals 29, so we generally think we get to celebrate both.”

Hoehner says that being a leapling is also fun because she gets to celebrate being two ages. On leap year birthdays, she celebrates with a theme that corresponds to her leap year age. “When I turned 24, we did a clown-themed birthday party for a 6-year-old. When I turned 40, we did a superhero party suitable for a 10-year-old,” she says.

As fun as it may be for some, being a leap year baby can have its challenges, says leapling Rae Clapper, innkeeper at Apple’s Bed & Breakfast in Big Bear Lake, California. Once when she was on a cross-country trip, an encounter with a local sheriff resulted in a misunderstanding. “The sheriff asked for my license. When he came back, he said it was invalid due to my birthdate,” Clapper says. “I had to explain I was a leap year baby and even Googled it to show him! He cleared me and apologized.”

10 ways to celebrate a leap year birthday

Here are 10 ways to celebrate the rare and special occasion of a leap year birthday.

1. Treat yourself to something sweet

Regular birthdays are for cake. Leap year birthdays are for something distinctly more special, such as artisan chocolate-covered strawberries or dipped cheesecake bites (or both!).

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2. Shake up a leap year cocktail

Get your mixologist on with a personalized cocktail shaker set and recipe created on Feb. 29, 1928, at the historic Savoy Hotel in London.

3. Attend a leap year event

Check out your community’s events calendar or take trip to the Leap Year Festival in Anthony, Texas — the self-proclaimed leap year capital of the world.

4. Join an online leap day community

Get to know leapers just like you. The Honor Society for Leap Year Day Babies is a great place to network on all things leap year.

5. Host a themed soiree

In 2020, Clapper threw herself a “Purple Rain”/Prince-themed party. “I hired a Prince band named the Purple Ones and went all out,” she says. “It was awesome — everyone wore purple.” Don’t forget to have plenty of gourmet food and drinks on hand.

6. Take an overnight holiday

Some leapsters enjoy a two-day leap day birthday celebration, so why not take the opportunity to enjoy an overnight trip. Enjoy two or three days at a special resort or spa to commemorate the occasion.

7. Treat yourself to a spa day

If heading out of town isn’t feasible, pamper yourself with a luxury spa day at home, or host one for you and your closest friends.

8. Throw a leap year age party

Take a page out of Hoehner’s book and have a party with a theme that corresponds to your leap year age. Frogs are big in the leap year community, of course, or choose a special symbol or character that you loved growing up, such as unicorns or Mickey Mouse.

9. Give yourself a gift that gives back

Buy local, handmade items from sellers in your community or find an organization that contributes to a worthy cause when you make a purchase from it.

Flowers, food, wine…whatever your pleasure, there’s a gift subscription that can have it delivered to your door. Until your next leap day birthday!

110 Birthday Card Messages That’ll Make Every Birthday Special

Celebrating a loved one’s birthday is a joyous occasion filled with laughter, warmth, and togetherness. It also serves as the perfect opportunity to express your heartfelt wishes. Amid numerous ways to convey your love, a handwritten birthday message is a timeless way to make the person feel special. Whether for a family member, friend, or colleague, happy birthday wishes bring smiles, cheer, and a sense of connection.

Tips for writing happy birthday wishes

What’s the best way to craft a memorable birthday message? “Write at least one paragraph on something meaningful,” says Dr. Wyatt Fisher, a psychologist and couples retreat leader. “Most people only sign their name on a card, which feels very impersonal. Therefore, to stand out, write at least four to six sentences on what your relationship with them means to you.”

Understanding and embracing the uniqueness of the recipient’s personality is also key when crafting a birthday card message. “Remember, this is one of the most important days in this person’s life,” Wyatt says. “They want to know people are thinking about them and that they matter. You can be lighthearted or humorous, or you could comment on the strengths you see in them or how they have positively impacted your life.”

With that advice in mind, here are 110 birthday messages to spark inspiration and help make your words an unforgettable part of your loved one’s big day.

Funny birthday wishes

“Look at the bright side — at least you’re not as old as you will be next year.”
“Congratulations on reaching an age where your back goes out more than you do. Happy birthday!”
“Happy birthday! It’s lit, just like your candles!”
“You know you’re getting old when the candles cost more than the cake.”
“Don’t worry about your advanced age. Think about it this way: You’re not old, you’re just retro!”
“Remember, you’re not getting older, you’re just increasing in value. Happy birthday, you priceless gem!”
“One minute you’re young and fun, the next you’re getting excited about (your new air fryer, vacuum, slow cooker, etc.).
“Happy birthday to someone smart, funny, great looking, and who reminds me a lot of myself.”
“Happy birthday! I’m really glad you were born. My life would be so boring without you.”
“Your big day is becoming a serious fire hazard. Quick, blow out your candles!”
“You don’t look a day over 16! From a distance, with my eyes closed. Happy birthday!”
“Don’t grow up, it’s a trap! Happy birthday!”

Short and sweet birthday wishes

“Happy birthday! May your day be as bright and joyous as your smile.”
Wishing you a year ahead filled with love, laughter, and countless beautiful moments. Happy birthday!

“Hooray for another year celebrating you!”
“I hope your birthday week is filled with all the things that make you smile.
“Best wishes for a day filled with love and laughter.”
“Hope you get everything you wish for on your birthday.”
“Sending you warm wishes today on your birthday, and always!”
“May this special day bring you all the happiness you’ve given to others. Happy birthday!”

“Warm wishes for a day that’s just as wonderful as you are.”
“Wishing you all the best on your special day.”

Happy birthday wishes for your wife

“Wishing the most beautiful woman in the world the happiest of birthdays! Your love lights up my life, and I feel lucky to spend each day with you.”
“To the queen of my heart, happy birthday! Your love is my greatest treasure, and I can’t wait to make this day as extraordinary as you are.”
“Happy birthday to the woman who completes me in every way possible. May your day be filled with the same love and joy you bring to my life.”
“Wishing my amazing wife a birthday as beautiful and special as she is. Thank you for being my partner, my confidant, and the love of my life.”
“Cheers to the most amazing wife on her birthday! Your love is the greatest gift, and I’m grateful for every moment we share. Here’s to another year of adventures together.”
“Wishing my wonderful wife a birthday filled with love, surprises, and everything that brings you happiness. You deserve the world, and I’m here to make sure you get it!”
“Happy birthday to my favorite person in the entire world! You are the icing on my cake, and I can’t wait to celebrate you all day long.”
“Cheers to another year around the sun, sweetheart. Happy birthday!”
“You are the most thoughtful, intelligent, and caring person I know. How lucky am I to call you my wife? Happy birthday, beautiful!”
“You’ve always been the most stunning woman in the world to me, and that will never change. Happy birthday, gorgeous!”

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Happy birthday wishes for your husband

“Happy birthday to my amazing husband! Your love is the anchor of our family, and I’m grateful for the joy you bring to our lives. Here’s to celebrating you on your special day.”
“Cheers to the one who stole my heart! Happy birthday, my husband. May your day be filled with surprises, joy, and all the things that make you smile.”
“Wishing the happiest of birthdays to the man who makes every day brighter! May this year be filled with laughter, love, and dreams realized.”
“Happy birthday to the man who makes my heart skip a beat! Your love and kindness never cease to amaze me. May your day be as incredible as you are.”
“Happy birthday to my rock, my love, and my best friend! Your presence in my life brings me endless joy. May this year be filled with exciting adventures and dreams fulfilled. Cheers to you, my amazing husband!”
“On your special day, I want to remind you how much you’re loved and appreciated. Happy birthday, my handsome husband. Here’s to another year of shared laughter, love, and unforgettable moments together.”
“Happy birthday to my built-in best friend! I love you so much!”
“You are the most thoughtful, intelligent, and caring person I know. How lucky I am to call you my husband. Happy birthday, handsome!”
“Happy birthday to the most special person in my life. You are my love, my heart, and my joy!”
“Every year on your birthday, I get reminded of how much you mean to me. Happy birthday to my best friend and soulmate!”

Happy birthday wishes for your girlfriend

“Happy birthday to the most incredible woman in my life! Your presence fills my days with love and joy. May this day be as special and beautiful as you are.”
“Wishing my beautiful girlfriend a day filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable moments. Happy birthday! Here’s to creating many more cherished memories together!”
“Happy birthday, my love! Your smile brightens my days, and your love completes my life. May your birthday be as magical and enchanting as you are.”
“To the beautiful woman stole my heart — happy birthday! Your love is the greatest gift, and I’m grateful for the happiness you bring to my life every day.”
“Happy birthday, sweetheart! I’m excited to celebrate this special day with you! May all your dreams come true in the coming year.”
“Wishing you a day as marvelous and vibrant as you are! Happy birthday, my perfect girlfriend. May your birthday be the start of a year filled with love, success, and all the happiness in the world.”
“Your love is my greatest treasure, and I can’t wait to make this day as special as you are. Happy birthday!”
“Cheers to the most beautiful soul I know! Happy birthday, my love! May this year be filled with love, laughter, and everything your heart desires.”

Happy birthday wishes for your boyfriend

“Happy birthday to my incredible boyfriend! Your love fills my days with joy, and I’m grateful to celebrate another year of you!”
“Wishing the happiest of birthdays to the man who makes my heart skip a beat. Happy birthday, my love! May your day be filled with laughter, surprises, and all the happiness you deserve.”
“Happy birthday to the one who brings so much warmth and happiness to my life. Your love is a gift, and I’m lucky to share this special day with you.”
“Cheers to the guy who makes every day brighter! Happy birthday, my handsome boyfriend. May this year be filled with exciting adventures, dreams fulfilled, and lots of love.”
“On your special day, I want you to know how much you mean to me. Happy birthday, my love. Your presence is a source of joy, and I’m excited for another year of shared moments.”
“Happy birthday to the man who stole my heart! Your love is my greatest treasure, and I’m thrilled to celebrate you today. May this birthday be just as amazing as you are.”
“To the one who makes my world complete — happy birthday! Your love is the best gift, and I’m looking forward to making this day as magical as our lives are together.”
“Happy birthday to my love and best friend! May your day be filled with all the things that bring you happiness. Here’s to another year of wonderful memories together!”

Happy birthday wishes for Mom

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“Happy birthday to the most incredible mom! Your love is a guiding light in my life, and I’m grateful for your warmth and wisdom. May your day be as wonderful as you are.”
“Wishing my beautiful mom a day filled with love, joy, and all the happiness in the world. Happy birthday, and thank you for being my inspiration!”
“Happy birthday, Mom! Your kindness, strength, and unconditional love make you a remarkable woman. May your day be surrounded by the same love and joy you bring to our family.”
“To the woman who shaped my world with love — happy birthday! Your wisdom and grace inspire me every day, and I’m lucky to have you as my mom. May your special day be as extraordinary as you are!”
“Happy birthday to the queen of our family! Your love is the heartbeat of our home, and I’m grateful for all the sacrifices you’ve made for us. May your day be filled with the love and joy you’ve given us through the years.”
“I’m lucky to have a mom who is also my best friend. Happy birthday!”
“Every year on this day, I’m reminded how lucky I am to have a mom like you. Happy birthday, Mom!”
“Happy birthday to the real MVP of the family!”

Happy birthday wishes for Dad

“Happy birthday to my amazing dad! Your strength, wisdom, and love have shaped me into the person I am today. May your day be filled with joy, laughter, and all the things you love.”
“Wishing the best dad ever a fantastic birthday! Your guidance and support mean the world to me, and I hope your day is as special as you’ve made mine throughout the years.”
“Happy birthday, Dad! Your love is a constant source of inspiration, and I’m grateful for all the memories we’ve shared. Get ready to have the best day ever!”
“To the man who has been my hero from day one — happy birthday! Your kindness and strength amaze me. May your special day be filled with love, laughter, and all your favorite things.”
“Happy birthday, Dad! Your wisdom and warmth light up our family. May your day be as bright and wonderful as the love you’ve always given us. Cheers to celebrating you!”
“I’m the luckiest person to have a dad like you. Happy birthday!”
“Thank you for always making me feel safe and loved. Sometimes, the simplest things are the most precious and cherished. Happy birthday!”
“I can always count on you to lift me when I’m low and encourage me to keep going. Thank you for being you. Happy birthday, Dad!”

Happy birthday wishes for your sister

“Happy birthday to my sister! Your presence adds so much joy and laughter to my life. Thank you for being my best friend and biggest supporter!”
“Wishing the happiest of birthdays to the best sister ever! Your kindness, strength, and love inspire me every day. May this year bring you all the success and joy you deserve.”
“Happy birthday, sis! Your friendship is a treasure, and I’m grateful for the bond we share. May your day be filled with fun, laughter, and all the special moments that make it truly memorable.”
“Happy birthday to my amazing sister! Your smile brightens up my world. May your birthday be as wonderful and inspirational as you are.”
“Happy birthday to the sister who makes my life more colorful! Your energy, enthusiasm, and love are truly one of a kind. May your day be filled with all the happiness you bring to the lives of those around you.”
“I am the luckiest person on the planet to get to call you my sister. Happy birthday to my favorite person in the world!”
“It’s an honor to have you as a sister and watch you grow into such an amazing person. I love you, and happy birthday!”
“I’m so grateful to have grown up with you. I have you to thank for some of the happiest memories of my life, and I know we’ll make many more. Happy birthday!”

Happy birthday wishes for your brother

“Happy birthday to my awesome brother! Your presence adds so much joy and laughter to my life. May your day be filled with excitement, surprises, and all the things that bring you happiness.”
“Wishing the happiest of birthdays to the best brother ever! Your strength, kindness, and humor make you truly special. May this year be filled with success, adventure, and all the good things life has to offer.”
“Happy birthday, bro! Your friendship means the world to me, and I’m grateful for the bond we share. May your day be filled with celebration, laughter, and the company of those you hold dear.”
“Happy birthday to my incredible brother! Your generosity, wisdom, and love make you a remarkable person. May your birthday be as amazing and extraordinary as you are!”
“Happy birthday to the brother who makes life more fun! Your energy, positivity, and warmth light up our family. May your day be filled with happiness, love, and all the things that bring you joy.”
“Cheers to another year of being the best brother ever. Happy birthday!”
“Happy birthday to the guy who always protected me, even though I’m the older sibling. Cheers, little brother!”
“Having you as a built-in best friend is the biggest blessing of my life. Happy birthday, brother!”

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Happy birthday wishes for Grandma

“Happy birthday to the sweetest grandma in the world! Your love and wisdom have shaped our family, and we are so grateful for the joy you bring to our lives. May your day be filled with all the happiness you’ve shared with us.”
“Wishing a very special birthday to my incredible grandma! Your warmth, kindness, and comforting presence make our family complete. May your day be filled with love, laughter, and cherished moments.”
“Happy birthday, Grandma! Your love is a guiding light in our lives, and your stories are the threads that weave our family together. May this year bring you all the joy and happiness you deserve.”
“To the queen of our family, happy birthday, Grandma! Your grace and strength inspire us every day. May your birthday be as beautiful and heartwarming as the love you’ve showered us with!”
“Warmest birthday wishes to my amazing grandma! Your hugs are the best, and your love is unmatched. May your special day be filled with the same warmth and joy you’ve always given me.”

Happy birthday wishes for Grandpa

“Happy birthday to the coolest grandpa ever! Your wisdom, humor, and love are the cornerstones of our family. May your day be filled with laughter, good company, and everything you enjoy.”
“Wishing a fantastic birthday to my wonderful grandpa! Your stories are a treasure, and your presence is a blessing. May this year bring you health, happiness, and all the joys of life.”
“Happy birthday, Grandpa! Your strength and resilience are an inspiration to us all. May your day be filled with the all love and appreciation you deserve.”
“To the grandpa who always knows how to make me smile — happy birthday! Your love is a constant source of warmth and comfort. May your special day be filled with joy and dreams realized!”
“Warmest birthday wishes to my amazing grandpa! Your guidance and love has shaped my life in beautiful ways. May your day be filled with the same joy and happiness you’ve given me over the years.”

Happy birthday wishes for friends

“Happy birthday to my best friend! Your friendship brings so much joy and laughter to my life. May your day be filled with amazing moments and lots of cake!”
“Wishing the happiest of birthdays to the one who makes every day brighter! Your friendship is a gift, and I’m grateful for the memories we’ve created together. May your year be filled with exciting adventures and all your dreams coming true.”

“Happy birthday, my dear friend! Your kindness, loyalty, and humor make you truly special. May your day be as fantastic as you are.”
“Happy birthday to the friend who has been there through thick and thin! Your support means the world to me, and I hope your day is filled with love, laughter, and all the things that bring you happiness.”
“Happy birthday to my best friend! You truly know how to turn ordinary moments into extraordinary memories. May your special day be filled with surprises, joy, and lots of laughs.”

Happy birthday wishes for co-workers

“Happy birthday to my favorite co-worker! You truly inspire me. May your day be filled with well-deserved recognition, joy, and relaxation.”
“Wishing a very happy birthday to the one who makes the workplace brighter! Your positive energy and teamwork are truly appreciated!”
“Happy birthday to one of the greats! May your day be filled with celebration and appreciation!”
“Happiest of birthdays to you! May your special day be as productive and successful as you are at work!”
“Warmest birthday wishes to my wonderful co-worker. You make the office a better place!”

The Birthday Blues: What It Feels Like, Why We Experience It, and How to Get Through It

Gary spent his 48th birthday at work, hauling junk. He didn’t talk about the significance of the day with his work buddies — or anyone else, for that matter. In fact, Gary, who asked to keep his last name private, hasn’t celebrated a birthday in years.

Be sensitive and mindful of how other people experience their birthdays and what they might need during those times.

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He dreads turning 50. “Fifty is holy Moses!” he says, “I still think I’m 25 in my head.”

Birthdays — and holidays — have made him sad ever since his mother died when he was 36. He misses her, and even more so on occasions when they would have been together. With each birthday, he also feels the weight of regrets and the mistakes he’s made in his work life. “I haven’t used my time well,” he confesses, adding, “but other people deal with worse.”

That’s true. “I have a number of close friends and family members who experience low mood on their birthdays,” says Ash King, a psychologist and social media researcher in Sydney. Feeling sad, self-critical, or regretful, as Gary does, isn’t uncommon. The “birthday blues” have many causes, and some of them have deep roots. Research even shows an uptick in suicides on birthdays among middle-aged men in the United Kingdom and in Japan, on milestones like turning 40.

Don’t assume you can jolly someone out of this state. A surprise party — or even an extravagant trip — can backfire. Instead, “be sensitive and mindful of how other people experience their birthdays and what they might need during those times,” King says. “I think we should follow our friends’ lead.”

That doesn’t always mean doing nothing — you might send a bouquet, plant, or card — but don’t push.

Are you depressed or suffering from anxiety?

Gary confesses he’s depressed, although he’s not in treatment. About 1 in 5 adults in the U.S. are diagnosed with depression in their lifetime, and many more live with symptoms — insomnia, low energy, aches and pains, lack of appetite or enthusiasm — without seeking medical care. Like Gary, they may try to ignore their birthdays to avoid a downward mood swing. Celebrations just aren’t in sync with their feelings. If you’re carrying around shame or guilt, feeling as if you don’t deserve gifts or attention is natural. If you are deeply sad or angry, putting on a gracious face for friends, coworkers, or family might just seem phony, or a burden.

Depression can also produce agitation, marked by fear rather than sadness. As Alexandra Koster writes in her 2022 article titled “Yes, There’s a Reason Why You Cry on Your Birthday Every Year,” “When my birthday approached, I found myself feeling uneasy and perpetually nauseous. I couldn’t leave the house without a pit in my stomach, and you could practically feel the anxiety living it up in the back of my throat. The idea of planning a birthday event was panic-attack-inducing.”

Jim White, a retired lawyer, says he conquered his birthday blues by “consciously evoking the presence of family members who are dear to me.”

Recalling your childhood or teen birthdays may help you understand or soothe your adult birthday blues. Gary remembers that his mother made an effort to make his childhood birthdays fun. “They weren’t so great — but she tried,” he says.

Jim White’s birthday was only a day apart from his father’s. “I kept wondering why he hated me,” says White, a retired lawyer. His father had had a hard childhood, and, White believes, he may have resented his more fortunate son. The memory of feeling resented, White suspects, was one reason his own birthdays were tough for decades.

For many people, the risk of rejection is overwhelming. Some traumatic associations are obvious: the unexpected breakup or a car crash after a drinking party that has poisoned all birthdays for you. Others are subtle and half forgotten. Maybe you noticed that other kids got fancier presents and understood that your family’s finances were shaky.

But even without depression or trauma, resisting the idea that you’re older is common. We watch people age in ways that cause pain to themselves and others, and we don’t want to follow in those footsteps. If unwrinkled skin and a full head of hair are important to your self-esteem, then every birthday feels like proof you’re becoming less attractive. Like Gary, you might be disappointed in your progress, wishing things had gone differently.

Deaths are linked to birthday blues

White, who turned 76 in October, began to feel especially bad around his birthdays in his 30s, after his father-in-law died young. His own mortality loomed: “I just came closer and closer to what I knew would eventually be my death. This was upsetting to me,” he says, “It isn’t so much now.” He worried that he wouldn’t be alive to help his friends and family as tragedies came their way.

Honoring the memory of loved ones has helped him feel better about his own birthday. For years, he sent his mother spring bouquets on her birthday, often through 1-800 Flowers.com. When she died, the next year he sent his sister tulips on her birthday, and he has kept up the tradition ever since.

By his 60s, White lost his birthday blues. People just kept dying — and he stopped fighting the idea. Instead, he reached out in his mind to his late grandmother and mother. “What made me feel better was very consciously evoking the presence of family members who are dear to me,” he says. When he turned 65, he gave himself a grand bash at a beloved church and established a fund in his mother’s name.

What you can do

birthday blues woman admiring flowers on bed

If you know someone who struggles with the birthday blues, you can show you care by remembering quirks and indulging them in quiet ways. For instance, if your sister loves peach cobbler, bring her one with a single candle and let her eat it later, alone. Or send her a simple bouquet. The key is that she can enjoy it privately, on her own schedule.

White’s wife and children always arranged low-key family celebrations for him, and his sister reciprocated his gifts, sending him autumnal arrangements. “Oh, they were wonderful,” he says. “They did make me feel better.” Eventually, she switched to sending him home-cooked hams, one of his favorite meals.

Ask about birthday memories, and let your friends and family tell you about the awful ones. If you’ve had your own bad birthdays, you can share that too. One option is to recognize a birthday, without too much fanfare, at another time. For example, you could arrange theater tickets on a date a month before or after a birthday and tell the recipient casually at the theater that the ticket is your birthday gift.

If you’re struggling with your own birthday, try to be proactive. Pull out a journal and write about why you’re feeling down, King suggests. But don’t use your journal as a way to beat yourself up. Instead, put your feelings into perspective with phrases like “Anyone would feel bad if…” Writing about emotional pain works best if you practice self-compassion. Also consider booking yourself a manicure or buying yourself a small treat, just in case it helps. And go ahead — tell friends that birthdays are difficult for you.

Birthday blues, on their own, are not an immediate cause for concern. They could, however, be a sign of a “deeper psychological issue,” including clinical depression, King notes. Along with feelings of “hopelessness, worthlessness, and despair,” the danger signs include an unrelenting low mood that lasts more than two weeks, with disrupted sleep and eating patterns. Any of these are cues to seek help.

Birthdays aren’t happy occasions for all of us. They can be painful reminders of the swiftly passing years, and can act as triggers for memories we’d rather forget. Remember that the next time yours, or that of someone you care about, rolls around, and to be kind to yourself, and others.

50 Messages to Write in Mom’s Birthday Card

She bandaged your wounds, read you bedtime stories, and helped mend your broken heart more than once. She was always ready with words of praise and encouragement — and she never let you leave the house hungry.

happy birthday mom quotes mom reading card from daughter

Few people deserve unconditional love and respect more than our mothers, and every day we have with ours is a blessing and a gift. And while moms from coast to coast are honored every May on Mother’s Day, no occasion is better suited to celebrate the beautiful uniqueness of our own mom than her birthday.

It’s easy enough to grab a card and hastily scribble a note like “Love always” or “With love” inside. It takes only a few extra minutes, however, to personalize your message — and it can make all the difference to her.

“Write a few words that let her know what an impact she has made on your life,” says Diane Gottsman, national etiquette expert and founder of The Protocol School of Texas. “Mothers want to know that they are thought of and remembered. A message from the heart is always special, especially when it holds.”

And what to do if you accidentally forget mom’s big day? “Don’t hesitate to call immediately,” Gottsman says. “Send flowers or a special treat and make plans for something in the immediate future.”

Happy birthday mom quotes and wishes

Ready to crush it this year for mom’s birthday? Check out our list of heartfelt, inspirational, and fun birthday wishes. Copy one verbatim (don’t worry, your secret’s safe with us!), mix and match more than one, or let them to inspire you to write your own special message. Whatever you choose, you’ll be waxing eloquent in no time — and you’ll never be at a loss for the right words again.

Heartfelt birthday wishes for mom

The world is a better place because you are in it, and my world is brighter because of you. Happy birthday!
Thank you for your support and unconditional love, Mom. I am so lucky to have you as a mother and a friend.
You always worked hard for our family, never missed a game or an event, were patient, kind, and fair, and, above all, loved without condition. We appreciate you so much! Happiest of birthdays to the best mom ever.
You’ve never been more beautiful than you are right now. Happy birthday!
Wishing the most wonderful mother the most wonderful birthday…and many, many more!
Our relationship hasn’t always been easy, but you’ve always been there for me with unconditional love, and I will always be grateful. Happy birthday! With love, always.
We voted, and it’s unanimous: You’re the world’s best mom. Happy birthday! Love, Your Kids.
Thank you for always accepting me just as I am. You’ve given me the courage and strength to live my truth. I love you, Mom. Happy birthday!
In a world that can be dark and scary, you are a beacon of light in my life. I hope you have the happiest birthday ever!
The warmth of the sun cannot compare to the love I feel in your embrace. I love you, Mom! Happy, happy birthday.

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Quotes about the wisdom of mothers

“We are born of love; love is our mother.” – Rumi
“The best place to cry is on a mother’s arms.” – Jodi Picoult
“When you look into your mother’s eyes, you know that is the purest love you can find on this earth.” – Mitch Albom
“A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.” – Diana, Princess of Wales
“The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.” – Honoré de Balzac
“It may be possible to gild pure gold, but who can make his mother more beautiful? – Mahatma Gandhi
“All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” – Abraham Lincoln
“Life began with waking up and loving my mother’s face.” – George Eliot
“Mothers are like glue. Even when you can’t see them, they’re still holding the family together.” –Susan Gale
“Mother is one to whom you hurry when you are troubled.” – Emily Dickinson

Cheeky birthday wishes for mom

Roses are red, violets are purple, every year that goes by, adds more shine to your sparkle. (Yes, I know that purple and sparkle don’t rhyme exactly, but I hope I get an A for effort!) Happy birthday!
Like a stinky cheese, you only get better with age. Or is it wine that gets better with age? I can never keep it straight. Either way, wine and cheese are great — just like you! Happy birthday!
You’re so special and so pretty / You’re lots of fun and kind of witty / On top of that, I’d like to say: / You’re the best Mom ever / Happy birthday!
You’re one in a million. Wait, make that one in a billion! Hold on, let’s make it one in a trillion! Come to think of it, I can’t come up with a value high enough. To me, you’re simply priceless. Happy birthday!
You have the face of an angel, the intelligence of a genius, and a personality that lights up every room. No wonder I’m so awesome! Happy birthday from your chip off the old block!

Birthday gift ideas for mom

Once you figure out what to write in mom’s birthday card, it’s time to decide what kind of gift to get her. Here are three ideas that any mom would love to receive on her special day.

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Belated birthday wishes for mom

I got so caught up in my world that I forgot to remember your birthday — and then I remembered I forgot it. I’m so sorry! I hope you had a wonderful day.
After [insert sender’s age] years on earth, you’d think I could commit your birthday to memory. I’m sorry for forgetting. Happy belated birthday!
Aren’t birthdays good all month? My apologies for missing your special day. Happy birthday!
A little bird told me it’s your birthday. Unfortunately, that bird took the scenic route delivering the message. I’m so sorry I missed it! Love you always. Happy birthday!

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Short and sweet birthday wishes for mom

Thank you for being you, Mom. Happy birthday!
Happy birthday to the queen of my heart. I love you!
You are the most caring person I’ve ever known. I love you, Mom.
I’m forever grateful you’re my mom. Happy birthday!
I love you more with every passing year. Wishing you the happiest birthday ever!
Happy, happy, happy, happy birthday! (That’s one “happy” per decade.) Love you!
Congratulations on another trip around the sun and wishing you many more orbits!

Birthday wishes for mom from son

Thank you for always being a shoulder to lean on. I might not say it enough, but I love you from the bottom of my heart. Happy birthday!
You’ve always said that your greatest joy in life is to do things for your kids. So, in honor of your birthday, I thought I’d treat you to an evening of cooking my favorite meal and doing my laundry — you deserve a night filled with joy! Happy birthday!
Thank you for always believing in me — even when I didn’t believe in myself. You are the best mother a son could ask for.
Without you, I wouldn’t be the man I am…smart, stylish, and incredibly handsome (oh, and humble, too)! Happy birthday!
Mom, you are still my favorite person. (I wonder if that’s why I’m still single?! Oh, well.) Happy birthday!

Birthday wishes for mom from daughter

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Now that I’m a mother, I understand so much more. I hope to be half as good a mom to my little one as you were to me. Happy Birthday!
From the depths of my heart, thank you for your guidance, wisdom, and unconditional love. I couldn’t have made it in this world without you. Happy, happy birthday!
Happy birthday to my best friend. I love you so much. Thank you for always having my back — and for bringing the good wine!
I am truly fortunate that you are my mother. I hope you have a wonderful birthday, and I look forward to celebrating it with you (with chocolate, of course)! All my love.
If I could go into the past and change anything about our relationship, I would change…nothing at all. You mean the world to me, and I love you with all my heart. Happy birthday!

“Just like a mom to me” birthday wishes

Thank you for your care, support, and love throughout the years. I’m so happy you’re in my life. Happy birthday!
To the coolest “Mom” in the world. I love you to infinity! Happy birthday!
Thank you for being a loving and positive role model in my life. Wishing you the happiest birthday ever!
Happy birthday to the best therapist I’ve never had to pay! I love you!

5 Paw-some Tips to Make Your Dog’s Next Birthday Party the Best Yet

Birthdays come around only once a year. And, just like humans, dogs deserve to have their birthdays acknowledged and celebrated. After all, who doesn’t want another happy occasion to celebrate, and who doesn’t like delicious cake?!

While some people might find celebrating a dog’s birthday strange, believe us when we say, it’s not! Your furry friend is an important part of your family, and he should be treated as such.

Whether you decide to celebrate your dog’s Gotcha Day or birthday, here are five paw-some suggestions to ensure your dog’s next birthday party is his best one yet.

1. Choose a “paw-ty” theme and run with it

Like every good birthday party, your dog’s b-day bash should have a theme. These can range from simple and classy to extravagant and over the top. Ideas include a summer luau bash, carnival party, Hollywood superstars shindig, or even a decade-themed celebration.

The best way to pick a theme is to think about your dog’s personality, as well as the guests you are considering inviting, and select one based on those factors. Regardless of what you opt for, make sure you go all the way with it!

2. Spice up the presentation

When it comes to planning a party, presentation is everything. Based on the theme you settle on for your pooch’s blowout, you can choose how to decorate your space. You can also choose a color scheme and use that for your party supplies, including tableware, balloons, streamers, party favors, and more. Some party supply and pet stores (and, ahem, certain online retailers) even have pet-themed plates, napkins, and banners. If you’re a DIYer, let your creative juices flow and make your own personal banners and signs in honor of your furry friend. And, of course, pet-themed floral arrangements add a splash of color and fun to any space.

3. Set up a doggy photo booth

Lights, camera, action! Nothing says making memories like taking pictures. Setting up a doggy photo booth is the best way to snap some unforgettable moments from your pooch’s special day.

One way to do this is to make your own backdrop, provide some props, and set a custom hashtag for when your guests want to post about your event on social media. You can coordinate this with your party’s theme, or keep things simple and low fuss with a more basic design.

4. Make the human experience just as fun

While the event will be centered on the adorable pups, you have to make sure keep their owners entertained too. That means making sure ALL attendees are well fed and amply hydrated, and have plenty to do.

dog birthday party with people having fun

Whip up some dog-themed party foods, such as like mini hot dogs and sandwiches cut in bone shapes. Of course, you can never go wrong with crackers, dips, and veggie platters, or a classic meat and cheese spread. For dessert, dog treats for the canines and cookies for the humans will do the trick — and, what do you know, you can get them both in one convenient package.

Regarding activities, feature pet-themed party games for your guests to play. A limbo contest, musical chairs, and a scavenger hunt are just a few that humans and dogs alike can participate in.

5. Buy your dog a present, or five

What dog birthday is complete without goodies for your furry friends?! Sure, your dog probably has a ton of toys already, but providing him with new things to play with will keep him occupied and happy for hours — and treating your dog to a new present has benefits to you too. Squeaky toys, hats, and bandanas are just a few items that would make the perfect gift for your guest of honor — and, what do you know, you can get all three in one convenient package.

Golden Birthday Celebration Ideas: How to Make the Most of This Magical, Once-in-a-lifetime Day

Golden birthdays are a unique milestone in everyone’s life, but they’ve only recently taken on party-worthy status. If golden birthdays have been filling up your social feed and you’re curious to learn what the buzz is about, this fully gilded guide will teach you everything you need to know about these monumental moments.

golden birthday table decorations — *Photo courtesy of Kelly Willis Rodgers*

What is a golden birthday?

What even is a golden birthday, you might ask. Good question! Simply put, it is when your birthday date matches your age. For instance, if your birthday is Feb. 21, your golden birthday is the day you turn 21. If your birthday is May 15, then your 15th birthday is your golden birthday. Pretty simple, right?

If your birthday falls at the beginning of the month, you’ll have to ask your parents if they celebrated your golden birthday, since you probably would have been too young to remember it. As you can see, golden birthdays are limited to the 31-and-under crowd. But even if you’re older than that, you can still get in on the golden fun — you just have to get a little creative with it.

What’s the backstory on golden birthdays?

Although golden birthdays have recently become a social media trend and parties seem to be popping up all over the place, the concept of golden birthdays actually dates back decades. Back in the 1950s, before Instagram influencers set the tone for trendy parties, romance novelist and mom Joan Bramsch started celebrating the golden birthdays of her five kids.

In the decades that followed, the appeal of this festivity fizzled to the point that many of us never enjoyed a golden birthday party of our own. But, like so many reasons to host a special party (gender reveals and cake smashes and alt bashes), social media has brought the concept into prominence.

Why celebrate a golden birthday?

Every birthday offers a great reason to celebrate and honor someone special in your life, and a golden birthday year is no different. The best reason to make a golden birthday special is that it’s a day that happens only once in someone’s lifetime. Plus, who doesn’t love being awash in golden balloons and decorations, and hopefully getting an extra piece of birthday cake for the occasion?!

For kids, when every birthday already feels like a big milestone, adding in a golden birthday aspect is easy, says party planner Jane Sheriff, creative director of Darling Celebrations and a mom of three. When you get a little older, and birthdays tend to take on less significance, the act of recognizing the uniqueness of the day can make the occasion feel a bit more momentous. “For adults, a golden birthday is the opportunity to throw a big celebration in a year they might not otherwise really celebrate,” she says. And that’s reason enough to embrace the golden glory of this special year.

Glowing party ideas

Making a golden birthday extra special is easy — you just need to add a few dazzling touches. Sheriff says to think gold and sparkly. That’s what mom Kelly Willis Rodgers of Nashville, Tennessee, did for her daughter Poppy’s golden (seventh) birthday. Pairing white and pastels with gold touches, she went with gold mini disco balls throughout the tablescapes along with starburst balloons and plenty of gold tinsel for the “Golden Girl” party theme.

“Balloons, banners, streamers, and tableware are all good, cost-effective ways to bring the gold theme to life,” Sheriff says. You can quickly gild your party space with gold touches, from party plates and napkins to tablecloth and utensils. “A gold balloon arch makes a great statement piece,” Sheriff says. You can also make a big impression with a golden balloon drop, which would be especially memorable at a golden birthday surprise party for an unsuspecting guest of honor.

golden birthday balloon decorations — Photo courtesy of Kelly Willis Rodgers

Fun golden birthday activities

Enhance the gold theme of any party with a round of trivia in which all the questions and answers relate to something gold. With regard to music, compile a playlist of all “gold” songs (think “24K Magic“). Ask guests to dress in gold attire from head to toe and pile on as much bling as they can. Sheriff says she recently celebrated a family friend’s golden (18th) birthday with a gold-themed dance party. “We asked all the guests to wear gold. We had a gold dance floor and a gold glitter ball.”

Here are four other ideas for dazzling golden birthday party activities.

1. Golden treasure hunt

Hide gold items or use clues with a golden theme to add a fun, physical activity to either an indoor or outdoor party setting. Prizes, of course, can be made “golden” by simply wrapping them in gold foil.

2. DIY golden crafts

Keep with the gleaming theme by offering guests glittering craft projects, such as painting gold picture frames, making “gold” jewelry, or covering cardboard trinket boxes in gold foil for a chic look.

3. Make your own photo booth

Set up a ring light tripod with a phone and outfit guests with plenty of gold-themed props, from oversized gold “jewelry” to giant faux gold bars.

4. Go for the gold

Give young party guests with plenty of energy the chance to compete in a mini version of the Olympics. Everyone gets a gold medal for participating!

Golden delicious party fare

From golden beets and butternut squash to yellow curry and golden honey cakes, menu options that match a gold theme abound. And what party is complete without a scrumptious dessert bar? Fancy it up by using edible gold dust or spray to give a glow to cupcakes, cookies, and donuts. For grown-ups, a champagne toast will add the necessary touch of glam a golden birthday deserves.

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All that glitters: A special golden birthday cake

One of the best ways to enhance the spirit of the celebration, Sheriff says, is with a gorgeous golden birthday cake. “Go for a tiered or layered cake for a special birthday like a golden birthday. You can decorate with gold leaf or edible glitter, or add gold food coloring to your icing to make something really special.”

Many bakeries now offer golden birthday cakes, such as So Sweet Cakes in Northridge, California. This one (pictured above) is fit for a king or queen, complete with gold bars, gold roses, and, of course, the number cake topper all decked out in gold.

Gracious gift ideas

“If your budget allows, then the perfect golden birthday gift would be solid gold jewelry!” Sheriff exclaims. “A gold initial necklace or gold bracelet are both great ideas, or anything that the recipient could keep as a keepsake gift would be a good choice.” For any lover of chocolate, the classic gold ballotin box of Godiva chocolates matches the theme perfectly. And don’t forget to wrap your gift in gold wrapping paper, Sheriff reminds.

Miss your golden birthday? Try these glowing milestones instead

If you’re like most of us, you’re probably bummed that you missed out on your golden birthday. But take heart…you have options! Check out these three variations on the golden birthday.

1. Double golden birthday

Double the date of your birthday and you’ll have the age when you’re ready to celebrate. Example: For a March 20 birthday, celebrate when you turn 40.

2. Triple golden birthday

Same math applies here as with a double golden birthday. Just multiply your birthdate by three and you’ll know when it’s triple golden birthday time.

3. Platinum birthday

Think of this as the reverse of your golden birthday. It’s the birthday that corresponds to the date you were born, only inverted. Example: Your birthday is June 24, so your platinum birthday is held when you turn 42.

6 Steps to Throwing an Easy — and Unforgettable — Birthday Dinner Party

Hosting a birthday dinner party at home is a great way to show a loved one how much you care. While entertaining friends and family can be incredibly enjoyable and rewarding, hosting can also be a bit stressful, especially if it’s for an extra special occasion, such as a milestone birthday.

As host, having to plan all the décor and food options for the big night can feel overwhelming. If you’re ever in this situation, remember: Your No. 1 goal to make sure your guests have fun and enjoy the company, and the guest of honor feels properly feted.

With that in mind, here are six tips for hosting an elegant birthday dinner party without the stress.

1. Prepare early

Invite your guests at least two weeks in advance. Make sure to pin down those “maybe” responses and check on dietary restrictions so you know how many people you need to prepare for and whether you need to make any extra accommodations. Check that you have enough dishware to go around and order any supplies you may need ahead of time.

If ordering products online, confirm shipping dates so everything arrives in time for the party. If you need to pick anything up, get it the day before. Do a deep cleaning the night before too, especially in areas where guests will congregate. In short, getting as much done as you can ahead of time will reduce stress on the day of the event.

2. Set the mood with a well-themed table

Creating a tablescape makes an at-home birthday feel even more special. You don’t have to go crazy: An elegant, blush-toned palette with floral details will set a sophisticated and luxurious mood. Flowers are a great centerpiece, or you could even use succulents (which can double as a take-home gift at the end of the night!).

Keep the interests of the birthday boy or girl, and the time of year of the party, in mind when decorating. For instance, if he or she likes rabbits and plants, pick up porcelain bunnies and cute succulents to decorate. If the event is in the spring, use pink and purple roses for accents, and set it all on a white tablecloth. It creates a lively spring atmosphere!

3. Coordinate a playlist

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Make sure the playlist matches the mood for the night. Choose low-tempo, mellow tunes so the music doesn’t interrupt the conversations. A playlist consisting of a well-curated blend of contemporary and soulful tracks is perfect for background ambiance. If you’re feeling especially creative, try building your own playlist with your guest of honor’s favorite songs.

4. Keep the food simple

For a truly stress-free night, have the dinner catered. Instead of doing all the cooking yourself, just order and heat up tortellini with spinach and sun-dried tomatoes. Pair it with a fresh side or radish salad for a well-rounded offering.

For after dinner, a cheesecake party wheel lets your guests enjoy four varieties of a classic dessert. Another slightly more whimsical — but no less decadent — option are cheesecake pops.

To snack on either before or after dinner, set out cheese and fresh fruit. Or bring a touch of elegance to the proceedings with a platter of hot hors d’eurves.

5. Consider wine and food pairings

Wine is a classy touch for birthdays and is easy to pair with most food options (and it allows for toasts!). Ellen Sorensen, merchandising manager for wine at Harry & David, suggests pairing the tortellini with chardonnay, and the salad and fruit with sauvignon blanc. Sparkling wine is the perfect match for the cheesecake dessert, since “the bubble will cut through the richness,” Sorensen says.

Not everyone drinks the same thing, though. Offering a few wine options, along with some non-alcoholic choices like sparkling juices or creative mocktails, shows you’ve gone the extra mile in customizing the night.

6. Plan after-dinner activities

Even though so much work is put into the meal, dinner usually lasts only about 30 minutes. Once everyone’s finished, leave the plates and suggest a move to a new room.

If the weather is nice, take the party outside for some casual after-dinner drinks and merriment. Or keep guests entertained by suggesting playing a board game, singing karaoke, or going on a walk through your neighborhood.

Best Birthday Gifts for Leo

Known best for their generosity, Leos are fabulous gift-givers who are always quick to share their open hearts and giving natures. With a flair for the dramatic, a tendency to be flashy, and an inventive spirit that can’t be tamed, these signs — aptly represented by a lion and two halves of a heart — can be tough to shop for.

The trick is getting to know what makes a Leo tick and then using that knowledge to find the perfect present, says Lisa Stardust, New York City-based astrologist and bestselling author.

What to know about Leos

Leo (July 22-August 22) is the fifth sign of the zodiac, following the water sign Cancer. As fixed fire signs, Leos are known for their passionate determination, Stardust says. “Leos are not going to change their mind about something once they’ve set it,” she says. “But as a fire sign, they’re the manifestation, or spark, of inspiration. They start things, and they get things done.”

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Leos are also identified with having extravagant tastes, Stardust says. “They’re represented by lions — the kings of the jungle — so they know they’re powerful, but they’re also honest, creative, and have big hearts.”

The planetary ruler of Leos is the sun — a symbol of vitality, Stardust says. True to their summertime sign, Leos like to live life to the fullest.

“On good days, Leos love to be in the sunlight, have a great time, and be open and transparent with their loved ones,” she says. “But it’s important to remember the duality of the signs: Lions might love the sun, but they still sleep in caves.”

Best birthday gifts for Leos

Whether it’s their love of bold colors, wild shocks of hair (common for these lion-represented signs), or their relationships, Leos love to make a statement. Gifting them something that plays into that proclivity, such as satin pillowcases and sheets, cat-eye sunglasses, or even gold jewelry, is a smart way to go, Stardust says.

“Leos are known for liking things that are over the top,” she says. “Something bold — bright colors, strong perfumes — will be a good choice for Leos.”

Stardust says that Leos will also appreciate gifts for their hair. “Like lions, Leos usually have a beautiful mane, so hair-related products will likely go over well.”

Consider hair bows, hair brushes, headband sets, scalp masks, conditioners, hair oils, and anything else a Leo can use to keep their locks looking lovely.

Go-to birthday gifts for Leos

Armed with what we know, there’s no shortage of presents that the Leo in your life will like. Here are five types of birthday gifts for Leos.

Something that grows

The Leo’s flower is, not surprisingly, the sunflower, and you cannot go wrong with a bouquet of these beauties.

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Other gold options, such as yellow mums, are a safe bet, too.

Something for the sun

Leos love their moment in the sun — metaphorically and literally — so gifting them something they can enjoy during the summer is usually a winner, Stardust says.

“When I picture a Leo, I see them standing in the sun with the breeze blowing in their hair,” she says. Things like sun hats, beach tents, beach towels, beach bags, and other such gifts are all great options.

Something gold and flashy

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“Leos love gold — the color and the jewelry,” Stardust says. “It doesn’t matter if it’s not real gold, either.” Additionally, Leos will love pendants with the sun on them to represent their planetary ruler.

Within the jewelry realm, consider everything from earrings and cufflinks to rings, necklaces, and bracelets.

And while the jewelry you gift a Leo doesn’t necessarily have to be gold, it should lean toward the more gaudy, Stardust says.

Something to spark creativity

With their tendency to be outside-the-box thinkers, Leos often take up artistic pursuits, so any gift related to music, painting, drawing, acting, and art should be a hit. Stardust says that Leos are likely to enjoy things like drawing materials, painting sets, art (or art classes), or even a karaoke machine (they love to entertain, after all).

Something for their heart

Each zodiac sign is said to rule specific parts of the body. For Leos, one of those parts is the heart, and because of that, Leos tend to be romantic, generous, and dedicated friends and lovers.

Stardust says, “Consider getting them something romantic, like poetry books. They might also like heart-shaped jewelry or a heart pin.”

For more astrological birthday gifting inspiration, check out our other zodiac gift guides:
Gifts for Virgo
Gifts for Libra
Gifts for Scorpio
Gifts for Sagittarius
Gifts for Capricorn
Gifts for Aquarius
Gifts for Pisces
Gifts for Aries
Gifts for Taurus
Gifts for Gemini
Gifts for Cancer