Jonathan Rowe, Author at 1800Flowers Petal Talk

18 Unique Mother’s Day Gift Ideas for Moms & Grandmas

Moms are one of life’s greatest gifts who would probably cherish just about any present a loved one gave them for Mother’s Day. But we owe it to our moms to go the extra mile and find the type of gift that not only shows our love and appreciation for them but makes it clear we didn’t just close our eyes and grab something.

To help you put your thoughtfulness on full display, we recruited two mothers from two different generations (and who may just happen to be related to the author) to provide some valuable and caring insider advice on the type of unique Mother’s Day gift ideas the moms in your life would treasure, and remember always.

Mom No. 1: Lindsay

Lindsay, 43, has two children, a 14-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son, and works in marketing and advertising. She is owner of a craft brewery taproom and enjoys listening to live country music with her husband. An experienced marathon runner, she is also a dog mom of two adventurous Goldendoodles.

1. Home Tweet Home Birdhouse

unique mothers day gift ideas Home Tweet Home Birdhouse

“This is so fun and a really sweet, unexpected gift idea. Look at that mini heart wreath and those little flowers in the window boxes! This would easily be the best birdhouse on our block. It’s so full of life and will remind me of my kids, and our family’s home, every time I see a bird visit it.”

2. My Pawfect Pet

unique mothers day gift ideas My Pawfect Pet

“I’ve always loved succulents because they look nice alongside anything, make perfect office decor, and are easy to keep alive — which is a must for me! But what makes this selection a real gem is the cute little dog planter. My daughter and I have such fun with our dogs, and the matching frame personalizes it even further.”

3. Pink Butterfly Ranunculus Bouquet

unique mothers day gift ideas Pink Butterfly Ranunculus Bouquet

“Being a rare flower sets it apart to begin with, and that apothecary jar is no normal vase. Plus, the story behind them in the details section — they were grown in Southern California under coastal sunshine — that’s some special stuff! I’d always be thinking of that when I looked at them.”

4. Magnificent Roses Preserved Vintage Rose Medley

unique mothers day gift ideas Magnificent Roses Preserved Vintage Rose Medley

“I’ve always been interested in preserved roses but wasn’t just going to go and buy them for myself. Given how long they last, you could even write a card about loving your mom forever, or maybe wanting her to enjoy the roses all year around, just like you enjoy her company.”

5. Spring Sunshine Hydrangea Bouquet

unique mothers day gift ideas Spring Sunshine Hydrangea Bouquet

“Another batch of uncommon flowers, this is a really impressive arrangement. I love the muted pinks and pops of yellow. The description says the Peruvian lilies arrive in bud form and bloom over a few days — it’s like a beautiful surprise gift that gives every day!”

6. Fleur de Chocolate Belgian Chocolate Roses – Classic Milk & White

unique mothers day gift ideas Belgian Chocolate Roses

“I’ve really never seen anything like this! The roses look so realistic, I’d almost feel bad eating them. That’s OK, I’ll just ration them out — I can’t resist white chocolate anything. And that gold hatbox will definitely be getting put to use again.”

7. A-Dog-Able in a Basket

unique mothers day gift ideas a DOG able in a Basket

“This is such an imaginative bouquet, so adorable, and reminds me of our Goldendoodles. The spring colors are perfect, and the simplicity of the wicker basket boosts the natural feel. I’d be showing this to all the dog parents who came over, while making sure to keep it well out of our real dogs’ reach!”

8. Candier scented candles

unique mothers day gift ideas who run the world moms candle

“So much more fun than your basic scented candles! The slogans and captions are really neat. ‘Who Run the World? Moms!’ is the obvious one, but because of the fun colors and mix-ins, I’d pick ‘Donut Worry, Be Happy’ and ‘Go Shawty, It’s Your Birthday.’ (I do love me some 50 Cent!)”

9. Mother’s Day Blossom & Butterfly Surprise Box

unique mothers day gift ideas Mothers Day Blossom Butterfly Surprise Box

“This takes strawberry shortcake — which is my fave, by the way — to a whole new level. The ‘Flying Butterfly Surprise Flower Shower’ presentation they show here looks amazing! So cool. I would never forget this one, and my kids would have a ball watching me open this.”

Mom No. 2: Linda

Linda, 75, has three children in their 40s and five grandchildren under 14. After a 35-year career as a high school English teacher, she enjoys family beach vacations on the Jersey Shore, personal fitness and aerobics, traveling with her husband, and walks in the park with their Golden Retriever, Buddy.

10. To My Precious Grandma Necklace

unique mothers day gift ideas To My Precious Grandma Necklace

“I love the symbolism of the circle of life in this necklace and how it represents the bonds between me, my daughter, and my grandchild. The rose gold ring edition strikes me as a bit more unique than the standard gold or silver; the glow reminds me of a heart.”

11. For Grandma Personalized Wind Chimes

unique mothers day gift ideas For Grandma Personalized Wind Chimes

“What a thoughtful addition to my garden! These wind chimes would be a permanent reminder of the special love between a grandma and her grandchild, and with such a pleasing sound, just like a child’s voice. They come with a stand as well, so they wouldn’t just be stuck in one tree, which is different from our current chimes.”

12. Honey Almond Leopard Spa Gift Set

unique mothers day gift ideas Honey Almond Leopard Spa Basket

“Moms and grandmas work double duty. We love it, but we do get tired, and this spa gift set is the perfect pampering present! I love the rich black-and-gold leopard print, and especially the travel mug with my own permanent straw.”

13. Fields of Europe for Spring with Strawberries

unique mothers day gift ideas Fields of Europe for Spring With Strawberries

“This flowers-and-candy combination solves the dilemma of which would I like more for Mother’s Day. And you can’t beat chocolate covered strawberries! The bouquet is really not like most; it’s based on the ones in European flower markets, which reminds me of visiting my grandparents in England as a child.”

14. Family Connections Personalized Bracelet

unique mothers day gift ideas Family Connections Personalized Bracelet

“This is not just an elegant piece of jewelry — it’s a conversation starter! What proud mother or grandmother would pass up the opportunity to talk about her loved ones? I’m wearing this one at social functions so I can do that all night.”

15. Foldable Splatter Guard

unique mothers day gift ideas Foldable Splatter Guard

“It’s tough to cook some of my best recipes while keeping the oven top free of grease. Being able to lift this one side at a time is such a great idea! It makes a perfect present because I probably wouldn’t buy it for myself, but I certainly could use it.”

16. Parlor Ice Cream Mixing Set

unique mothers day gift ideas Parlor Ice Cream Mixing Set

“I’m a fan of ice cream toppings just as much as ice cream flavors, and I’d enjoy using this to create new recipes with the whole family. I know the grandkids would come up with some interesting mix-in ideas! It would be such a fun activity to enjoy with them.”

17. You Are My Sunshine Brownie Box

unique mothers day gift ideas You Are My Sunshine Brownie Box

“Being the light of someone’s life is such a compliment, and the title of this gift was my favorite children’s song as a young mother. And those flavors! The kids can try a bite (except for the red velvet), but this is staying on the top shelf. The sun is so adorable, it’ll probably be the last thing to be eaten.”

18. Aromatherapy Gift Set Lavender Meadows

unique mothers day gift ideas Aromatherapy Gift Set Lavender Meadows

“Lavender is such a relaxing scent, and this is more than just candles and smells — all the purple makes for great spring decoration. And I could see myself displaying the lilacs from our garden in the heart jar.”

The Best Valentine’s Gifts for Every Man in Your Life

Coming up with thoughtful and meaningful Valentine’s gift ideas that really connect with a man can feel next to impossible. Men don’t tend to be as receptive to simple romantic gift gestures (i.e., the “flowers and chocolates approach”) as most women are, and their tastes can be all over the map — tech, sports, fashion, gaming, and the outdoors, often all at once.

Shopping for someone with interests this broad may appear easy, but varied tastes can actually complicate the process. Determining which interests are true to their heart and which are simply time-passers can be tough, as men aren’t always great at opening up — and that even includes discussing their personal passions.

Identifying a present that will hit close to your guy’s heart takes some real detective work. But with some insider guidance — we’ve been in this business quite a while, you know — we’re happy to share some tips on V-Day shopping for your favorite fella that will significantly ease your shopping quest.

Don’t be afraid to ask

Men, in general, are hesitant to ask their romantic companion for a Valentine’s wish list, fearing it projects a lack of connection, but when it comes to being asked themselves, most couldn’t care less. For a guy with especially niche hobbies or likes, the question alone may feel like a present! Try inquiring about his favorite author or musician that you know the least about, and then hunt down one of their rarest works. For bonus points, do it with him.

Seek suggestions online

If glancing at his media collection doesn’t turn up any ideas, find an online community or social media forum related to a hobby of his, and issue an open call for Valentine’s gift ideas from like-minded enthusiasts. This approach can unearth some hidden gem gifts that can really make a guy feel understood and appreciated. Try the same with clothing, food, or beverage interest forums.

valentines gifts for him couple baking together

Sentimental plus practical

Try seeking a gift your man will use often and that will remind him of you every time he brings it out. Whether a personalized tool for an activity he frequently does or an accessory relating to a favorite pursuit, an item of emotional significance with a functional purpose can become a long-lasting symbol of your love.

Activities & experiences

Participating in a new activity that aligns with his passions is a means of experiencing your special bond in a fresh way. While there’s certainly nothing wrong with repeating past experiences you both love, choosing to arrange one involving an unexplored interest of his — Does he like to cook? Do it together! — or a new destination he’s mentioned reads as especially considerate.

10 Valentine’s gift ideas for him

We just dropped a lot of wisdom on you, and you’re free to go off and use it to find a gift on your own. But if you prefer to have your hand held just a little longer, we have 10 Valentine’s gift ideas that should satisfy men with all types of tastes.

The Wine, Cheese, and Golf Chap

valentines gifts for him Golf Cheese Cutting Board and Tools Set

Equally suited for a classy kitchen or 19^th-hole man cave, this golfer’s dream bamboo cutting board is far better than par for the course. Shaped as a putting green, with high-toned woodgrain accents, this baby has the works: two swing-out drawers with wine and cheese tools (six included), a “sand trap” divot for nuts and olives, and a carved groove around the green’s perimeter to keep crumbs and juices at bay.

The Meditative Man

This juniper bonsai is one excellent evergreen, raised and trimmed to perfection by expert naturalist suppliers. A humidity tray base ensures the plant’s moisture levels stay even, while an illuminated water fountain ups the zen factor with a calming trickle sound. For the guy ready to try his own hand at raising one, this kit provides seeds to grow his very own Japanese maple.

The Meat Lover

valentines gifts for him Beef Jerky Flower Bouquet

A carnivore’s incarnation of a V-Day flowers gift, this bouquet is much more than mere meat sticks. Each “flower” is made of dried beef carefully cut into different shapes and textures — in other words, these are some real lookers. The beef blooms arrive in a double-walled steel pint glass, designed to keep beer cold while keeping hands dry.

The Whiskey Aficionado

valentines gifts for him Whiskey Box Gift Set

A rustic whiskey chest of modern vintage design, this piece is handsome and then some, handcrafted for heirloom quality. Outfitted with solid, dark oak planks and burnished brass hinges, it includes two lowball glasses, soapstone whiskey cubes (ice substitutes, to chill whiskey without watering it down), and matching coasters. A secure space provides room for one 750-milliliter bottle of whiskey.

The Wellness Fellow

valentines gifts for him Home Spa Kit For Men

Deep down, no guy is above a spa experience, especially when it involves staying home. This sandalwood and oak essentials bundle, designed to refresh the body and clear the mind, includes a luxury face wash and application brush, exfoliating bath soap, shower gel, rich bath salts, body lotion, and fresh skin mist. Just make sure you bathe first — he may be in there all day.

The Cookout King

valentines gifts for him Personalized BBQ Utensil Set

Generic grill tools may flip and serve steaks in a reasonable manner, but any real-deal meal-man needs keeper-quality, personalized tools for his top-notch grill. This four-piece set includes an 18-inch fork, spatula, and basting brush, and 14.5-inch chef’s tongs. The former is made with stainless, rust-resistant steel and cool-grip woodgrain handles featuring custom message engravings, available in a choice of six fonts.

The Brew Meister

valentines gifts for him American Pale Ale Beer Making Kit

For the beer lover in your life, a home-brew kit is the perfect mission — perhaps even for the two of you to undertake together. (Dreaming up your beer’s name and logo can be absurdly fun.) If brewing isn’t exactly your thing, it’s also great for him and his friends to undertake on a sports-watching day, as the process is a long one due to waits between steps. Oatmeal Stout, IPA, and Wheat kits are also available.

The Exotic Plant Fan

valentines gifts for him Cactus Dish Garden

Nestled in an unbreakable, terracotta-tint planter, this vivid assortment of simple-care plants is guaranteed to brighten any dude’s drab desk or office windowsill with southwestern desert vibes. A hardy mini-garden that can withstand a slightly uneven watering schedule, cacti and succulents also require no pruning — so no sweat if he’s no green thumb.

The Beach Baller

valentines gifts for him NFL Manta Portable Beach Tent

For comfort and privacy on the beach, umbrellas are done for — they provide uneven shade, and brisk winds can send them flying. This lightweight, pop-up tent features a light-yet-durable polyester shell with a 50+ UPF sun rating and mesh windows, over a no-pole frame with metal stake anchors. For the non-sand man, it’s just as useful while fishing, camping, or at a kid’s sporting event.

The Tailgate Gent

valentines gifts for him Wine Bottl Carrier Cooler Tote

While other fans struggle with hefting bulky plastic coolers, your man can pre-game in ease and style with this Thermoguard-insulated, waterproof, NFL beverage cart. A padded inner frame provides room for six wine bottles (feel free to stock it yourself) and can be removed to house smaller drinks. A ripstop exterior, pearlized foil top, all-terrain wheels, foldable for easy storage…we could go on, but the game’s starting.

9 Best Valentine’s Gifts for Every Kind of Woman

Setting out to find the right Valentine’s gift for that special lady in your life can be a challenging task, even for the most confident and suave significant other. Sure, we know it’s the thought that counts, but that adage can fall flat when the questions begin to pile up: What does she really want? What will my gift say about me, and what I think about her — and about us?

Factor in society’s idea of what a truly “romantic gift” is, and the mere thought of Valentine’s shopping can freeze you in your tracks. Fortunately, 1-800-Flowers.com has spent decades as a gift provider for couples around the world, and it’s come away with some solid, time-tested general advice regarding Valentine’s shopping — and we are more than happy to dispense it.

Communication is key

As the holiday approaches, feel free to slip in a question here and there regarding a gift. Doing so not only aids your shopping quest but displays a desire to get to know your partner even better. Stay extra receptive for Valentine’s gift ideas to be drawn from daily conversations, or even intentional hints being dropped. And for those who find this method of gifting not quite romantic enough, try including a highly personalized card or a little something extra to boost the heart of a requested gift.

Shared experiences

A mutually meaningful evening together is a sure win. Perhaps prepare a meal and then attend a concert or play — all while incorporating her favorites — or recreate your first date, keeping it all a surprise. This approach lessens the pressure to find that elusive “perfect gift,” as meaningful together time can create memories that long outlast physical items. It also averts any fear of cliché gifting, and works for those in all relationship stages, as the arranged experience can be as light or intense as you like.

If all else fails

For those still at a loss for Valentine’s gift ideas, fear not, for a timeless, one-size-fits-all solution exists — just reach for the roses! And even if you’ve already located that ideal item or experience, complementing your present with a surprise delivery of roses will score you some absolutely surefire bonus points.

The best Valentine’s gift ideas for her

Now that you’re armed with the general knowledge of how to pick a Valentine’s gift that will be loved and appreciated — just like your S.O. herself! — it’s time to get down to the business of selecting said gift. And, once again, we’re here to save your butt.

Here are nine types of women along with a gift she’s sure to adore.

The Beach House Sweetheart

valentines gifts for her Charcuterie Board

A vivid reminder of the warm weather that lies mere months away, this gorgeous, hand-painted seascape charcuterie board is a treasured add to the kitchen supplies of any valentine who loves to play hostess, especially at a beach house or condo. For the gal who enjoys vintage flair, there’s also a version with mermaid-shaped, patinaed metal handles.

The Breakfast Baker

valentines gifts for her Bagel Making Kit

The perfect V-Day morning kitchen quest for mom and the kids — or the bagel-loving couple who don’t mind getting their hands dirty — this end-to-end kit produces a dozen fresh bagels and a culinary dream batch of homemade cultured cream cheese (Do note that crafting the cheese requires an overnight wait, so if a Valentine’s breakfast is your target, gift and start your kit the night prior.) If the taste of “everything” is a little much, a Rainbow Bagel Kit dials down the zest while upping the visual pizazz.

The Plant Mom

valentines gifts for her Succulent Heart Garden

An appropriate gift for both a timeless love and blossoming relationship, this multi-hued selection of lush and lively succulents is as easy to care for as it is gorgeous. A few days late to water? They’ll make do, as succulents are like love itself: resilient, energetic, and, with just enough attention, colorful year-round. A textured resin heart planter and matching plaque both serve to sweeten the deal.

The Golden Gal

valentines gifts for her Golden Girls Cardboard Bouquet

Perhaps the only bouquet near as timeless as roses themselves, this arrangement of 12 red-dressed Betty Whites (pictured as her “Golden Girls” character Rose Nylund) provides an imaginative display of affection for your own special pop culture queen. Printed with fade resistant ink, on glossy, cushioned cardboard, the red-Betty bouquet can also prop up your passion for seasons to come. And relationship rookies, take note — this one isn’t over-the-top romantic.

The Mystic Hostess

valentines gifts for her Hamsa Dipping And Serving Set

This ceramic, hand-crafted tray features the hamsa shape, a symbol of universal positivity native to Middle Eastern and North African spiritual communities, and very popular among modern yoga practitioners. The heirloom-quality, fair-trade design, crafted by female artisans in Tunisia, houses six trays within one mesmerizing form: The five fingers and center palm trays are all removable, and equally perfect for serving snacks and quick bites, or storing jewelry and special keepsakes.

The Classic Belle

valentines gifts for her Long Stem Red Roses

One of those Valentine’s gift ideas that needs no introduction, long stem red roses are the essence of affection, and have been go-to gifts for ladies since the 17^th century. Available here in both a dozen and an 18 count, and accented with baby’s breath and other fresh greenery, these classic crimson beauties whisper elegance, sophistication, and grace like no other bloom. For those looking to scale up, magnificent 100-count bouquets are also available.

The Lasting Love

valentines gifts for her I Love You Magnificent Roses

As the quintessential symbol of everlasting love, roses, more so than any other plant, would seem destined to live forever — but, even with proper care, two weeks at the most is more like it (hey, that’s cellular biology for you). This Valentine’s, however, your lucky lady’s roses can last up to a year with this preserved rose arrangement shaped to express an unmistakable message — a daily testament to love’s enduring nature.

The Organic Darling

valentines gifts for her Journal Aromatherapy Set

Ideal for the beloved naturalist in your life, this soothing essential oil jewelry is a unique method of extended aromatherapy, packaged with a diary designed to encourage self-expression. The silver mesh bracelet holds an oval bead of burnished lava rock, which stores and subtly releases a light scent over the course of a day. All-natural lemongrass, cedarwood, and lavender oils are included.

The Elegant Epicure

valentines gifts for her Godiva Gift Basket

From the master chocolatiers at Godiva, this selection of luxurious fineries is a pinnacle piece for fans of the time-honored tradition of Valentine’s chocolate gifting. Its delectable gems include chocolate-covered truffles, caramels, pretzels, grahams, and more (in assorted dark and milk chocolate styles), as well as dark chocolate cocoa mix and truffle coffee. These decadent delights are all packaged in a classy copper gift basket perfect for kitchen display and storage.

13 Best Christmas Gifts for Teens for 2024

One of the toughest tasks for any adult during this busy holiday season — right up there with decorating that perfect Christmas tree while at the same time wrapping gifts and not burning those cookies — is shopping effectively for the teenagers in your life.

The tastes of a teen are a mystery to most adults, so to simplify your gifting quest we consulted Chassie Post, a television style correspondent on “Entertainment Tonight,” E!, and “Live with Regis & Kelly,” as well as an editorial stylist for Glamour and host of “Shop All Day,” a new program from the “TODAY” show.

Who knows, with a quick study of Post’s insider reports, a bit of imagination, and a few keen purchases, you yourself may even receive the priceless gift of the teens in your life viewing you as trendy.

The personal touch

“One big trend, really for girls and boys, is all things personalized,” Post shares. “I don’t know what it is, but all the teens’ rooms I walk into have their names in it. This sort of gift just always feels unique and thoughtful as well.”

christmas gifts for teens teen boy playing on phone in bedroom

Personalized gifts also allow the giver to include more details than just a birth name — a nickname, favorite color, writing styles that match certain personalities, or, depending on the size of the item, even short phrases. Personalized food gifts fit the bill as well, especially those that incorporate favorite themes and flavors.

TikTok trends

For the aspiring social media stars in your life, TikTok trends are always surefire wins. Don’t want to download the app to brainstorm? A simple web search can instantly provide results of trending TikTok video topics.

Post says exposing yourself to the TikTok universe may even land you a bonus gift idea for an adult in your life. “You know the scenario: You’re often really trying to rip the phone away from teens at dinner. And they’ll say, ‘Just look at this TikTok,’ and you’re like…’Oh, that’s actually really cool!'”

Beauty & fashion

“All things beauty are back,” says Post, noting it as one of the largest social media trends. “My teen niece, she and her friends talk about it all the time; they watch TikTok videos on it. Anything in that realm, you can’t lose, and you’ll definitely score some extra points if there’s a little sparkle involved.”

Though not cosmetic beauty based, Post also mentions that fashion-related gifts can be a winner with teen boys, as more young men are taking an interest in high-style athleisure products and jewelry.

The donut itself is a mega-trend. Donut T-shirts, donut-shaped pillows and pool floats…donuts are just everywhere.

chassie post

TV style correspondent, host, and lifestyle editor

Taylor Swift is easily one of the most recognized entertainers on the planet (who became somehow even more so this fall during her romance with one of the NFL’s biggest names), and Post says Swift-y gifts are sure shots. “Any gift that can even possibly, gently have anything to do with Taylor will just make a girl’s year.”

Try a Taylor poster, one of her current massive-selling album reissues, or, due to Swift’s proclivity for gleaming outfits and makeup, anything shiny and wearable, Post says.

Think outside the box

Gifts that include an element of surprise are big these days — in fact, Post notes, any teen gift cool factor jumps when a fun unboxing experience is included.

Also, gifts that demonstrate dry humor and involve seemingly random items, such as one certain universally loved pastry, are go-tos. “Cheeky gifts are great. I don’t know what it is, but the donut itself is a mega-trend. Donut T-shirts, donut-shaped pillows and pool floats…donuts are just everywhere.”

Specialty sweets

When in doubt, always aim for a teen’s sweet tooth, Post says — especially treats that involve unique textures and luxury elements. Cake pops, she says, fall squarely within this zone, as do macarons, cocoa bombs, and any type of treat that involves interactive-opening elements — which, surprise, are all more social media trends!

Christmas gifts for teen girls

Rose gold bath bombs

These bath bombs include a healthy dose of teen girl faves: beauty and skin care elements, sparkle and shine, all-around luxury vibes, and natural ingredients like vanilla, coconut, lavender, and jasmine.

Monarch butterfly keychain

This item, Post says, is distinctly reminiscent of Taylor Swift, an artist who has featured butterfly images in her album art for years on end. And bonus teen girl points for the keychain’s golden gleam!

christmas gifts for teens Wooden Phone Stand

Personalized wooden phone stand

This classy and durable alderwood phone stand — perfect for video chats or extended streaming sessions — features both a practical design that accommodates charging cords and heart-embossed personalization.

christmas gifts for teens Donut Worry Candle

Donut candle

With scents of fresh strawberry, cream, donut frosting, and vanilla layered in a one-of-a-kind design, this candle isn’t going stale any time soon. Post sees it as situated “nicely between the cheeky style and donut trend, which we’ve seen absolutely everywhere.”

Macarons

Macarons are one of the food world’s most high-end treats, perfect for any teen girl’s special holiday get-together with her closest friends. This pack of pastel-shaded French favorites features an assortment of 10 different fruit flavors, some featuring frosting.

Christmas gifts for teen boys

Chicken wing cake box

Chicken wings, a classic favorite guy food in the heat of any sports season, have never been this sweet. Post concurs, noting the confetti-burst box and unheard-of cake design shape as elements that would appeal to every teen boy on her Christmas gift list.

Stone bead stretch bracelet

Featuring a natural matte design that avoids excessive flash and a stretch band to fit all wrists, this sodalite and onyx bracelet is an entry-level jewelry piece that, Post says, “checks the box for the ‘cool guy’ category.”

christmas gifts for teens Sports Jersey Laptop Sleeve

Personalized sports jersey laptop sleeve

With a personalized jersey-style name space featuring varsity lettering and color combo choices to match those of their own school, the custom sports jersey laptop sleeve is a blowout victory for the teen athlete (and a perfect way to make sure that expensive laptop doesn’t get lost!).

christmas gifts for teens basketball and hoop

Roses basketball & mini hoop

Featuring a dark rose, sport-chic pattern that Post says embodies the athleisure trend so popular among teen guys, this hoop and ball made by round21 and designed by Canadian artist Craig White is an easy layup for the basement, bedroom, or garage.

Christmas gifts for all teens

Embroidered tech organizer

Tangled or lost cords and supplies are the bane of the teen tech world. This personalized neoprene organizer includes durable cord wraps, built-in charger harnesses, and an expandable side zip pouch.

christmas gifts for teens Sport Jersey Personalized Fleece Blanket

Sports jersey personalized blanket

For any teen athlete, or simply a sports fan with a favorite team or player, this personalized plush blanket with over 50 customizable color combos is a classic gifting victory sure to outlast any trend shifts.

Boba tea party kit

Boba tea, a snack trend that has almost 100 million related views on TikTok, is an East Asian favorite that is sweeping the nation — but the average cost of getting one of these drinks from a coffee shop is pushing $6. This DIY kit, featuring strawberry, lychee, taro and mango flavors, is bound to satisfy all taste buds, and do so at a fraction of the price.

Breakable Christmas cupcake

Designed to serve 17(!) people, this interactive Belgian chocolate combo is a great dessert centerpiece for a teen group holiday hangout. With red and green chocolate pretzels, chocolate gems, and green chocolate with white frosting, it’s a sure hit (get it???).

Q&A: Celebrating National Siblings Day with Jim and Chris McCann

For 1-800-FLOWERS.COM, Inc., founder and chairman Jim McCann and his younger brother, Chris, the company’s CEO, a career in the floral industry has been more than just a chosen profession — it’s been the thing that has defined and shaped their family legacy for nearly half a century. Growing up with five brothers and sisters (with everyone working at least part time in flower shops), the two have dedicated their lives to providing the world with beautiful blooms, gourmet delights, and other gifts.

Ahead of National Siblings Day, we sat down with Jim and Chris for a conversation about the joys, lessons, and blessings to be drawn from a robust family life, one that has extended well beyond the home, into the worlds of both business and nonprofit, and the brotherly synergy that their journey has helped build.

You have five siblings in your family, which is quite a crew. What were some of the unique benefits of growing up in such a full house?

Jim McCann: Well, we never had to worry about things being too quiet. You always had built-in companions. And, in addition to the noise, there was always a lot of laughter. There were four of us born within five years, and then six years later, another one, to our surprise — Chris.

national siblings day with McCann Brothers and Mom — Jim McCann (right) and Chris McCann with their mom, Claire.

Chris McCann: I grew up in a different sibling environment than Jim did, and because he was already in college when I was growing up. He and I didn’t know each other as well. Then, after college, when he was 24 and I was 15, he first bought a flower shop in Manhattan and I went to work with him, and that work gave us the opportunity to develop a great friendship.

It reminds me of a story my mother used to tell us. As the business started to grow, the thing she was most proud of wasn’t how it grew but how Jim and I, from working together, got to know each other and became great friends.

I also specifically remember working Sunday shifts there with my sister, Julie. She would pick me up in the morning, drive in together, do our work, and then drive out together. So, work was a great opportunity for us all to bond.

Were any other of your family members involved in the flower business, beyond just the two of you and Julie?

Jim: Oh definitely! We’ve all worked in the flower business for many years. Julie just retired recently, Chris and I started our business almost 47 years ago, and our sister, Peggy, had her own store. My mom worked with us, and even our dad would put in some time, outside his painting contractor business, during big floral holidays.

It taught us a lot about shared responsibilities and, as family members, being active participants in love and support, not just passive recipients. The only sibling who wasn’t in the business was our brother, Kevin, who was born with developmental disabilities.

national siblings day with mccann brothers — The McCann brothers (L-R): Chris, Kevin, and Jim.

About eight years ago, though, Chris and I partnered with good friend Walter Stockton, who leads IGHL (Independent Group Home Living), the group home where Kevin lives, to found Smile Farms, which is an agricultural work environment for adults with disabilities. It’s all about helping those adult professionals with precious little to do learn different skills, socialize with the community, and truly have something to look forward to when they get up in the morning.

Chris: It’s been amazing for Kevin, and here’s a great example: One of our favorite get-togethers is Mother’s Day, and late in the day we’ve always all talked shop. Kevin was never part of those conversations, but with Smile Farms he helps to raise the plants that will be sold through 1-800-Flowers.com, so he’s now in the thick of that discussion — what will be ready next for Easter, how the poinsettias for Christmas are coming.

What did growing up with a brother like Kevin teach you, as both siblings and individuals?

Chris: It gave us all the opportunity to learn a tremendous amount about what love really means, and how important it is to see life through the eyes of others, especially somebody with a disability of any sort. And for all our kids, seeing the way we interact with Uncle Kevin has really helped them understand and relate with the life situations of others.

Our families are all now involved with Smile Farms on a regular basis, and my daughter is working with the international Special Olympics, and to see her aiming toward that kind of life and career is very rewarding.

Jim: Our love for Kevin has also helped demonstrate for every generation of our family that they’re part of a bigger ecosystem. It’s important for us to make sure that our kids, who are now parents themselves, and their kids all understand that even when they’re going through a tough time, they’re part of something bigger.

In this case, it’s a family with a mission beyond just “us,” and that mission is to help other people in need, as we do with Smile Farms and other activities. I don’t think it’s an accident that so many in our family feel called to work in the social services. My sister, Julie, did, my sister-in-law Kathy did, and I did. And, as Chris mentioned, his daughter works for the Special Olympics in Washington.

With a family as large and inevitably as busy as yours, how have you and your siblings managed to maintain enriching relationships as you’ve grown older?

Chris: The most important thing is to just make sure we communicate, and though our daily lives don’t usually allow for 20- or 30-minute conversations all the time, just always being able to stay in touch through something like an ongoing text group.

Jim: We have a text group called Sibs, and it’s a fun way to be in each other’s lives, even just to share a cartoon or a newspaper story about the old neighborhood. Social media has also helped us all stay connected, as being a very big family there’s always plenty of new pictures, so Instagram has become our platform of choice.

national siblings day with mccann siblings photo — The five McCann siblings celebrating together.

Our sister, Julie, also has all the old family photographs. So, every month or two, we’ll get a ping and there’s a picture of something like all five of us on Santa’s lap from, like, 100 years ago. Or a picture of our parents, sitting on the beach together.

Things like that help keep the family relationships feeling fresh. And with so many birthdays, Sibs texts also help all of us to keep track and make sure everyone gets to hear from all their aunts and uncles and cousins.

What does a holiday like National Siblings Day mean to two brothers who have started up a successful business together?

Jim: At the end of the day, it’s a reason to pause and reflect on a relationship that you may be fortunate enough to have, or have had, and it’s something you can act on. That’s not to say you have to send a gift, far from it. In some cases, it’s all about just sending a note, or making that decision to set aside time to get together, or getting a nice phone call in at the end of the day. Whatever it may be, just take some positive action.

Chris: National Siblings Day is about reflecting on those of real importance in our lives, and remembering how crucial it is to consciously maintain those special relationships throughout life. The main thing for our family on Siblings Day is just getting in some caring communication. There are five of us, and on that day we make sure to clearly communicate to one another just how important each one is to us.

Why We Give Flowers as a Gift

In an age where the internet allows us to acquire gifts of every manner and origin within days, how have simple fresh flowers managed to remain one of mankind’s most satisfying and surefire gifts? How can these basic yet alluring blooms still elicit certain feelings within both giver and recipient that even rare, expensive gifts sometimes can’t?

“Few other gifts give a person an instant energy change like flowers do.

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Founder of the Jill Manson Floral Design School

Flower therapist and décor specialist Jill Manson, founder of a namesake floral design school in South Africa, says it all comes down to the intrinsic energy of nature, an essence of life that exists both within us and flowers, and the personal benefits that engaging this shared energy provides.

“Plants and flowers are living, breathing organisms, another living consciousness that is part of the same universe we are a part of,” Manson explains. “When we realize this and experience it first hand, a profound peacefulness and sense of belonging can be enabled in our being…a return to a state of wholeness and oneness, and a connectedness that is rooted in positivity.”

Flowers are time tested

Flowers are known to have existed on Earth for nearly 130 million years, and those are just the ones we’ve discovered — the first flowers are thought to have existed as many as 250 million years ago! Though many different forms of life have undoubtedly interacted with flowers since their first appearance, the earliest evidence of humans actually gifting flowers dates to nearly 5,000 years ago, in ancient Egypt, a culture that associated flowers with gods and regularly left floral offerings in sacred spaces.

In the millennia that followed Egyptian rule, flower gifting spread across the globe, thriving especially in ancient Rome. By the mid-1800s, mankind’s fascination with sharing blooms resulted in the emergence of Victorian-era floriography, a full-blown language of flower gifting that defined specific messages to be sent — both loving and disdainful — using certain numbers, colors, and arrangements of flowers.

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Flowers provide instant satisfaction

Flowers can be thought of us a two-way gift, a reward to be experienced by the recipient as well as the giver, who gets to witness the heartwarming reaction any human seems to experience when receiving flowers. Manson elaborates: “After all these years of witnessing the act of giving someone flowers, it still happens: People’s eyes light up. Their whole being seems to exhale. Shoulders drop, and the gaze of the eyes softens as the person connects with what they are holding or seeing. There is a moment of stillness that passes that seems like a humbling of the human spirit.”

Manson also notes that the experience of receiving flowers, unlike that of a manufactured gift, offers immediate rewards. While opening, say, a wrapped necklace results only in a shimmer from a still object, “the gift of flowers invokes a sensory experience that is multi-dimensional — smell, sight, and touch — which is a huge benefit for choosing flowers over any other ‘non-living’ present.” This type of instant satisfaction can provide a quick and positive change in someone’s day, both emotionally and mentally.

Flowers say what words can’t

On certain days that call for elegant expression of our absolute deepest feelings, flowers are a time-honored tradition — roses for Valentine’s Day, white flowers for funerals, specific blooms for each anniversary year. On days as meaningful as these, gifting pure natural beauty instead of mere words will likely always be seen as a silent requirement.

Though such occasion-based floral gifts are often simple and traditional, or distinctly designed and purposeful, they can still be personalized. Nearly all cultures and countries have their own traditions when it comes to flowers, and applying them to a floral gift based on a recipient’s background or preferences can put an extra thoughtful touch on an already poignant present.

Flowers enliven our spaces

Gifting flowers to be placed in common indoor areas can do wonders to passively enliven the atmosphere and, effectually, keep on giving every time a passerby encounters their vibrant sights and smells. “My home and my office feel so empty without flowers or plants in it. When they are in place, I feel a sense of upliftment and general well-being,” Manson says. “In my office, I feel less procrastination to start the daily to-do lists. At home, it feels as if I can breathe more deeply, that my home is blessed by some gentle presence.”

flowers as a gift with woman displaying flowers in kitchen

As for measurable indoor benefits, flowers and plants can ease stuffy conditions by helping to provide oxygen and improve humidity in a space, as they do on a larger scale for Earth. After all, Manson points out, “without plants, mankind cannot survive. This is probably the biggest clue to why plants change the energy of our spaces.” And even when their colors fade and their life as an active bloom ends, dried flowers can serve as charming indoor décor; some even look fantastic when framed, serving as a reminder of both treasured times past and familiar seasons to come.

Flowers relax, energize, and inspire

There’s a reason many people turn to gardening as a means to dispel depression, or visit large-scale gardens to lessen the stress of everyday life: Appreciating flowers is a multifold reward, offering relaxation, energy, and inspiration. “Few other gifts give a person an instant energy change like flowers do,” Manson says. “Flowers bless immediately. It’s as if they are a balm or a tonic, an elixir, that the moment they are received, they breathe life and joy into the recipient.” Studies have also shown that simply being in the presence of something so naturally perfect as flowers can encourage creativity.

Flowers make meaningful connections easy

If you don’t yet know someone well, aren’t familiar with their specific likes and dislikes, or simply just aren’t sure what to gift someone you already know, you can never go wrong with flowers. And when selected to reflect elements of your personal taste, they can also serve as a great introduction to the you within. Try assembling a bouquet of your choosing, explaining its whats and whys to the recipient, and how you feel the blooms relate to them. Receiving a gorgeous living thing as a gift is always a touching experience, but receiving flowers chosen with care and intention can establish an even more substantial connection, and deliver a message with the utmost sincerity.

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The History of Gifting Flowers

history of gifting flowers with older couple giving flowers

Of all nature’s splendor — from its fascinating animals and birds to its breathtaking sunset vistas and colorful life on the ocean floor — few elements are as immediate, personal, and accessible as flowers. From sight and smell to texture and, in some cases, even taste, flowers deliver an all-natural sensory experience like nothing else. And with more than 400,000 known species of flowering plants, it’s no surprise humans have been gathering, studying, and gifting flowers to one another for centuries.

The practice of giving flowers as a gift is a way “for us to speak when there are no words to convey an emotion,” says Jackie Lacey, a floral designer and director of education at the Floriology Institute in Jacksonville, Florida. The exact messages suggested by specific floral gifts can differ widely from one culture to the next, however, so to enhance your next flower giving experience — and to avoid any miscommunication — we asked Lacey to help explain the history of the silent power of gifting flowers.

Greece

Man’s fascination with flowers can be traced back to the spiritual traditions of the ancient Greeks, who Lacey says “used flowers as props for storytelling…[in a] mythology which is full of references to certain flowers being representative of certain gods and goddesses.” Despite this reverence for flowers as signs of the highest of deities, the greatest philosophers of the era also spoke of the blooming and wilting process of every flower as a direct and ever-present reminder from the gods about the briefness of all human lives.

Egypt

Ancient Egyptians also considered flowers holy, placing them in the tombs of the pharaohs as gifts thought to ward off evil spirits and using them in festivals like the extended 11-day “Beautiful Festival of Opet,” which honored the Nile River’s powers of fertility. This celebration saw intricate floral jewelry crafted for the ruling class and towering flower arrangements, featuring the nation’s treasured blue lotus, carried on ceremonial altars along a processional path that featured hanging rose, poppy, and lily garlands.

Japan

Further east, the tradition of constructing floral shrines was resurrected in Japan during the Asuka period, an era of great artistic, political, and social change. Here, however, it took the form of an anytime, any-class national art known as kado, or “way of the flowers.”

“As far back as the 7th century, when floral altars were created, the art [of kado] has been a way of life,” Lacey explains. “This was more of a male discipline historically, but all can practice it in today’s society.”

In modern-day Japan, kado pieces are especially popular housewarming gifts, as well as a commonly used means of raising the spirits of the sick (though never given potted, lest the recipient’s illness take deeper root). Even the simplest of events, such as coming home from vacation, are kado-worthy: The Japanese tradition of gifting souvenirs to friends and family, known as “omiyage,” often involves regional flowers in kado arrangements.

France

One of the earliest practices of assigning specific meanings to certain flowers started when French royal forces traveled through Turkey in the mid-1500s. Upon returning home from his trek, a high-ranking knight named Louis Girard presented a single lily of the valley to King Charles IX, who described the flower as a Turkish good-luck token and sign of spring’s return. King Charles took such a liking to the flower that he gifted a full bouquet to every lady in the royal court, launching a holiday that eventually became known as La Fête du Muguet (“celebration of lily of the valley”).

Over the following century, the tradition spread from the monarchy down to the peasantry, and to this day, every May 1 in France sees flower vendors traversing the streets selling lilies of the valley to passersby of all classes — at tax-free prices, as commanded by the government! Legend has it that any who purchase or receive a lily with 13 blossoms on this day are in for some serious prosperity during the coming season.

England

In Victorian-era England (1837-1901), a society that demanded its citizens maintain airs of constant calm and composure, flower gifting evolved into a means of expressing especially strong emotions that could be considered uncomfortable, or a breach of etiquette, to be spoken aloud. To further this purpose, its citizenry developed floriography, an art of speaking with flowers, including detailed dictionaries explaining specific meanings behind the species, colors, arrangements, and numbers of flowers given to a recipient.

Floriography became an especially useful means of communication between those of different social classes and personal identities. “Many flowers took on special meaning and transferred ‘unspoken’ messages during the time of Oscar Wilde, in 1890s London, [including] the earliest symbols of the LGBT community,” Lacey says. “One of the earliest is the green carnation, worn on the lapel by a man to signify to others they were ‘open to same-sex liaisons.'”

Russia

The language of floriography also exists in Russia, as adopted from western European nations. One uniquely Russian tradition sees flowers of brighter hues as representative of a feeling’s intensity; for example, in romantic circumstances, white roses would be given as a first-date gift, pink roses as appropriate for early-relationship stages, and deep red roses reserved for head-over-heels love. One exclusion is flowers of any yellow hue, as these have come to represent lies, sadness, and a hint that a break-up is approaching (as explained in the famous Russian pop song “Yellow Tulips”).

Beyond all the classic reasons and occasions for gifting (to mourners, the sick, as signs of romance, for birthdays and academic accomplishments), flower gifting in Russia absolutely must occur on specific national holidays, such as Teachers’ Day, Knowledge Day, and Women’s Day (red carnations, symbolic of official national holidays, are always to be reserved for days like these). Regardless of the occasion, plants rooted in pots, rather than cut flowers, are considered the proper gift for elderly women, as signs of extended life.

China

Nearly all the Chinese culture’s earliest poems, proverbs, and artworks utilize flowers known as “The Four Gentleman” — orchid, plum blossom, bamboo, and chrysanthemum — to represent the characteristics of uprightness, purity, humility, and perseverance. Though chrysanthemums are still highly revered, and have come to represent honorable life, Mandarin tradition dictates that gifting chrysanthemums to a tutor is an inappropriate, and even intentionally insulting, act. In such a situation, substituting “sunflowers and carnations, which can show love and respect to a teacher,” is the way to go, Lacey recommends.

Chinese tradition also considers flower gifting as a means to produce real-life results. The culture believes, according to Lacey, that “peonies or dahlias for elders can foster good fortune, and bamboo can send a friend financial success.” Tangible medical reasons for gifting exist as well: Flowers like the Japanese honeysuckle and pagoda flower are historically gifted by loved ones as herbal remedies for the flu and circulatory system ailments.

Spain

Gifting flowers in Spain is seen as a serious move, and, according to Lacey, presents with petals “should be sent specifically, and for special occasions only.” In addition to weddings, funerals, and major holidays, flowers can be sent as an appreciation of hospitality, he notes, adding “potted plants are often sent after dinner parties but never chrysanthemums, red roses, dahlias, and white lilies, as these flowers suggest death.” The safest bets include lilies and Spanish bluebells — both considered free of great emotional meaning — but remember to count your stems: Spanish tradition has it that flowers should be given only in odd numbers (except for the unlucky 13), as even-numbered bouquets are to be saved as funeral gifts.

Australia

While Father’s Day in the U.S. typically sees more tools gifted than blooms, Australian dads have been receiving flowers on their special day since the continent’s early Aboriginal era, when a father’s base responsibility was teaching survival skills to his children. In the wild Outback, this could become a fierce task, so, in recognition of their bravery, flowers were seen as a gentle gift of gratitude from children whose innocence a father sought to protect.

history of gifting flowers with melbourne flower show — A scene from the Melbourne International Flower and Garden Show. (Photo by Chris Phutully, licensed by CC BY-ND 2.0)

Australia’s appreciation of flowers has continued to blossom throughout its colonial era, and is displayed in full during the annual Melbourne International Flower and Garden Show — the largest such festival in all the Southern Hemisphere — which last year drew more 100,000 visitors.

Germany

As in Spain, the number of flowers gifted to a German is just as important as the flowers’ freshness, and for the same reasons. (Beyond superstition, floral traditions in some central European areas, including Germany, insist that odd numbers of flowers are easier to arrange. This claim is based on the fact that many popular blooms grow only an uneven number of petals.)

Unlike Spaniards, however, Germans insist on a greater level of generosity: Simply being invited to a home merits both a bottle of wine for the host and flowers for his or her partner. In such a circumstance, tea roses and yellow roses are favorites (save the reds — they’re suggestive of deep romance, as in America), which, like all floral gifts in Germany, should be unwrapped from any bouquet housing before being handed to a recipient.

Why August Is the Best Month for Birthdays

August, named after the Latin term for “majestic and magnificent,” is summertime’s glorious victory lap. The warmest season always flies by, but, after two months of non-stop fun in the sun, August grants us one last chance to stop and smell the flowers before school resumes and business ramps back up. (There’s a reason National Lazy Day is Aug. 10 and National Relaxation Day is Aug. 15.)

august birthdays with friends having party in swimming pool

August is also a fine month for a birthday — no major holidays to compete with, summer vacations are mostly winding down, we get extra-long periods of daylight, and of the three summer months, August tends to have the least rainfall. And as birthday gifts go, we’ll let you in on a little secret: August is absolute prime time for receiving great presents, that sweet spot on the calendar when we find late-summer clearance sales and new products for fall (and even winter) start hitting the shelves.

But, August babies, it gets even better. You possess some invaluable natural gifts that can’t be wrapped.

August babies are positively lucky

august birthdays with baby playing happily under an umbrella

Nothing beats a lucky streak and the happiness that accompanies it. A European study found those born in the summer months, and August especially, were significantly more likely to consider themselves lucky in life. Another survey links the feeling of luck with less anxiety and neuroticism, and a greater level of outgoing behavior.

Vanderbilt University also found those with August birthdays are less likely to develop depression than those born in the cooler months. Why? Scientists theorize that because mothers who give birth in August are exposed to high levels of vitamin D (aka the “sunshine vitamin”) during the last stages of their pregnancy — a result of the season’s extended daylight hours — their newborn’s “biological clock” may be permanently, and positively, altered.

August babies are healthier in mind and body

Not only are August-born individuals naturally more positive, but they have also been found less likely to suffer from bipolar disorder and schizophrenia than those born in any other month — again thanks to the vitamin D boost they receive from extended exposure to daylight experienced by late-term summer mothers. Furthering that concept, a study in Denmark also found that babies with low vitamin D levels at birth were more likely to develop schizophrenia later in life. Physical benefits abound too: Studies suggest summer babies have the healthiest average birth weights and grow to be taller than most people. Girls born in the summer also tend to experience a later onset of puberty, which is associated with lower risks of breast and throat cancer.

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August’s birth flowers honor and pay homage

August’s first birth flower is the gladiolus, or “sword lily,” a name based on the Latin translation of its genus name as well as its sword-shaped blooms. Native to South Africa, the flower made its way to Europe in the 1700s. Today, it blooms around the world in array of colors, each with a different meaning: A red sword lily declares the giver’s heart is “pierced with love,” yellow expresses warm-hearted compassion, pink is a sign of motherly love, and purple speaks to mysterious charm. The gladiolus also provides more than pretty petals: South Africans have used the sword lily’s roots, blooms, and seed sacs for centuries to treat colic, skin inflammations, and wound infections.

august birtdhays with young woman smelling a red poppy in flower meadow in summer sunset

The poppy, August’s second birth flower, was first cultivated in Mesopotamia nearly four millennia ago, for its pain-relieving properties. Ancient Romans and Greeks collected poppies to honor the dead, a tradition that continues today in this country — Americans wear and display the flower around Memorial Day to memorialize fallen U.S. soldiers.

Despite the poppy’s link to the concept of death, its message is less about mourning, and more about tribute and giving thanks. A vast variety of poppy shades exist, carrying subtle messages: Reds symbolize happiness, and purple poppies represent enchantment. White and cream stand for sympathy and condolence, and yellow conjures wishes of prosperity.

August’s zodiac signs are strong and sure

Leos (July 23–Aug. 22) are July’s natural-born performers and public speakers, and powerful ones at that. Like the sign’s symbol, the lion, a Leo can capture the attention of all around them with sounds that reach almost any volume. They won’t stop their act until everyone notices, but boy do they love the applause — a Leo lives to be showered with praise and admiration. If a Leo’s whole stage is taken, however, things could get loud, and should a Leo’s inner circle be disrespected, the lion’s full roar is on the way. They sure sound intimidating, but however wealthy or powerful, a Leo’s naturally bright smile and warm personality make them feel approachable to people of all ages and levels of society. Barack Obama, Kylie Jenner, Mick Jagger, and Martha Stewart are just a few well-known Leos.

August also births Virgos (Aug. 23–Sept. 22), a practical gang of problem solvers with a thing for modesty and independence — quite a refreshing attitude to encounter in a world of pride and glitz. The typical Virgo lives by logic and practicality, making life choices that leave little to chance. Being meticulous certainly isn’t a bad thing, though Virgos must remember that keeping unreachable ideals can lead to burnout, and applying personal sky-high standards to friends and partners can lead to unfair judgment. Thankfully, the inherently gentle and supportive Virgo nature tends to outshine its critical tendencies. A Virgo’s desire to share and build can make them wonderful teachers, musicians, and doctors. Famous Virgos include Beyoncé, Keanu Reeves, Amy Poehler, Michael Jackson, and Salma Hayek.

How to Decorate for Summer Parties: Shabby Chic® Founder Rachel Ashwell Shares Her Best Tips

summer parties with rachel ashwell holding flowers

Summer is one of the best times of year to entertain. During this season, life slows down a bit, providing plenty of time for planning an unforgettable celebration – as well the right atmosphere for hosting one.

“There’s something a bit more gentle about a summer situation,” says Rachel Ashwell, founder of the celebrated Shabby Chic^® design style and couture brand. “Being outside, near a garden, on a balcony…it lends itself to interacting and catching up on the year’s events.”

There’s a relaxed sort of elegance to summer gatherings that also allows for a bit more whimsy and possibility when decorating and entertaining guests. Being outdoors allows for nature to set the stage blossoming trees and colorful blooms.

As the proud caretaker of a lush rose garden at her Santa Monica home, Ashwell says her favorite summer parties have always been held outdoors. “I like to let the roses and flowers be the star of the show.”

Details make the day

Ashwell has a few signature elements she often likes to include when entertaining: “I use scraps of fabric for bunting, which is an affordable way of creating a great decorative element.” The British-born Ashwell points out this décor tradition began in England after World War II, when citizens took to displaying small Union Jacks strung across long pieces of twine and hung like banners. Bunting was just about anywhere a string could be affixed and it became an informal and quintessentially English way to dress up an event.

For me, parties are all about intimacy, and hosting is all about the simplicity of making a space that supports people connecting.”

Rachel Ashwell

For themed parties, Ashwell suggests tying the bunting style to the concept. A white garden party may call for a uniquely textured white fabric; for a traditional garden party, a specific floral fabric that complements your yard’s live blooms might be more appropriate. Ashwell also is a fan of décor that combines charm and utility. “Placing parasols in the garden is a very summery party element,” she says. “You could attach flowers, or even fairy lights, to make it actually useful in the evening.”

Setting a summer table

Though a lifetime admirer and collector of vintage china, Ashwell says one of her favorite elements of a hosting an outdoor summer party is the option of using paper plates, customized in an inspired manner. “You can really make a white plate come to life by personalizing it. Decorate them beforehand using an embosser, or buy them already embossed with an icon, maybe a certain flower, or a person’s name — or even have the plates custom made.”

summer parties with vases of flowers on a table

Blending formal and informal design elements is a Shabby Chic^® trademark, which, in this case, Ashwell says can be applied to choosing the rest of your table settings. “I also like to layer in things that have more substance, so I prefer cloth napkins. They could be floral, or little plaids, not always just solids.”

Keep your theme and palette in mind when choosing items for your table, such as beverage bottles and any packaging. “I try and keep everything that’s in view aesthetically pleasing, so I’m also mindful of the attractiveness of the bottles of wine, water, and drinks, as there are really pretty drinks out there these days.”

Keep things cool, light, and lively

Above all, Ashwell believes that a great party gives guests room to communicate and engage with one another.

“Sometimes you go to a party and can’t see people, or you can’t really talk to them,” she says. “For me, parties are all about intimacy, and hosting is all about the simplicity of making a space that supports people connecting. So I make sure to remain mindful of practicality, not just aesthetics.”

To her, the idea is to plan an outdoor celebration by working with your environment and making the most of what nature has to offer. That means building shaded spaces in your layout and keeping an air-conditioned indoor room near the action for folks who need a breather.

Ashwell’s mantra of beauty, comfort, and function begins with seating and surfaces: Having a round table at a party tends to make it easier for guests to communicate with one another, and using low floral displays on the table allows for better eye contact.

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At an outdoor summer party, don’t be afraid to encourage little playful moments that make people feel at ease. “I personally have a massive collection of vintage floral hats, and I always have baskets of those for my guests to wear. It’s not quite dress-up, just something nice and festive, and it makes for great photos,” Ashwell says. “People can often be inhibited about ‘Smile for the camera!’ and this can loosen the atmosphere a bit.”

A reunion to remember

Summer is also prime season for class or family reunions, celebrations that are about collectively experiencing the past, in the present. To aid in this process, Ashwell suggests assembling a “visual memory lane, or a little exhibit of what your reunion is about that represents your shared memories.” Try building multiple memory boards on eye-level easels that feature photos and items from the past, and suggest on your invitations that guests bring their related materials to post. This, Ashwell says, sets the scene for “an interactive ‘Oh my, you still have that?!’ type of scenario.”

Let the fun in the sun commence

At day’s end, Ashwell finds the key to hosting a party that entertains and satisfies is creating an environment that brings people together to recount shared memories while inspiring moments that create new ones.

She says, “I’m all about the meaning of gatherings. So anything you can arrange that jogs memories, causes reflections or communication, enables meaningful conversations, makes a much more successful party than some major, fancy situation with loud music and so much space that you don’t get to see anybody.”